I haven;t done anything wrong...nothing. I was referring to my earlier post trying to be positive for Just Jo. Maybe you missed that.

And I'm not off topic. If you have something against me personally, then PM me please...because that's what this feels like.

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Ivan E. Coyote

Brains, humor, a way with words, and an adorable smile.... works for me! :)

So many over-40 crushes!

Ivan E. Coyote
Amy Ray
Kay Ryan
Alison Bechdel
Toshi Reagon
Eileen Myles
Tracy Chapman
Ferron
Cheryl Dunye
Gayle Rubin

For more, see http://www.tophotbutches.com/the-2009-list/

And when I feel really bold, maybe I'll reveal my over 40 (and over 50!) regular-people crushes, some of which might just be right here ;)

Jet,

I know you think that you havent done anything wrong but please do not talk back to our Moderators like this. Its rude and disrespectful.

This moderation wasnt personal and was discussed between 3 different moderators. Now, lets get this thread back on track.

Thanks,
Admin

so lets see....big time crush on my sweetie Jo(f) then...
i crush on..
Lady Pamela
Violaine(dont think she is old enough to be in this category but oh well)
Diva
NYCFembbw(she isnt old enough either i dont think but again oh well)
The Daywalkers
Kat/AllyJ

and since i put so many REGULAR ppl i feel i can throw in Kristy McNichol(omg loved that woman) and
Olympia Dukakis--i know she is up there but dammit she is hot and sassy(at least in Steel Magnolias)


but they dont hold a candle to you sweetheart ;)

Awwwwwww....... :kissy: you're sweet baby (and that's a pretty amazing group if I do say so myself!) :)

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Got to agree! Sexy and talented too!

i have to admit i haven't thought of Mindy Cohn in forever, but i just found this picture of her

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that is one beautiful lady!

i also had it bad for Kristy McNichol and Nancy McKeon.

my BFP crushes are too many to name! :byebye:

WOOT!!!

(f)

ok so i read this wrong...i thought our crushes had to be 40 or above--even tho some i posted arent....didnt realize u had to BE 40 to post....damn old ageism

Our poet laureate, Kay Ryan

http://www.pbs.org/newshour/art/blog/images/ryan.JPG

Author of Crybaby Blues. Sigh. She is married to another professor. They have two kids.

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another of Kay Ryan. She can write too. Big Sigh. She's more or less local, but no sightings of yet.

http://blogs.loc.gov/loc/files/2010/03/kay-ryan.jpg

Elizabeth Montgomery was my first crush as a child, watching Bewitched. As she aged, she became all the more beautiful to me.

Isabelle Rosallini makes my head swirl..the reaction is immediate and intense when I run across her in a film unexpectantly

Queen Latifa is HOT, as is Tracie Chapman.

If Kirstie Alley would just butch out already, I would ask her to marry me. Anyone who loves lemurs is ok in my book...

I love butches of size, too, and there just isnt any in the media (that I know of). The ones who have been in my life were very attractive to me. None of them were truly ok with their size. I was!

On a context note, I want to point out how it feels when you are the young blonde, slim, blue eyed porcelain skinned female in this country. My daughter is one of those. I worked HARD at getting her to not buy into the "desired image" of our culture. She hated that people saw her as that image and devalued me, her mother, who has always been plump, curvy, dark, olive skinned, and now, older and silver haired. She has always valued people for who they are and not what they look like and has had to battle those stereotypes...as well as people who unintentionally devalue her beauty because it IS the desired image. She loves to be beautiful and will advocate her right to be beautiful but also fights to include, not exclude anyone in the realm of beautiful...

she told me the other day, "Mo, you havent looked more beautiful than you do now"...wow...I was blown away...but I had to think it over and realized that she was right...and it was exactly how I felt about myself too!

I WANT a butch with wrinkles, and lovely looser skin, and silver in their hair. Youth feels so unfamiliar to me and I have no desire to lean against someone who hasnt dialed a rotary phone nor ever listened to 45s...the only dance I do nowadays are with those who treasure my aging process...

In femmes, Lena Olin is my favorite. As i was growing up though it was Diana Rigg (The Avengers) and Anne Francis (Honey West).

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