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Rockinonahigh 07-14-2010 12:17 PM

One thing I should have done in the past is take better care of me insted of busting my ass doing things for ppl who didnt appresheate it.Over the years I have given so many ppl in my life slack when they did things that were not good for me cause I was a ppl pleaser insted of seeing them for who and what they were befor it was to late...this caused me no end of self dislike for being such a push over.Now im a lot more careful and not as trusting as I once was...I really hate that I have lost a lot of trust I once had of ppl's objectives.I would like to think I can still trust folks and I do in reality its just I wonder when I let ppl into my life if they are going to use me for whatever thay want then..im nothing but an object to get the place they want to be or get.I hope that made some sence,well I did to me anyway..

MrSunshine 07-14-2010 01:22 PM

There was a time I would (I even had that as a wish in my profile) but now, no way. I wouldn't want to take the chance of having to re-live some of the shit I've lived through. Once was more than enough.

chefhottie25 07-14-2010 07:22 PM

I wouldn't do anything different. It has been a crazy ride and a beautiful journey. I needed to take them both to grow.

Leigh 07-14-2010 08:00 PM

There are a couple of things that I would have done differently, but right now I think that I was meant to do things as they were and it has moulded Me into the person that I am today :thumbsup:

sweetfemme247 07-14-2010 08:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Braedon (Post 153125)
There are a couple of things that I would have done differently, but right now I think that I was meant to do things as they were and it has moulded Me into the person that I am today :thumbsup:

I could think of a couple things you could of done differently

Leigh 07-14-2010 08:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by everettdiva
I could think of a couple things you could of done differently


Yes I agree I could have and I wanted to, but there's nothing I can do about that now right? Its in the past and I cant change that

sweetfemme247 07-14-2010 08:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Braedon (Post 153140)
Yes I agree I could have and I wanted to, but there's nothing I can do about that now right? Its in the past and I cant change that

i was only teasing no need to get defensive

Jesse 07-14-2010 08:24 PM

If anything at all, I would have learned certain lessons the first time rather than having to experience repeated performances.

sweetfemme247 07-14-2010 08:26 PM

if i could change something from the past it would be not give people so many chances when it comes to love and dont trust to many people with my feelings and life............ nothing I can change now, I have made alot of friends and also came across alot of people who are full of drama and love to just sit and gossip about everyone and everything.

Lynn 07-14-2010 08:33 PM

I wish I had sought the help of career advisors at important junctures in my life. I became a social worker because I wanted to help people, but also because it seemed like the easiest route to a career. Well, it was. But, now that I'm older and really interested in growing, professionally, I am finding it financially impossible to go back to school. I wish I had become a lawyer. I could have helped people, been intellectually challenged, and actually have made a decent living. It does get tiring when I have to worry about paying the bills every single month.

Otherwise, I'm pretty happy with the way things have turned out. If I had made other decisions, I might not have the joys of my children, my home, and my relationship.

Soft*Silver 07-14-2010 09:02 PM

I would not have been sitting at that red light when the semi hit my car

I would not have drank Nov 11 2008

I would have moved to a warmer state but one that still had fall

I would have had one or two more children

I would have gone on for my PhD

ruthie14 07-14-2010 09:59 PM

I would have gotten a bachelors degree instead of an assoiciates.

I would have tried to have a child earlier.. maybe then I could have had one of my own.

I would have come out a lot earlier had I known.

I would not trust so easily, forgive so readily, or take crap from anyone for who I am.

Woulda shoulda coulda .... gets me no where

ravfem 07-15-2010 11:20 AM

i'd go back to March 9, which is "Get Over It" Day so i could go round tellin
everybody to just get over it already! (starting with myself)

:nixon:

BornBronson 07-20-2010 02:54 PM

If I could turn back time...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by BornBronson (Post 151634)
I was a Hollywood runaway rape victim at age 11.That turned me into the person that I became for the next 30 years of my life...it was not a nice person.I couldn't see how wrong my life style was until just recently.I was a brute,a monster,especially to the female race.Some of you experienced that side of me personally.I'm sorry.

Of course there's no turning back time.

I'm much nicer these days,trust me.

In other words I would of never ran away to Hollywood.
I hate that town.*snort*

Thanks for all your feedback.

Boots13 07-20-2010 03:09 PM

Oh yeah, without a doubt
I definitely would have

lifted with my legs !

My back is killiing me.
:hospital-snoopy:


I'm really serious about this...

Venus007 07-21-2010 01:05 AM

Misspent youth (pun intended)
 
I would have taken all that money I spent on booze and drugs in my wild, wild youth and invested it, I could have been retired by now.

Words 07-21-2010 01:53 AM

I wouldn't have left home at 16.

I would have done it sooner.

NJFemmie 07-21-2010 07:04 AM

There are things I wish didn't happen.
There have been moments in my life I wish I could erase.
In retrospect, the things I've learned because of it all have been priceless, and for that reason, I wouldn't change it. I might have wanted to tweak it a little, but certainly not change it.

JustJo 07-21-2010 07:30 AM

Pick different parents :cheesy:

MsTinkerbelly 07-21-2010 07:56 AM

I have thought long and hard about this, since my answer to this question has always been "I wouldn't change a thing, because all I have I owe to where I've been", but that doesn't hold so true any more.

I would have had more children for certain, although my Amy has always been enough.

I would have spent more time with my Mom and Dad before they passed....God, I miss them every single day. I have no regrets about the quality of our relationships, but I feel cheated out of time with them.

That is all I guess. (f)


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