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Mister Bent 11-22-2009 07:02 PM

awesome!
 
I'm totally inspired now to get e some night wears for her upcoming birthday!

evolveme 11-22-2009 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Mister Bent (Post 10425)
I'm totally inspired now to get e some night wears for her upcoming birthday!

Oh, yes! Please!

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Andrew, Jr. 11-22-2009 07:10 PM

Boom Boom Pow
 
A certain gal :drool::deepthoughts::tease::daddy::tongue: just thinking outloud

Vlasta 11-22-2009 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Legendryder (Post 10420)
No, I am not thread stalking you V. roflmao

no not you ;).... I stalk you too when I worry if you are feeling good and as far I remember you used to like my nighties , but then again you were snoring too much :tongue:

sorry for derail y"all , ya know these ex's .... but at least we are good friends :) and not spiting fire here .

Legendryder 11-22-2009 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Vlasta (Post 10437)
no not you ;).... I stalk you too when I worry if you are feeling good and as far I remember you used to like my nighties , but then again you were snoring too much :tongue:

sorry for derail y"all , ya know these ex's .... but at least we are good friends :) and not spiting fire here .

I did, very much so. And sorry about the snoring thing. rofl I wake myself up sometimes.

Vlasta 11-22-2009 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Legendryder (Post 10440)
I did, very much so. And sorry about the snoring thing. rofl I wake myself up sometimes.

lmao ... I know , but I used to that so I was fine with it ... and stop stalking me before moderator comes in this thread and tell us off ...... you are derailer ;) not me I am a good girl ...lol

Mister Bent 11-22-2009 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by evolveme (Post 10430)

Really?

Cuz I was kind of thinking...


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Legendryder 11-22-2009 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Vlasta (Post 10451)
lmao ... I know , but I used to that so I was fine with it ... and stop stalking me before moderator comes in this thread and tell us off ...... you are derailer ;) not me I am a good girl ...lol

Suuuurrrrreeeee you are. :superfunny:

Blaze 11-22-2009 07:31 PM

Hmmm, I think I like it in Blue, would go good with my tent, and perhaps some serenity prayers... Yes definately the Blue, wonder if it comes in Camo?

NotAnAverageGuy 11-22-2009 09:24 PM

For the ladies, I could use some ideas, advice, etc....

When a certain femme comes to visit me from out of town, what is the best way for my house to be cleaned, I do it myself or hire someone to clean it from top to bottom?

Should I buy certain candles she likes? Certain foods?

Diva 11-22-2009 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by NotAnAverageGuy (Post 10516)
For the ladies, I could use some ideas, advice, etc....

When a certain femme comes to visit me from out of town, what is the best way for my house to be cleaned, I do it myself or hire someone to clean it from top to bottom?

Should I buy certain candles she likes? Certain foods?


If You're a clean freak, do it Yourself. If not, hire out. Make sure the bathroom is clean ~ no hair in the sink, plenty of TP, a clean handtowel, maybe even a little basket (if there's room on the counter) with special soap, lotion, travel sized shampoo, etc. It's a nice touch.

Clean linens on the bed, of course.

It would be a very nice gesture to find out her likes and dislikes as far as her preferences ~ drink (alcholic and non- ) of choice, snack preferences, food likes and dislikes, allergy issues. Does she like Peppermint Patties? Favorite candy? Favorite cheese and crackers? Does she like apples as opposed to pears?

It might seem like some work at first, but to her, You will be thoughtful.

NotAnAverageGuy 11-22-2009 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Diva (Post 10521)
If You're a clean freak, do it Yourself. If not, hire out. Make sure the bathroom is clean ~ no hair in the sink, plenty of TP, a clean handtowel, maybe even a little basket (if there's room on the counter) with special soap, lotion, travel sized shampoo, etc. It's a nice touch.

Clean linens on the bed, of course.

It would be a very nice gesture to find out her likes and dislikes as far as her preferences ~ drink (alcholic and non- ) of choice, snack preferences, food likes and dislikes, allergy issues. Does she like Peppermint Patties? Favorite candy? Favorite cheese and crackers? Does she like apples as opposed to pears?

It might seem like some work at first, but to her, You will be thoughtful.


Ohhhhh awesome Miss Diva thank you for answering with honesty:rrose:

LOL@ clean bed linens, that is a must for sure :nerd:

Hudson 11-23-2009 03:51 PM

I like the 'night wears' (and day wears) from
Agent Provocateur, LaPerla and La Senza

Laidbackgrly 03-08-2010 05:06 PM

to buy or not to buy
 
make her buy it!

Jedi 03-13-2020 03:26 PM

OK....I'm not sure how to even explain this whole thing but here goes.......Femmes I need answers as to why other femmes act the way they do. And I just wasn't happy being disrespected. OK here goes the story......there was this femme that I have known for many years but just online and there was never anything between us except friendship as far as I knew. Well when we met I was single. But that isn't the case anymore. She insisted on calling me Hun and Babe even when I requested she stop. I was told that was how she talked. This femme is very high maintenance and expects to be catered to. Now I agreed to do some work for her which she kinda took as a free line to me whenever she wanted. Now I'm not much for talking on the phone. and this femme would insist it was business and we just HAD to talk etc. It really just ended up being over an hour of my time wasted on nothing. And she was impossible to get off the phone once she was on.

Now all this behavior was sending me the signals that she was trying to stake some claim to me that she has no right to. Am I wrong in that?
I mean she was very into talking all the time and taking up my time and I spent a good amount of time doing work for her. I have seen NO payment for any of it.

Now this fall we met in person and spent a day. She met my gf and everything. She was high maintenance all day which really wears me thin. Then she stopped at Walmart and I opted to wait in the car. When she finished shopping like 45 min to an hour later she threw a fit that she was disabled and legally blind (meanwhile she's driving all over in a rental car)etc. But I needed the break and wasn't going to apologize for it. Another red flag to me. I ain't your butch! Since I haven't been paid at all, I started setting boundaries with her as to how I would communicate with her. This ended our working relationship. Now I'm still owed total payment which I'm not holding my breath for.

Tell me.....did I miss read this whole situation? I think I was just too nice for to long.

~ocean 03-13-2020 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Jedi (Post 1263395)
OK....I'm not sure how to even explain this whole thing but here goes.......Femmes I need answers as to why other femmes act the way they do. And I just wasn't happy being disrespected. OK here goes the story......there was this femme that I have known for many years but just online and there was never anything between us except friendship as far as I knew. Well when we met I was single. But that isn't the case anymore. She insisted on calling me Hun and Babe even when I requested she stop. I was told that was how she talked. This femme is very high maintenance and expects to be catered to. Now I agreed to do some work for her which she kinda took as a free line to me whenever she wanted. Now I'm not much for talking on the phone. and this femme would insist it was business and we just HAD to talk etc. It really just ended up being over an hour of my time wasted on nothing. And she was impossible to get off the phone once she was on.

Now all this behavior was sending me the signals that she was trying to stake some claim to me that she has no right to. Am I wrong in that?
I mean she was very into talking all the time and taking up my time and I spent a good amount of time doing work for her. I have seen NO payment for any of it.

Now this fall we met in person and spent a day. She met my gf and everything. She was high maintenance all day which really wears me thin. Then she stopped at Walmart and I opted to wait in the car. When she finished shopping like 45 min to an hour later she threw a fit that she was disabled and legally blind (meanwhile she's driving all over in a rental car)etc. But I needed the break and wasn't going to apologize for it. Another red flag to me. I ain't your butch! Since I haven't been paid at all, I started setting boundaries with her as to how I would communicate with her. This ended our working relationship. Now I'm still owed total payment which I'm not holding my breath for.

Tell me.....did I miss read this whole situation? I think I was just too nice for to long.


she's crushing on you ~ that's why she got nasty ~ "run forest runnnn " don't look back !! lol gl jedi

CherylNYC 03-14-2020 08:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Jedi (Post 1263395)
OK....

Tell me.....did I miss read this whole situation? I think I was just too nice for to long.

You were far too nice for far too long. And she's a jerk, and possibly a narcissist. This isn't femme-specific behavior, either. Of course it's entirely possible that she had romantic expectations of you, but even if that was the case, she expressed it like a really big jerk!

PlatinumPearl 03-14-2020 09:04 AM

What kind of work did you do for her? Are you able to retract the work or revoke her rights to access the content until she provides payment?

C0LLETTE 03-14-2020 09:44 AM

Jedi: "And she was impossible to get off the phone once she was on."
What happened to "click...hang up" once the hairs on the back of your neck stood up?
And what was it you wanted, given you already "were not single anymore". To me it seems you hung in there far too long for all of this to be blamed on her.
Maybe you should take this as a learning moment about your own behaviour and then move on.

Jedi 03-14-2020 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by C0LLETTE (Post 1263421)
Jedi: "And she was impossible to get off the phone once she was on."
What happened to "click...hang up" once the hairs on the back of your neck stood up?
And what was it you wanted, given you already "were not single anymore". To me it seems you hung in there far too long for all of this to be blamed on her.
Maybe you should take this as a learning moment about your own behaviour and then move on.

I did say I was too nice for too long. But I did finally set the boundaries I needed to and she got mad.


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