the 1st date. i know for sure. but i don't date girls. i date butches. but if anyone wants to see you again a 2nd time, they are into you.

If you wake up Thursday morning and she's in your kitchen in her panties sipping OJ out the jug.

She just might be into you

Prox, let me put this as plainly as I can
 

She IS into you!

I have read this thread from the start and all the signs she has given are green lights. Go forward assuming she is into you, not questioning it.

Relax and enjoy.

But I also want to say, that if she dates a lot of women, don't forget this either. Not sure what you are looking for in this situation but I would not advise you to assume you are the only one she is into.

Cool?

She walked and talked with me for a long time, picked me a :rrose: before her bus came, and kept on waving goodbye from the bus window the first time we met.We were married for over thirty years.

Want to add my own little quandary
 

I can be so clueless sometimes. And I miss opportunities. This frustrates me.

Today's example:

Coming home from work, tired, a bit disheveled. Just thinking about dinner and a hot bath. As I am getting my two dogs out of the truck, I see a veeeery cuuuute woman unloading a u-haul truck. I am so ...? I honestly don't know (shy, clueless, ?) I barely even look her way. She stops what she is doing and smiles at me. I smile and say hi, then realize I forgot something in the truck, go back and get it. As I head towards home again she is still standing there smiling. I say hi again (dork?) as we walk past her.

It does not dawn on me until I am in the bath that she had stopped what she was doing and was smiling at me. Who knows, maybe she was just tired and taking a break. Maybe she liked my dogs. Maybe her face is stuck in a smile naturally. But maybe, just maybe she was open to me saying something more than hi. Maybe something like welcome to the neighborhood? Maybe I will get another chance if I can even remember what she looked like. UGH!

This is just today's example. I feel like my cluelessness makes me completely oblivious to these types of situations/opportunities in the moment. It is only after the fact that I sometimes get it.

Can anyone relate?

I confused hunger one time :)

Being into you does not equate 4ever!

When after your done talking and you tell her to have a nice day and she say's don't tell me what to do!

oh, how to tell if she's INto you? read that wrong

I must read this thread.... always gussing...

Don't forget to drop the soap!
 

If she shouts from her long hot shower "join me"

She just might be into you

All is unvailed
 

I agree with you, not just from the FB breakup stand point, but more importantly, you're giving someone access to a lot of your stuff - who your friends are, photos, other personal info, that you might not want them to have right away. I have my reasons for being a paranoid freak!


Me, Devil's Advocate: I'm with the turned tables contingent. Sounds like you're into her, so why not let her know? That doesn't necessarily mean you're placing any pressure on her. Sometimes you just have to leap.

See!!! I'm not the only "downer"

When she loves you warts and all, she is in to you!

Ah, thank you! ;)

I haven't heard back from her in two days, but she is a busy woman - going to school, working, and being the vocalist in her band... very busy, indeed.

I will not forget I'm the only girl she's into, and the way I see it, I'm not necessarily looking for a girlfriend... so whatever happens, will happen... I just know I like her ;)

I'm one of those girls, who, unless you outright kiss me - I don't really know if you're into me or not :lol2:

I totally do this too!!!

Or, I tend to assume that the only reason a girl is interested in me, when she does make it obvious, is for carnal reasons (this has happened to me in the past and my heart was broke a little bit). I just don't know how to tell if a girl is interested in me for sex or for more, for who I am and not just what I can do for her in the bedroom (or the car, living room, kitchen, shower, etc. :P). It makes me honestly distrustful.

If she says "hi" to you in the middle of a crowded place and smiles, her voice all cute and sweet... is she into you? :lol2:

When actions speak louder than words

Oh, yes..... I can relate! yes.... "after-the-fact" is my middle name!

I'm so naive... relationships are my forte; dating, however, is not :lol2:

If one of her closest friends says she'll hook you up with her... good sign? :lol2:

treat her the way you feel about it... If you want just sex then be honest about it, but your tone implies that you are looking for something a bit more, so treat her like it, she will either reciprocate or not. It also never hurts to talk or ask about it, keeps the air clear so you can see what's coming and maneuver accordingly.

I have always appreciated when some else can express what there interest is. It doesn't mean anything more than this is how i fell and what i am looking for at this moment

Ummmm.....no clue.

I'm one of those dense people when it comes to flirting. Years ago, in a group of friend/acquaintances I jokingly said "how come you all flirt with each other and no one flirts with me?"

There was general laughter and then one was kind enough to inform me "uh, Jo...we do...you just don't get it."

True story.

One girl told me it made her feel "a little jealous" when I told her about this beautiful love letter I had from an ex-girlfriend who I adore. I think she might be into me... ;)

:lol2:

If she hugs you, kisses your cheek and says "text me tomorrow" but then texts you an hour later telling you how cute you are... she might be into you ;)

I'm on my I phone typing this but for me I can feel it and someone's lack of actions will.tell me every time

If you tell me you are gonna so something and you don't etc

Lots of the things show when someone is just not into you

Personally I think I'm a Damn good catch and someone is crazy not.to.be into.me.lol

If you give her bottom a little spank and she starts following you around, she is into you; if she calls the cops she's not.......

Join the club,for years I had and still have a dense qulity.Sometimes it just goes over my head..

Ummm.... so......

Why not just say "I'm into you?"

I know, I'm no fun.....

:blink:

I'm still painfully naive about whether or not she likes me... ha... ha... :o