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do not..
Do NOT say sh*t that you know you don't mean.
Say "yes" when you mean yes and "no" when you mean no, anything else is misleading. Don't play games, be REAL for f**ks sake! Don't discuss Private matters with outsiders. Don't lose your identity, and don't ask them to become somehting else other than what they are. Don't take them for granted. Don't become their Personal Jesus. Don't put expectations on them, that you yourself aren't willing to meet. Don't abuse them in any way. If you no longer love them, let them go...don't keep playing games for your own benefit. It's wrong!! Don't cheat, if ya ain't happy with her/him...get the hell out!! and....do not think that you are "ALL THAT"....you ain't! |
Don't expect the other party to be a mindreader. Fully disclose who/what you are, what your intentions are and most importantly what your expectations are of the other party.
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Speaking only from my experiences...Don't become lovers before you become friends. Like someone alot before you fall in love.
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Don't take your partner for granted - let them know you appreciate all that they do for you. <3
Don't stop dating one another even if, you know, they're stuck with you. xosqueak |
DO NOT get with someone thinking you can help them "change"!
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dont lay all your shit out at once in the beginning. Because then if it doesnt work out they have it all....build into it...slowly......then as you build into something, they have it all....
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The long explanation: Don't get into a relationship with the hopes it will fill something inside of you. Instead take care of your own emotional stuff, expect the other person to take care of theirs as well. Then see what each of you has to bring to the table, so to speak.
The short version: Don't agree to be a baggage handler for others! |
Don't ignore the voices that speak to you. Well, let me say that differently. :blink:
Listen to your gut and listen to the Universe, even when they are telling you something that you don't understand or you can't see. Don't ignore your gut and the Universe. |
dont think you are taking my side of the bed
dont complain about my dog. She stays. You wont. she can pee on the floor. Dont even think of it. dont leave dishes in the LR for me to pick up ditto for the bedroom if you raise your voice to me you best be sitting down. If you stand up, and yell, its intimidating and I will not respond well. Fair warning. I dont care which way you put the TP on, just put it on when it runs out on your shift if you go into the dryer to get something out, take them all out AND FOLD THEM. dont leave one swig of anything in the fridge and not tell me or not pick it up yourself at the store. pet food, milk for coffee and TP are the three things this house must never run out of. And I am not the only responsible adult in this relationship. Remember this. dont not clean the sex toys. Nasty dirty bad in a not good way |
Do not be mean to my son. Simon... He is the cutest sweetest puppy in the whole world.
Do not ever ask me to get rid of my son. Wont happen I will walk away from you so fast. Do not be non chalant in regards to my moms death. It had a huge impact on my life and its made me who I am today. I miss her daily every day. Understand that I am closterphobic. I will not sleep on the inside of my bed by the wall. So please dont ask me to move my spot in the bed Do not ask me to do the dishes and then complain when I do them. Or any household chores for that matter... Never introduce me as a friend to your ex's or friends when we are together And last but not least. You know the chocolate ho ho's in my pantry? DO NOT touch one of them. (Joking) And for the love of God dont touch anything of mine chocolate... :) |
don't talk about a future with me if you're not serious about it
don't make a promise to me, break it, promise it again and then get huffy when i'm wary and remind you of the first time you broke it don't swear tooth&nail you're not into someone else when you're involved with them the whole time - fucking own up to it and let me know you're not interested don't agree to something or tell me what i want to hear just to make me happy - it's extremely misleading don't expect me to put my life on hold for you to get over your issues and come around. i will walk away realize that sometimes the words you don't say speak louder than the actions you're doing don't break the trust i have in you and expect to gain it back so freely. it will take a lot |
And above all (for me) be honest and up front always and treat me the way you would want to be treated!!!
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never tell everyone all your secrets and fears right away
Never try to help someone with depression if they arent showing any interest in you wanting to help them never ignore your gut instincts never let someone send you money even when you tell them not to because eventually they will might rub it into your face never back down on your opinions or feelings because that is your right in this world |
relationship no no's
Don't date someone who is in a "dead end relationship' and is now ready to leave it because you came along. You're not that wonderful, they weren't born to love you. It just means they are too afraid to be alone, or not grown up enough to make it on their own, and when they get bored or mad or scared ( insert any reason here)they will leave you for someone else, actually anyone else. Any old port in a storm.
Don't date someone who is ready and willing to move in with you in less than 2 months. Heck less than 6 months even. This can only mean one thing. They are very bad at managing their money and will be more than happy to spend yours for you. Another clue they are bad with money and deep in debt, they move around alot. If they have moved like 5 times in 5 years, better grab your purse and run. |
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- don't say things just because you know i want/like it... be YOU.. be honest, i'm well aware everyone is different and will respect you more for honesty!
- don't push everything at high speed.. i've learned that time, and getting to know each other should be at a pace - so everything can develop because we want it to, not because we feel we have to ... |
never accept someone who doesnt accept your child(ren) no matter how old they are. PERIOD.
dont accept when they say they have no money to spend on you but spend lots of money with or on their best friend. Never ever take second fiddle in a relationship and never ever listen to their long list of playing you a fool.... its not ok to be left an empty tank most or all of the time. again, being played...he isnt a big kid who can take advantage of you its not ok to be drunk all the time to make love. Huge issues there. More than issues. Its a subscription! its not ok to be lied to. Lies are never ok. |
never allow your partner make you feel less a person then you are
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Never, settle!
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never pay for everything... all the time
never lie |
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