Rook, you know what they say about Ohio....if you don't like the weather, wait a little bit and it will change! lol.

I miss having someone too, but sometimes it's ok too. It's the days when I am "so" worked up "internally", that I really miss having someone....have to take "matters in my own hands" so to speak.

Yeh, being single does have its major perks....

Don't have to be careful not to 'appreciate' a beautiful lady walkin by...
Don't hafta worry that you're flirting too much for someone's taste....
Don't have to place a bet you're sleeping on the couch for a week or more simply cuz u asked someone out for a beer......
Don't have to worry the Game u wanna watch is gonna be cancelled due to the inevitable Season Finale of 'Desperate Housewives' or 'Law & Order'....
No squabbles over what to eat...or where to eat it....
No worrying about pissing a person off simply cuz well....they're moody....{that time of month, where's the chocolate ?!?!?!}

Bad side of it?
A pillow doesn't quite cuddle back...
It's actually more fun to eat With someone.
Healthy debates on idiotic stuff like 'which Owl is cuter', or 'Why a particular Ferret is overtly aggressive towards one and a total baby with another' (same for cats or dogs)....
Going out alone can be an unpleasant adventure...{this must be a personal thing...I visit some places cuz it's fun to observe, NOT cruising, kthnxbai}
A shower can be far more Interesting with company(hehe).....
A decent excuse to spend 2 fuggin hours shoppin for food.
No need to 'appreciate' whatever/whomever walks by....
Another excuse to spend hours within a Florist shop..heh

Yep, the joys of being QuirkyAlone in Ohio {it's sunny at the moment, btw}
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Still working on trying to find the perks of being single. I guess not being under someone's thumb all the time. And I do enjoy flirting with all the lovely butchies!

I miss having someone to come home to, cuddle up to, ask advice to, make love to, make meals for, etc etc etc....

But I am looking forward to dating again!

A great weekend to All !!
 

sometimes it is good to just spend time with one's self.... make sense ?

That does make sense, but on the other me, myself and I are getting tired of each others company! LOL

Hope everyone has a terrific friday!

There are lots of little "misses" but for me the big one seems to be feeling like someone especially cares to love me up if I've had a no-good very bad day. I carry a lot of responsibility in my day to day life and knowing I can just let go and let down the in charge place and be nurtured and safe is a huge one for me.

Even though I'm starting to date a little that type of trust and intimacy takes a while to really grow and usually comes about from feeling that a relationship is deepening.

LMAO
 

Try being Stone and spending to much time with me, myself and I..... good weekend to U!

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Talking to myself is starting to get to me! And I'm tired of making all the decisions. I have to boss people around at work all day. I'd prefer to answer to someone when I got home! lololol

For me....lonely femme....says it all.

I feel the same as Wolfy.

Singles !
 

You all sound like very awesome and amazing people. My question is did anyone on the single thread ever date each other? If not why ? I can look at the posts and see a few really Great Couples forming here !!! Just an outside observation ! xoxo

I have not dated anyone in this thread, but I do have an ex registered here that never comes to the site anymore.

I'm probably the oldest amongst these singles, so reading their posts is enjoyable for me, also.

In this particular thread? I'm not sure, diva....
I have a bad habit of not reading back-postings past 2 pages...
Short attention span will eventually make Me forget my intention to Post.:blink:

I did date someone from this thread. Hy lives in Ireland, which is hard to really make time for each other. We are still very good friends!

Zimmeh

Someone who cares about my day, good or bad. Who wants to know how the errands went. Who likes to find out what new song I enjoy. Who shares my small successes and little failures. Yes, I miss that. You are so right.

Hey Singles, yes it would be nice if we could all find love with this thread. I wish it was that easy. If it was I would be hanging out here more often. I'm like Rook, I'm lucky if I read the whole page. Of course most of the time I can't find my cheaters( glasses). Lol

These folks do sound very awesome and amazing don't they!

I'm a year out of a 14 year relationship (well technically two as the last year we cohabitated we had gone into room-mate mode) so just now putting my toes back into the dating pool. Most of the singles here live quite aways from me and I'm not sure if a LDR would work for me. I know reading other threads that people have made it work for them, and Zimmeh I see you gave it a try.

How do the rest of you feel about LDR's?

Oh by the way hope everyone has a great weekend! The weather here is just beautiful today!

Been in one and it worked. It did end but not because of the distance. Whether someone lives down the road; or across the country, it really does depend on the people involved in the relationship.

Few more weeks and I'll be enjoying that beautiful weather!

I also live far away from most up here in Canuckistan (aka Western Canada).

I have done long distance but never met anyone from here. I mostly just like to share with folks who know how it feels in this place in life.

This is why I ended my last relationship. I felt like I had hopped onto that co-dependency hamster wheel,again.. and one day I looked at her and said that I wanted to move out.. I need to know I can make it on my own.. I need to know that the changes I'm making in me are for me and not for someone else b/c that's how she/he wants me to be.

So. Re-finding & re-learning the Independent me, here I come.. Olly, Olly Oxen Free!

good morning, good morning!

I am single, hear me roar! (-;

I've found it really hard to find any single lesbians in Kentucky, so I wouldn't necessarily be opposed to an LDR. For all I know, the "one" could be down the road from me or in another state. I suppose if that person was a 2-4 hour drive instead of a 7 hour drive would be a little more do-able, but who knows. I'm pretty much open to anything at this point.

Sue

Just stopped in to say hi! This daylight savings switch has me so http://www.websmileys.com/sm/sleep/schla03.gif that I can't keep my eyes open. Off to bed for me!

Being in Oklahoma, odds are I'll end up in an LDR. That's fine by me though, the possibility of moving away from here again sometime is appealing to me anyway.

The worst downside is if you get insecure. You wonder what they are doing or if they feel the same way.

The upside is it can keep you from moving too fast and you get so much time to really just talk instead of making out all the time. If you live really far apart, you get to have fun adventures meeting in between. :girlonatv:

Good morning singles

Well lets just say I would give a LDR a chance, I'm one of those one-on-one type...if I'm interested then my focus will be on you. I have always been this way.

cuddlyfemme you should meet us down in Savanna next sat for St Pats day,
Should be a lot of fun!

Howdy
 

Good Morn fellow singles :)

I have really enjoyed reading all of your comments on LDR's
I never had a problem with an LDR,of course who wouldnt want close,but w/ an ldr I can go slow and really get to know the person and vise versa.That appealed to me, I am not so sure now.. but being another one of the butches in KY,there is not tons of choices to meet single femmes. Where I am at I need to travel the least 2 hrs for a gay club

well another great sunny day! hope everyone has a great day

Good Morning Everyone,

It has been awhile since I've posted in here. I've been working like a mad hatter and I've been dating someone.

Have a great day and even though I'm no longer single, I will continue to visit!

Zimmeh