Oooooh, congratties Zim! When do we get to meet them?!? :)

Hey Sunnnnnny!!! the weather this week sure was beautiful....except today....but not to worry, it's going to be great the next week or so!!! I know what you mean about the Dad thing! It's rough when the roles are reversed, but we are lucky to still have them!!!

I am definitely not into LDR's. Like to be within driving distance at least....most I'll do is a 2 hr drive....and that's pushing it!

I think the sleeping thing is an age thing too! I've been having trouble sleeping the last year or so....I sleep for 4-5 hrs then I'm awake and laying there for an hour or 2 before I fall back out. Makes for a very sleeeeeepy day!!!

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Happy st patty's day!

Good to hear Zimgtl.....happy for ya

Well I am single again. How does a person learn to live without a person that they wannna spend the rest of their lives with...i just let hurt feelings convince me different. How do you convince yourself that life goes on. It has been 72 hours and I cant eat or sleep.

I'm new... and single
 

Hi everyone, hopefully it's not too late to join into this group. I am new to the site and very grateful to have found a community of support.

About me, I am widowed for almost 2 years now, the first year was impossible and than I woke up and started living again. I am now single but have important people in my life. But not that ONE important person.

I currently live in Alberta, Canada but I am moving to BC in June, so starting all over again on my own.

Most of the time I really enjoy being single and some would say I have the best life. I have my place to myself, my children are grown and gone, I have a great male friend who spends the night occasionally I have a wonderful female friend (who I love) that spends the night occasionally and the rest of the time I have for myself, my friends and the work I do.

I am an artist and writer and really try to enjoy life.

However, I find there are times when I really miss having that one person, the person to hold you when you just need holding, the person you can come home at the end of the day to and they just know you well enough to see that you need to discuss something or not. The one person who is always there when you need them and that one person I can be there for.

I am at a point in my life where I am connecting more to the female energy and would love to find a woman to share my life with.

Okay, this wasn't meant to be a personal ad, I just wanted to share a bit about myself.

I look forward to getting to know people here and learning more about how we all cope with the day to day work of being single.

Thanks, L (w)

Thank you Leigh!

It took me two years to find hym :)

Zimmeh

I'm totally sorry! It takes time to feel the hurt and work thru it.


Hi all singles, HAPPY TUESDAY!

I've started to think that maybe I'll never find who/what I'm looking for. I realize that no one person can be everything, but that doesn't mean you have to settle. Maybe the best thing I can do is just NOT look; however, there are times when I think it would really be nice to have someone around to share things with...My other half, I suppose.

Sue

Hey Singles, still single and waiting. Hope everyone is having a great day. :)

Totally get it! Don't give up sh is out there.sometimes the search is a fun journey in itself meeting new people as you search for your gal. I have found some friends along the way.still searching myself.

Wednesday already...hope everyone is having a great day.

Have a great hump day everyone :)

Here in Vancouver it's really very beautiful with blue skies and not a single cloud to be seen.

Welcome
 

Hello laruss. Sorry to hear about your loss. I live in BC, just a bit east of Vancouver. Give me a shout when you are moving, and we can share a coffee on the porch, watching the sheep graze and enjoying the beauty of mother nature.

I will do that. Thanks for the invite.
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Hooray for Spring!
 

This is my favourite time of year. Everything seems fresh. I watched my grandkids running around the property where I am moving, and I smiled. I made the right decision. Imagine! Being positive and thanking mother earth every day for her blessings works!!!!

I went to nowandthen's birthday party in Seattle yesterday. What fun! I love the intelligence mixed with compassion and a pure soul that makes Tee such a fine butch.

Have a splendid week everybody!

humbly, :praying:

Candice

Hello all you singles!

I have been trying to figure out a way to talk to a butch that has NO conversation ability (or maybe just as shy as me) that works at a local gas station - can we say GORGEOUS! Oh my! Might be another month or two before I work up the courage to speak again.:hamactor: Maybe I'll write to hym c/o the gas station and just YOU ARE GORGEOUS! lol

The best way to talk to someone is just chit chat, don't jump into how gorgeous they are right away. Every time you are at the station stop for a few minutes to just chat and say hi, ask them about themselves. Turn on the flirt a little but don't over do it. Just be yourself. If you ask an open ended question they are forced to chat a bit as opposed to a grunt or a nod. Good Luck

Good idea! I've been trying to not go every day, but sheesh, that's about hard! Yesterday I went and got a coffee...hoping to talk about anything, but hy just watched me watching hym! Oh well, am trying anyway.

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I love Spring... even if today there is a foot of snow that wasn't there last night. But, I know it will be gone in a day or two.

But with Spring in the air, all the horny girls are out, including me.

I have a date this weekend with someone I met on Saturday, I wasn't even flirting because I thought she was with someone. When she asked for my number I questioned her and she explained (straight friend). So... something to look forward to this weekend. I am excited, feels like forever since I have been on a date. Oh, maybe because it has been.

She is super sweet and really cute... wish me luck.

Good luck!

Happy Easter!

Well, I bombed out, so back to looking.....**sigh**

Sorry it did not work out..
Maybe you should come to texas and see all of us:-)

So as a "date" I would have to say it was ok, but I guess my idea of a "date" is different then some others.

If I am "dating" someone I want to get to know them to see how compatible we are together, what we have in common, etc.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not a prude. I'm not opposed to sleeping with someone right away if that is what has been mutually decided, but if you want to get to know me don't jump me as soon as you get me alone. That's not dating in my books.

I sent her on her way the first night telling her I wanted to get to know her and see where things might go and the very next day she jumped me again so I figured what the F* and decided to go for it.

Yes, it made for a fun afternoon, but now in my mind she has been relegated to F* Buddy as opposed to someone to get to know.

Am I alone in this thinking? Is this the norm now a days, it's been a while since I have "dated".

Sorry it didn't work out, it's tough when they are shy. It's hard to get a conversation going. Don't take it personally, she didn't get to know you.