I really enjoy being single, but ultimately I would love to find someone to be with in a meaningful relationship. I have to say that busy family times really make me miss having someone there to help and just talk things through with. It can all be so overwhelming sometimes.

I have been single for about 5 plus years now. As much as I would like a relationship, it will be hard. I care for my mom who has Alzheimer's and it is a full time job. Not sure many would understand.

But, it would be nice.:hk19:

Hello to all the singles, one thing sucks about being single
Is that have vacation time and no one to spend it with

I have a small daughter and I feel the same way. For any relationship to become serious, my daughter and I have to be a package deal. It certainly complicates things but I have hope.

Exactly. Mom is going no where anytime soon, as I am sure the case with your daughter. Children and in my case my mom, need a lot of attention and care. Should someone choose to be a part of this life, they could see the devotion one can have for another.

Peace,
Mick

Alix,
Your point is well taken and we singles would do well to remember this and be encouraged.
I have an amazing 8yo son whom I share with my ex-wife. Since he loves with me half-time, I do get a chance to date and maintain friendships, I'm lucky in that regard. But at this point I am clear I want more children so I do not even consider seriously anyone who doesn't already have children or who is not open to this--it can limit the pool but generally I think I benefit from the Butches with Babies/Kids thing...

(a thought for those of you caring for parents, often times the condition-specific local chapter --say Alzheimer's --will have a respite program to allow you to get out, take a break, whatever--for all of you, I now it's hard and devoted care, you have my support.)

Well, another day and well, I guess that's about it. LOL Another day!

Life is good and hope all of you enjoy your days today.

Seize the day!!!

Mick:pirate-steer:

Still single here lol anyway everyone have a good weekend

Single like a one dollar bill. :)

That sounds like fun. I'm game. :)

Hey Ruthie, no party here. I have to work. But have fun bowling. :)

There are lots of single femmes around. We need a butch femme commune because it seems we are all geographically challenged!

Hi, I'm Breezy.

Thank you Julien and Ruthie. Have a beautiful weekend!

Hi all!! I'm at work and wanted to pop in and say HI. See you all later. :)

Hey!
 

Hello All! Happy Saturday!

Hi Julien. I hope you had fun making love to the books...;)

As much as having a dating/romantic relationship sounds appealing to me, I think my time for now is best spent taking care of myself. I know I'm a constant work in progress and I'll readily accept and admit my flaws. I can always hope, however, that someone will like me or love me regardless of them.

I live in Kentucky and it's next to impossible to meet anyone here. I've tried to get involved in different things, but if you don't fit into someone's clique, forget it. I had thought maybe I'd meet someone online (never know), but that hasn't turned out to be the best idea. For now, I think I've pretty much said f-it to the whole notion of dating.

I seem to only meet people through work. Otherwise, I have no idea. I am on the shy side. It seems like most of my really good friends I met in high school or college when I was forced to be with the same people all the time. I guess work is like that as well!

Still single and dancing a jig. Lol

Meeting people? I've tried where I live. I do have friends... mostly straight people and gay men. But that's OK. Friends are friends.

I did the mingling thing with the local lesbian community, but, while they're polite, they don't make conversation. As soon as they know your story (and believe me it goes through the whole community), they aren't interested. They don't even want to meet for coffee---except in a large group. Most are coupled, too.

Online? Nope. Been there, done that. Done my share of driving to meet someone, only to find out that it wasn't what you expected on either side.

So I'm done. Sayonara dating!

Good luck to you all! I hope you find someone worthy.

Does a curtsy and exits....

Hello. It's a warm day here in south central Pa and tomorrow promises to be warmer! That would be GREAT if I liked hellishly hot summer days! Which I don't :(

I am trying to be kind and considerate to my ex (yeah, we decided to try the friend things again) but she's already acting resentful that my social calender isn't free for her to pick and choose when she wants to do something, whatever that something is. Granted, my social calander only has one name on it (TT) but there it is.

We're going to have to have THE talk again. Her sullenly listening, me calmly explaining that not only is TT a very very important part of my life, I am also pretty much decided on getting my OWN TT. (child lol) So, this is my life, either be a part of it or don't, but don't expect the pouting, sullen silences and guilt trips to do anything but make me stop taking your calls.

I am single, and do want the marriage, the kids, the entire nine yards, but I am taking this time to learn how to be me again, just me, to learn how to be in love with myself. It truly isn't as difficult as I thought it would be. Turns out that I am rather loveable! Who knew?? LOL

Anyway, though I can, at times, come off as a bitch, I truly am not and am open to any and all friendships. The best relationships are built on a solid foundation of friendship.

Take care,
Lissa

Hello Single folks! I am single, live in Lincoln, Ne.
Doesnt seem that there are many queer femmes or femmes that want to date FtM guys but I like living here so.

I do like meeting people and dating and traveling.