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If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.
A. A. Milne |
Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.'
Erich Fromm |
Some people listen to themselves rather then listen to what others say. These people don't come along very often, but when they do, they remind us that once you set off on a path, even though critics may doubt you, it's ok to believe that there is no CAN'T, WON'T or IMPOSSIBLE. They remind us that it's ok to believe that IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING. -Unknown
What I do today is important because I am exchanging a day of my life for it.- Thomas Simmons There are those who enter and leave this world without leaving a fingerprint and then there are those who can make the sun fall when they leave. Those are the ones who never did something because they could, but because they knew they had to. They are the ones who refuse to follow the path of mediocrity and excel beyond their own expectations. To them, there are no limits because they refuse to believe that there is such a thing. They are the ones who never brag because they expect better from themselves. They continually challenge the world around them because they refuse to compromise their ethics. These are the ones who never envy someone else, but rather congratulate them. Most importantly, they are the ones who inspired others to begin focusing on the path that lies ahead rather than the sickening thought of failure.- Morgan Tang |
Dare to Be When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully. When there is darkness, dare to be the first to shine a light. When there is injustice, dare to be the first to condemn it. When something seems difficult, dare to do it anyway. When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back. When there seems to be no hope, dare to find some. When you’re feeling tired, dare to keep going. When times are tough, dare to be tougher. When love hurts you, dare to love again. When someone is hurting, dare to help them heal. When another is lost, dare to help them find the way. When a friend falls, dare to be the first to extend a hand. When you cross paths with another, dare to make them smile. When you feel great, dare to help someone else feel great too. When the day has ended, dare to feel as you’ve done your best. Dare to be the best you can – At all times, Dare to be!” ― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free |
Ostara Blessing May Ostara bring joy and easiness into your lives, may her fertility be passed over to you and may your dreams, ideas, wishes, plans ripen and bear new fruits. May the loveliness of spring open your hearts and may you understand the beauty of being and take it in. Full of strength and new energy you shall walk into the brightness of the awakening spring and you shall leave the darkness of the past time behind. Let go all former burdens and get rid of the ballast still hindering you. Free and with new strength your feet shall carry you towards dawn. May Ostara bless you all! ~The Pagan Musings |
We must work within the parameters of others' limitations ~
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This is me...
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"No llores porque ya se terminó, sonríe porque sucedió."~ Gabriel García Márquez
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The envious will die, but envy never.
MOLIÈRE, Tartuffe He who establishes his argument by noise and command shows that his reason is weak. MOLIÈRE, The Misanthrope http://www.rowan.edu/open/colleges/f...thrope_WEB.jpg |
“Get Off The Scale! You are beautiful. Your beauty, just like your capacity for life, happiness, and success, is immeasurable. Day after day, countless people across the globe get on a scale in search of validation of beauty and social acceptance. Get off the scale! I have yet to see a scale that can tell you how enchanting your eyes are. I have yet to see a scale that can show you how wonderful your hair looks when the sun shines its glorious rays on it. I have yet to see a scale that can thank you for your compassion, sense of humor, and contagious smile. I have yet to see one that can admire you for your perseverance when challenged in life. It’s true, the scale can only give you a numerical reflection of your relationship with gravity. That’s it. It cannot measure beauty, talent, purpose, life force, possibility, strength, or love. Don’t give the scale more power than it has earned. Take note of the number, then get off the scale and live your life. You are beautiful!” ― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free |
"Eleven Hints for Life"
1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel. 2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go. 3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had. 4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. 5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. 6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. 7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do. 8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too. 9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may heal and bless. 10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. 11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying. - Unknown |
Re-examine all you have been told. Dismiss what insults your soul.
~Walt Whitman |
At age 4 success is not peeing in your pants.
At age 12 success is having friends. At age 16 success is having a drivers license. At age 20 success is having sex. At age 35 success is having money. At age 50 success is having money. At age 60 success is having sex. At age 70 success is having a drivers license. At age 75 success is having friends. At age 80 success is not peeing in your pants. - Unknown |
"Listen, here's what I think. I think that we can't go around measuring our goodness by what we don't do. By what we deny ourselves, what we resist, and who we exclude. I think we've got to measure goodness by what we *embrace*, what we create... and who we include." ~ Père Henri, "Chocolat"
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I have no idea who said it.. but...
I love it The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it !!! |
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Hello Spring!
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“In our appetite for gossip, we tend to gobble down everything before us, only to find, too late, that it is our ideals we have consumed, and we have not been enlarged by the feasts but only diminished.” ~ Pico Iyer
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Love has no boundaries and knows no distance...
Decicated to those of us who are still waiting on that special woman to come into our lives...
Heart To Heart Tonight thoughts of you are vividly strong To love you this much, how can it be wrong Though distance is fact, and a major part I knew of this obstacle, right from the start Love knows no boundaries, distance, nor time And my only thought was for to make me your Love travels the miles on angels' wings And if returned, it means everything To kiss your lips, feel your embrace Your gentle hands caressing my face These things I long for while we're apart Yet still I know, we touch with our hearts Daydreams take me to a place in time To a heavenly realm that is so sublime No barriers, no buffers, nor distance to close Just two hearts entwining, the merging of souls And there we will reign, two hearts as one Until dealing with distance is finally done When hearts are the focus, no price is too high Whatever the cost, I'll gladly comply And so tonight, as I look to the stars Two hearts are embracing, 'tho from afar I've closed that distance, don't be alarmed My spirit is with you, I'm there in your arms Unknown |
Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth.
buddha It's no wonder that truth is stranger than fiction. Fiction has to make sense. mark twain this one made me laugh hard ha |
“Don't say you don't have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresa, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein.” ― H. Jackson Brown Jr. Sobering thought eh? |
Acting is a question of absorbing other people's personalities and adding some of your own experience.
Jean-Paul Sartre |
The friend who declines to sacrifice himself for his friend's faults is still a good friend, it's the friend that puts him in that position who's not a great friend.- BW Compton
Life is an echo. What you send out, comes back. What you sow, you reap. What you give, you get. What you see in others, exists in you.- Zig Ziglar You can’t build a reputation on what you’re going to do.- Henry Ford |
It's a tough love kind of day......
“The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it.” ― Jordan Belfort |
compassion
“Compassionate action involves working with ourselves as much as working with others.” -Pema Chodron
“If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.”- Dalai Lama “In seperateness lies the world's great misery, in compassion lies the world's true strength.”- Buddha “The dew of compassion is a tear.” -Lord Byron “I came upon a doctor who appeared in quite poor health. I said, 'There's nothing that I can do for you that you can't do for yourself.' He said, 'Oh yes you can. Just hold my hand. I think that that would help.' So I sat with him a while then I asked him how he felt. He said, 'I think I'm cured.'” -Conor Oberst |
Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes.
Oscar Wilde~ A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions. Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr.~ |
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To be swayed neither by your opponent nor his sword is the essence of victory.-Samurai philosophy
If you're nobody untill somebody loves you, love yourself, it guarantees your ability to be somebody. -Unknown Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.- Mahatma Ghandi |
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(was looking for an oscar wilde quote, but ran across these instead)
“It is better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you are not.”
― André Gide “I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.” ― Douglas Adams, The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul “Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.” ― Dr. Seuss “Sometimes people are beautiful. Not in looks. Not in what they say. Just in what they are.” ― Markus Zusak, I am the Messenger “I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next. Delicious Ambiguity.” ― Gilda Radner “Sometimes I can hear my bones straining under the weight of all the lives I'm not living.” ― Jonathan Safran Foer, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close “We're all human, aren't we? Every human life is worth the same, and worth saving.” ― J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows |
This poem made me grin...to me reflects the magic and power of a femme
Phenomenal Woman
Pretty women wonder where my secret lies. I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size But when I start to tell them, They think I'm telling lies. I say, It's in the reach of my arms The span of my hips, The stride of my step, The curl of my lips. I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me. I walk into a room Just as cool as you please, And to a man, The fellows stand or Fall down on their knees. Then they swarm around me, A hive of honey bees. I say, It's the fire in my eyes, And the flash of my teeth, The swing in my waist, And the joy in my feet. I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me. Men themselves have wondered What they see in me. They try so much But they can't touch My inner mystery. When I try to show them They say they still can't see. I say, It's in the arch of my back, The sun of my smile, The ride of my breasts, The grace of my style. I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me. Now you understand Just why my head's not bowed. I don't shout or jump about Or have to talk real loud. When you see me passing It ought to make you proud. I say, It's in the click of my heels, The bend of my hair, the palm of my hand, The need of my care, 'Cause I'm a woman Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, That's me. ~Maya Angelou |
Still I Rise
Still I Rise
You may write me down in history With your bitter, twisted lies, You may trod me in the very dirt But still, like dust, I'll rise. Does my sassiness upset you? Why are you beset with gloom? 'Cause I walk like I've got oil wells Pumping in my living room. Just like moons and like suns, With the certainty of tides, Just like hopes springing high, Still I'll rise. Did you want to see me broken? Bowed head and lowered eyes? Shoulders falling down like teardrops. Weakened by my soulful cries. Does my haughtiness offend you? Don't you take it awful hard 'Cause I laugh like I've got gold mines Diggin' in my own back yard. You may shoot me with your words, You may cut me with your eyes, You may kill me with your hatefulness, But still, like air, I'll rise. Does my sexiness upset you? Does it come as a surprise That I dance like I've got diamonds At the meeting of my thighs? Out of the huts of history's shame I rise Up from a past that's rooted in pain I rise I'm a black ocean, leaping and wide, Welling and swelling I bear in the tide. Leaving behind nights of terror and fear I rise Into a daybreak that's wondrously clear I rise Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave, I am the dream and the hope of the slave. I rise I rise I rise. ~Maya Angelou |
When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. ~Franklin D. Roosevelt
He conquers who endures. ~Persius Stubbornly persist, and you will find that the limits of your stubbornness go well beyond the stubbornness of your limits. ~Robert Brault |
“You alone are the judge of your worth and your goal is to discover infinite worth in yourself, no matter what anyone else thinks.” ~Deepak Chopra~ |
silence
“I no longer believe that we can keep silent. We never really do, mind you. In one way or another we articulate what has happened to us through the kind of people we become.”
― Azar Nafisi, Things I've Been Silent About “Silence is the ultimate weapon of power.” ― Charles de Gaulle “I was going to die, sooner or later, whether or not I had even spoken myself. My silences had not protected me. Your silences will not protect you.... What are the words you do not yet have? What are the tyrannies you swallow day by day and attempt to make your own, until you will sicken and die of them, still in silence? We have been socialized to respect fear more than our own need for language." Audre Lorde “Allowing ourselves to become a nation of silent, secretive, timid citizens is likely to result in a system of democracy and justice that is neither very democratic nor very just.” ― Dahlia Lithwick “Sometimes, to remain silent is to lie, since silence can be interpreted as assent.” ― Miguel de Unamuno |
The world needs men and women... who cannot be bought; whose word is their bond; who put character above wealth; who possess opinions and a strong will; who are larger than their vocations; who do not hesitate to take risks; who will not lose their individuality in a crowd; who will be as honest in small affairs as in greater; who will make no compromise with wrong; whose ambitions are not confined to their own selfish desires; who will not say they do it "because everybody else does it;" who are true to their friends through good and bad, in adversity as well as in prosperity; who do not believe that shrewdness, cunning, and hardheadedness are the best qualities for winning success; who are not ashamed or afraid to stand for the truth when it is unpopular; who can say "no" with emphasis, although all the rest of the world says "yes".- Anonymous
Life is only as good as the memories we make.-Unknown Sometimes the strongest emotions and feelings we experience, and want to tell the ones we love, are so overwhelming we do not know how to say them. So speak with your heart. If the feelings are true, you will find how to express it. And they will understand you.- Philip Oprean II |
phenomenal woman makes me think of this, too...
I Knew A Woman by Theodore Roethke
I knew a woman, lovely in her bones, When small birds sighed, she would sigh back at them; Ah, when she moved, she moved more ways than one: The shapes a bright container can contain! Of her choice virtues only gods should speak, Or English poets who grew up on Greek (I'd have them sing in chorus, cheek to cheek.) How well her wishes went! She stroked my chin, She taught me Turn, and Counter-turn, and stand; She taught me Touch, that undulant white skin: I nibbled meekly from her proffered hand; She was the sickle; I, poor I, the rake, Coming behind her for her pretty sake (But what prodigious mowing did we make.) Love likes a gander, and adores a goose: Her full lips pursed, the errant note to seize; She played it quick, she played it light and loose; My eyes, they dazzled at her flowing knees; Her several parts could keep a pure repose, Or one hip quiver with a mobile nose (She moved in circles, and those circles moved.) Let seed be grass, and grass turn into hay: I'm martyr to a motion not my own; What's freedom for? To know eternity. I swear she cast a shadow white as stone. But who would count eternity in days? These old bones live to learn her wanton ways: (I measure time by how a body sways.) |
“If you need something from somebody, always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
― Sue Monk Kidd “So many believe that it is love that grows, but it is the knowing that grows, and love simply expands to contain it.” ― William P. Young “The first kiss is never just a kiss, but a beautiful place you get to go only once.” ― Colin Tegerdine |
“Remember, remember, this is now, and now, and now. Live it, feel it, cling to it. I want to become acutely aware of all I’ve taken for granted.”
― Sylvia Plath |
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