Good morning everybody. I'm glad I found this thread. Looking forward to making new friends. Anybody from Atlanta?:)


Duchess

Good morning Duchess - welcome.

I'm sure someone is from Atlanta, sadly, not me though.

Good morning Lady D....sadly not from Atlanta either,,,but new friends are always good...It is still Saturday night for me though since I have not been to bed yet...

I'm just popping in.

I'm a single femme. I prefer butches or FtMs. I'm from outsite of Atlanta.

FTM from Minnesota here...

Philly representing!

Single FTM's & Femme's
 

Just dropping by to say, "Howdy from Texas."

good morning waves from Illinois*

Checking in from NY!

I've been there before... Back in 1988!

No clue if I'll visit again. I like to travel so you never know. I do have tons of vacation time coming up but I have some of it set asaide for a trip south of MN... :-)

Age
 

As a guy who is an FTM / male.....living, being seen, & IS male.....it's really tough being in the mid- 50's to find anyone...much less a woman who is attracted to guys like us. I live stealth except for a few close friends & that's how I like it. I do have a question that has come up from my last relationship however & I would love to get some totally honest answers......you can send them in PM or not...but, honest is the key.

My ex-wife of 10 years said to me "again" very recently that my "lower region " was a mind f*ck for her because it is not anatomically "correct. I am male except for the nether regoins.....she said that "squigged" her & that she was uncomfortable making love to me because of this.....

My question is this then.......I know she was being totally honest & I respect that completely. There is nothing short of surgery that can "correct" that.....so.....truly & honestly....how many of you ladies / women / femmes find that to be the case for you?

Believe me, it can be a mind f*ck for me too at times....lol....but, maybe because I KNOW what's down there in my soul I am able to overlook the discrepency.

Anyway, being in your mid 50's & being FtM is really tough....you begin to realize how old you really are.....LOL

I look forward to reading all replies...<warm smile>

Enjoy the day !!!!

If this forum were visible to members only, I'd answer publicly but since it's publicly viewable I'll answer via PM.

Hey there -

Wow, great question - I'd love to hear your answers (feel free all you generous souls to PM me as well!). I'm right with you - I really thought single life after the break up of my 10 year marriage would be ... at least not this bad. Or lonely. I'm fine alone, in fact I do need alone time. But I have taken on this feeling sort of like a tree falling in the forest. If nobody's with me with whom to share the experience, what's the point? I end up feeling more alone than if I just fart around on the internet, find obscure stuff on cable, and rotate between the three dinners I usually eat. I'm 45 - I wrote before about age and my area. It IS very queer friendly, but whatever Western Mass would like to think of itself, it is not open to guys way post physical transition. I spend most of my time when not working trying to avoid the sinking feeling of unresolved heartbreak - I lost both of my kids - I bought a great house after the breakup so the three of us could heal, and then was hammered with lawsuit after lawsuit over custody. Wah wah ... anyone, overshare. But I feel you. I wish I had some insight. I've had a little luck on one of the mainstream dating sites, so little it's pathetic but I have had a few exchanges. I have this ... feeling. It's very vague and I can't always access it, that someone is out there. I wish I had more to offer, but you're not alone in this.

[QUOTE=Darbonaire;677470]As a guy who is an FTM / male.....living, being seen, & IS male.....it's really tough being in the mid- 50's to find anyone...much less a woman who is attracted to guys like us. I live stealth except for a few close friends & that's how I like it. I do have a question that has come up from my last relationship however & I would love to get some totally honest answers......you can send them in PM or not...but, honest is the key.

Hey Hominid
 

Good to meet you ^5 ! Yes, the young guys are out there but truly, I believe as you do..there IS someone out there for me. I really thought I had found her in my last relationship & she was SO much of what I wanted...& I for her....but, things change, people change, & paths change.......so we move forward & wish each other the best.

So, western Mass eh? Pretty country up there. I was thrilled to move back here to VA for the beauty of the Blue Ridge Mtns.....Alabama was too flat for me..& too damn hot & muggy too!

So, maybe being on this site will help your energy get "noticed" & appreciated. I personally think a more mature woman is better for me at this stage in life. I believe there are women out there who want the same.....so maybe if we both jump up & down they'll see us.....LOL

Anyway, if you ever want to chat just email me at Darbonaire@aol.com.....would like to talk to other guys for sure.

Enjoy your night ^5

Jonathan

Well,
 

Good evening Duchess !

Hi Duchess - WV is really beautiful, and much better fishing ...

Outside of Atlanta...
 

Can be a LARGE area.....lol.....are you in GA ? Just curious is all....thanks !

Same here....
 

" I know far fewer FtM's -"


If you ever want to talk I'm around....it would be nice to have a guy to chat with too....lots of issues that only we can understand...<NOT puttig anyone down or anything>......it's just that whole "walk a mile" thing....lol

Anyway, i am SOOOOOO glad to be back on the Planet.....thanks all of you !

Waffles?????
 

<passing my plate>......LOL

Enjoy the day as best you can anyway kiddo.....you never know....THIS might be the dreary day you win the lottery or something...<smile>...

Single again, but not ready. That last one was a real mind fuck.

I'm sorry....
 

Sometimes the worst pain is the best thing for growth.....this too shall pass.....may take awhile but, time is not the enemy.....

May you feel better sooner rather than later.

Jonathan

single and will be looking sooner than later :blueheels:

Have a good weekend, singles! I'll be busy cleaning and getting ready for some surgery I am having on Wednesday. My ex is going to come take care of me and my daughter for a couple of days. This will be a real test.

I hope you all have dates and romance planned. :)

Just poking my head in to say hi. :) It's freezing outside tonight, making it difficult to dress up how I want to when I go out lol. Decided to stay in, bake, and watch old movies instead.

Just peeking my head in.. :tease:

Single and still finding all the little pieces of me. :seeingstars:

Hope everyone is having a great weekend and I'll be bouncing in later to look at all the lovely individuals.

Single. Where all the FTM's and Queer Women.
 

Single looking to have something that can far for the long run .

let's discover our opinions .

Joining the conversation
 

Hi to everyone.

Interesting thread...and a much needed place for the boi's and femme's to connect on our own level.

As for me...I slowly peek around corners right now.

If I see something interesting I might just get the courage to step out into the open.

Quit peeking around the corner and come in! If nothing else, you are less of a target for snowballs, that way. :P

*smiles*
 

Hey Stranger haven't talked to you in forever how are you :)

It's been awhile since I've been in here. I just wanted to say hello as well! Hope everyone had a lovely holiday & are looking to a wonderful New Year. Love.

Happy to see new posts in this thread this morning! I hope everyone had a lovely weekend. :)

New Year, New Beginnings!
 

Happy New Year, singles! I hope everyone rang in the New Year with style, joy, and y'all all made it home safely!

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