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hopelessromantic69 07-25-2017 10:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1143714)
You can sit at the big kids' table too.

Is there a bigger table for when I hit 50 in two years? ;)
It has a black table cloth huh? :P

introverted1 08-12-2017 06:33 PM

Gosh, not a lot going on here.

I'm missing my mom so bad, now that the two month mark is out. Her apartment is emptied, her mail is coming to my condo, and I'm just marking time, waiting for her last bills to trickle in.

Now, I have lots of time to think. And feel. Nothing to do but wait. The tying up loose ends of eighty-eight years of existence is my duty to her.

This has been my favorite quote since I was twenty years old, but it's really hitting home today.

"There are places in the heart that do not yet exist...and, so into them enters suffering, in order that they may have existence."

Leon Bloy

Mel C. 08-12-2017 06:57 PM

My condolences introverted.

introverted1 08-12-2017 09:24 PM

Thanks, everybody. I don't have anything to distract me any longer. That's the issue, I'm guessing. But, it's necessary to not have distractions, sometimes.

Mel C. 08-12-2017 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by introverted1 (Post 1163134)
Thanks, everybody. I don't have anything to distract me any longer. That's the issue, I'm guessing. But, it's necessary to not have distractions, sometimes.

Try coming into chat. We can distract you.

introverted1 08-13-2017 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1163139)
Try coming into chat. We can distract you.

Hey, maybe I'll try that tonight. Thanks, Mel.

easygoingfemme 08-13-2017 06:42 PM

I just popped in to chat and it was so very empty... there goes my distraction :(

LaDivina 08-13-2017 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by easygoingfemme (Post 1163214)
I just popped in to chat and it was so very empty... there goes my distraction :(

It isn't empty now......

Mel C. 08-13-2017 09:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by introverted1 (Post 1163209)
Hey, maybe I'll try that tonight. Thanks, Mel.

The best time to go is after 8PM Eastern.

candy_coated_bitch 08-13-2017 11:12 PM

*peeks in* I just turned 40 this year and have always wondered what goes on in here.

Gemme 08-14-2017 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch (Post 1163239)
*peeks in* I just turned 40 this year and have always wondered what goes on in here.

Well, first there's the virgin 40 year old sacrifices....

Mel C. 08-14-2017 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch (Post 1163239)
*peeks in* I just turned 40 this year and have always wondered what goes on in here.

We'll tell you but first you have to get rid of the photo bucket error message in your signature line.

TempestuousFemme 08-14-2017 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by introverted1 (Post 1163113)
Gosh, not a lot going on here.

I'm missing my mom so bad, now that the two month mark is out. Her apartment is emptied, her mail is coming to my condo, and I'm just marking time, waiting for her last bills to trickle in.

Now, I have lots of time to think. And feel. Nothing to do but wait. The tying up loose ends of eighty-eight years of existence is my duty to her.

This has been my favorite quote since I was twenty years old, but it's really hitting home today.

"There are places in the heart that do not yet exist...and, so into them enters suffering, in order that they may have existence."

Leon Bloy

I totally understand where you're coming from. It's been 5 months since I lost my partner. Every bill, piece of mail, made me cry. I am also trying to make a new life for myself. I wasn't sure what to do with myself after she died. I spent so many years taking care of her. Losing someone you love is never easy. Hang in there, and be patient with yourself. If you ever need a friend I'm on KIK, just drop me a message there. :rrose:

candy_coated_bitch 08-14-2017 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1163259)
We'll tell you but first you have to get rid of the photo bucket error message in your signature line.

LMAO! I'll get rid of it eventually. Maybe soon.

candy_coated_bitch 08-14-2017 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1163255)
Well, first there's the virgin 40 year old sacrifices....

If I were at all virginal I might be nervous.

Gemme 08-15-2017 08:11 AM

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Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch (Post 1163339)
If I were at all virginal I might be nervous.

Oh, you qualify. This is your first time being 40, no?

:pirate-steer:

CowboyJ 08-25-2017 10:25 AM

Missed Everyone
 
Just thought I would drop by and say hi to everyone, I have been gone for a very long time (parent stuff). So long I forgot my password :). I hope everyone is having a blessed and successful summer! Hope to be back more often to contribute :)))). :phonegab:

Ladies, lovely as ever :praying:

Mel C. 08-25-2017 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by CowboyJ (Post 1165353)
Just thought I would drop by and say hi to everyone, I have been gone for a very long time (parent stuff). So long I forgot my password :). I hope everyone is having a blessed and successful summer! Hope to be back more often to contribute :)))). :phonegab:

Ladies, lovely as ever :praying:

Welcome back!

JDeere 10-13-2017 01:45 AM

Hey Lofters! What's going on?

I see I miss things. But everyone have a good Friday!

girl_dee 10-13-2017 05:11 AM

Happy Friday the 13th!!!


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