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Think it isn't such a big deal she doesn't care for dogs at the same level as you do. BIG MISTAKE!!
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don't care more about what's going on online than your real life.
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Lying is not a good way to build trust....
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Very good one AtLast.
How about not explaining the whole truth or sugar coating yourself? The truth will come out and it's never pretty when it does. |
I dont care if someone doesnt care about horses as much as I do...but never again will I let someone dangle horses in front of me like a carrot. As soon as I see that, when I know they dont have a snit of ability or interest of their own, fuckem. Me, myself, and I are the only ones who will ever give me horses again. Because that way no one but me will ever be able to take them away from me...no one, not no how is going to do THAT again to me EVER again...
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sometimes people lie to themselves and we just get caught up in it. I know I got caught up in in the past and I wasnt on guard enough to catch it. I wanted to be in love. I put blinders on. So I say we also need to take our blinders off and look good and hard at what people do as well as what they say and take time to make sure they are what they say they are..and time is the only fool proof measure of words....and its often the one thing we dont want to give in a relationship when we want to fall in love....
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~Be thoughtful.
~Be considerate of my heart. |
Do not expect every transguy to be the same.
Every human in this world is different don't act like we aren't. |
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If you choose to put to aside what lives inside, bright burning flames die down. .:candle: Room is left for ashes full of flickering undeserved resentment. |
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Best to leave prior lovers/partners personalities and misgivings in the past and focus on who is before you now. What does gender have to do with this? |
3) I am not ever going to be a femme in shining armour again. "you are perfectly wonderful you just need someone to love you enough and all your sh*tty behaviour and bitterness about others and cr@ppy outlook and insecurities will magicly go away!" jesus what an ego I had, I swear.
6) I need a partner who does this and can do in a way I can hear them. 7) someone who can't be called on *their* shit. That's fucking irritating. go away. Honeybarbara said the above, and #3 made me laugh out loud. For real. And amen to 6 & 7 - improvement together is always necessary! |
do not become who you think they want you to be............just be you.
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don't insult my intelligence by keeping things from me, or being sneaky. most of the time, i already knew You did it, but by then, You've lied on top of it. and all bets are off- i'll never believe anything You say to me. oh, and if You need to go off the grid to screw around, tell me first- i'd rather consider the terms of a 'open' realtionship rather than get my feelings hurt. and if not, then don't get all bent when MY play partner comes a callin. |
Don't assume She can read your mind even if She is generally fairly good at that. i am always surprised when i do get around to communicating something i have been sitting on and She is wonderful and responsive and right there for me. What was i assuming about Her when i thought She knew by osmosis and wasn't responsive? That she didn't care? My issue, not Hers. And i have done that in every relationship i have ever had. i CAN communicate fine. i am just skeered of it. The blessings of being an ACOA.
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Be in one. |
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Feelings are for noobs! |
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