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clay 05-09-2018 03:45 PM

bound....dah....ries....Set 'em & forget 'em!

Bèsame* 05-09-2018 06:04 PM

Nothing ever is how it appears.

Even salt looks like sugar.

BullDog 05-17-2018 05:22 PM

https://i.imgur.com/iqUpZIu.jpg

JDeere 05-21-2018 12:06 AM

Stop expecting things from others!

Blade 05-27-2018 07:22 AM

I have learned ya better listen to Grandma lol. I can still hear her saying don't pick that up you'll ruin your back. Yeah yeah whatever, watch this! 45 yrs later damn I wish I had listened to you.

kittygrrl 08-05-2018 10:24 AM

learned..
 
a true friend:rrose: is always there for you, whether she agrees with you or not

Plaidandroses 08-08-2018 09:43 PM

It's okay to need help. It's okay to accept help. It's okay to ask for help. You're not a failure just because you needed help. I have to say this to myself 1000 times a week. Maybe it will sink in eventually.

kittygrrl 08-08-2018 10:46 PM

learned...being Vegan 80% of the time feels better than 0% of the time:tea:

kittygrrl 09-06-2018 04:20 PM

musing...as time goes by what makes me happiest are the little things, in the moment-

WheatToast 09-06-2018 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by kittygrrl (Post 492853)
all kinds of love (in this world) but you have to love yourself first otherwise you risk loving things that can't love you back (the way you deserve to be)

Kittygrrl, brilliant! Without self love, how can we ever hope to love others? I used to conflate self love with conceit, but all it really means is learning to advocate, trust, respect and care for ourselves. Once that becomes a habit, I believe we learn to accept nothing less from others.

WheatToast 09-06-2018 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by girl_dee (Post 1148326)
that life is too short to hold on to anything but good stuff.

I've learned that an attitude of gratitude is more than just a platitude.
I've learned that affirmations work, but so do "nahfirmations."
I've learned that yesterday is gone and tomorrow is a mystery, but if I focus on having a good today, it predicts a good tomorrow, and if I keep at it, my yesterdays will make for good memories.

But most importantly, I have learned that you don't have to try on pants to know whether they'll fit. All you have to do is wrap the waistband around your neck and if the two sides connect, they'll fit.

Femmewench 09-06-2018 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by WheatToast (Post 1224296)

But most importantly, I have learned that you don't have to try on pants to know whether they'll fit. All you have to do is wrap the waistband around your neck and if the two sides connect, they'll fit.


If this had not worked, I wasn't going to post. How on earth did you learn that?

Lifesymphony 09-06-2018 11:12 PM

Loving a child is unlike any other sort of love.
I thought I understood what it was to love someone. I have been in love. I have lost myself in love. I love.
Yet, it was my son who taught me the true feeling and sense of love. He was in the icu recovering after an operation gone terribly wrong which left him near death. In the quiet of those silent bedside nights praying for his recovery and praying with all my being that I could take his place, my epiphany arrived: "Love" for me is unconditional, selfless, patient, inviolable and pure. How much this young man teaches me.

WheatToast 09-07-2018 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Femmewench (Post 1224308)
If this had not worked, I wasn't going to post. How on earth did you learn that?

Probably Pinterest.

Gayandgray 09-07-2018 07:05 PM

That sometimes you gotta forget the past, give up holding grudges, and give people(including family) another chance.

~ocean 09-07-2018 07:45 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Lifesymphony (Post 1224330)
Loving a child is unlike any other sort of love.
I thought I understood what it was to love someone. I have been in love. I have lost myself in love. I love.
Yet, it was my son who taught me the true feeling and sense of love. He was in the icu recovering after an operation gone terribly wrong which left him near death. In the quiet of those silent bedside nights praying for his recovery and praying with all my being that I could take his place, my epiphany arrived: "Love" for me is unconditional, selfless, patient, inviolable and pure. How much this young man teaches me.

when you have a grandchild u feel all that love x2 :) beautiful post nd I am glad your son is ok :) God Bless

JDeere 09-07-2018 07:48 PM

Anger and resentment stick around and will play hide and seek with you, when you don't want it to.

Lifesymphony 09-25-2018 01:12 PM

Over share
 
As a lady, I don't need/want to be informed of the vulgar street phrases for intimate activities.
...I just want to share them and hear you say "mmmmmm, good girl":sunglass:

JDeere 09-25-2018 04:58 PM

Don't say permanent hurtful thoughts just because you're temporarily upset.

Lifesymphony 09-27-2018 04:46 PM

Never ruin a good apology with an explanation :deepthoughts:


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