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I feel your pain.

Just in case you didn't know, I'm a fool. I'm a fool for romance and the need to see that everyone finds romance, love and maybe a partner for life. Who knows? All I know is I love this thread because it reminds me of being young and crushing on girls. God I loved that feeling. I really think this thread is helping me get my groove and my names not even Stella.....STELLA!!! Sorry every time I see that name or hear it I need to yell...STELLA! So I'll bump this thread and sit back and watch majic happen. ;)

This thread is not only a great ego boost when someone says they are crushing on you but it's also wonderful to know that people do still have the ability to feel that twang when they think of someone else. I am a hopeless romantic and not afraid to admit it!

Carry on...

i'm crushing on Ivan Coyote today. i'm sure hy's crushing on me too.

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Whatever happened to a lady never kisses and tells? lol

Gives Breezy some flowers to hopefully make her feel not icky.:bouquet:

Ty but it depends on who you ask... lol

I admire their wit, kindness and cuteness.

Hi Bree!:)

I think for me, my crush first starts when I see that a femme is feisty. I may know nothing about them but if you can be witty, bratty, and not take my shit, I will definitely have a crush. It may just be a benign crush, but you never know...

can lust be like a crush or do u really have to like the person too ??? lol ~~~~ just saying ~

Wouldn't that be lusting after their mind...if you've never met them? Yes...so says me! Yes.

Lust is definitely acceptable. Especially that first twinge of lust, when either you or she says something and you feel that sexual electricity inside your bones... okay.. no pun intended there lol.

Lust gets me in trouble but I like it.

IMHO language is VERY strong. When used in a way that elicits an emotional or physical response, it can and has been totally translated to lust for many of us. So even though you may not have met someone face to face, and all you have are words, those words can stir up a plethora of emotions, including lust. Just my .02 cents.

Ivan, that two timer!! I thought I was his one and only true crush LOL.

Lust and crush are two separate things for me. Lust for me is instantaneously. Crushes take time. Its their character and personality that breeds a crush. Now, add lust to a crush and mix in mutual pursuit and there is potential for a relationship, friendship or romance. And over time, true love can develop....again, friendship or romance. Hopefully, both.

I'm a sucker for romance. But I think you all knew that. ;)


***Hi everyone!!! Happy 4th:fireworks:

Yes I most definatly do have a couple crushes here at the planet... but they will most likely never know.

Come on, fess up! Nobody here bites, unless you want them to! :danglecarrot:

Sometimes the rejection of a crush can be sting enough... I'm just saying.:dots:

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Assuming of course, that you are rejected. :) Think positive!

But it's a crush. I think most people would be flattered. It's not like asking someone on a date and they reject you.

Yeah, really. Jist me is right. BE POSITIVE! :)

So what you are saying is...
 

What makes a King out of a slave? Courage.

What makes the flag on the mast to wave? Courage.

What makes the elephant charge his tusk in the misty mist or the dusky dusk? Courage

What makes the muskrat guard his musk? Courage.

What makes the Sphinx the 7th Wonder? Courage.

What makes the dawn come up like THUNDER?! Courage.

What makes the Hottentot so hot? Courage

What puts the "ape" in ape-ricot? Courage

Whatta they got that I ain't got? Courage!



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umm sleepy i think it took courage to post that lol ~~~~ just saying~~

Go ahead and tell your crush .... gives some courage (((((((((( Sleepy )))))))) you can do it !

Telling someone you've a crush on them or not doesn't necessarily come down to courage. In most cases, it's as much about how that could be perceived by the other person.

For example, if someone told me that they had a crush on me, I'd probably be slighly spooked because, to me, subconsciously, the word "crush" has connatations of teenage years and slightly unbalanced reactions caused by a combination of overactive hormones and naivety.

That's not to disrespect those who crush - as I do too. However, I'd never tell someone that I had a "crush" on them. I might tell them that they are attractive or beautiful or something else but I wouldn't use the "crush" word.

There should totally be a femme equivalent to "bromance"

How about "femmebrace"?

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ooo I like it Ang! I Femmebrace you!