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WolfyOne 11-29-2010 04:37 PM

Talked to R, she's still in a lot of pain. It's definite her gallbladder must come out but because she still has this infection in her intestines, they are not wanting to do the surgery. I think if they don't do something soon, the biopsy in her mediastinum will not take place on Dec 7th as scheduled. She has way too much going on all at one time and I know she just wants to be well. I just hope the doc decides what's most important and does that first. I feel so bad for her and now with this distance I can't even go visit her or at least be at the house for the kitties. I'm thankful for her friend that's been going over there every day to take care of them.

Please keep the prayers coming, the battle inside her is still at war

Thank you all so very much :)

1PlayfulFemme 11-29-2010 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne (Post 236076)
Tonight I'd like to say a prayer for Mindy's sister and her family
Yesterday a fire broke out in the attic of the house she and her family shared. Everyone got out and the firefighters got the cats and dogs
As happy as an ending as that is, they lost all their belongings. They are now all cramped together in a very small house with Mindy and her mom.
They're hoping the Salvation Army will help with clothing so the kids can go to school in different outfit every day.

So, I'm leaving a candle along with hope and faith


http://i214.photobucket.com/albums/c...ningcandle.gif

Quick lil side note, if she can find a chapter of the American Red Cross, they will give hotel vouchers, clothing vouchers, food vouchers, etc. It varies from place to place, but someone from their Disaster Response Team should be able to take care of them. It won't get them completely on their feet, but it's usually a good start...you can PM me if you would like/need any more info!

I will send a prayer up for them as well!

1PlayfulFemme 11-29-2010 06:02 PM

I light a candle
 
For my Darling Friend...who called today..for all you are going through..for all the emotions that come with it...I'm glad you called. :candle:

And for my BFF...I know how very hard this is for you. My thoughts are with both of you. I'm here 'round the clock for you. :candle:

Miss Scarlett 11-29-2010 07:55 PM

Lighting a candle for a very special person who is struggling financially right now. May she find wisdom, guidance and peace. :vigil:

sylvie 11-30-2010 08:52 AM

sending positive thoughts, light & warmth to all needing it today.. ((((huggggz))))

waxnrope 11-30-2010 11:40 AM

:candle: I light a candle today for Dolo and all who love and care about her. She was told by doc today that the goal is comfort care. Pain and other symptom management. No more chemotherapy, because it would interfere with her current quality of life. She knew what he was saying without his just coming out to say it. I could not ask the important things. To inquire how she felt about this. I was cowardly. Didn't want her to hear my voice if I asked. All I want now is for her to hang on til I get there. Please, a prayer for her comfort. For her kids. Her husband. And, for me, that I can bear it.:candle:

Spirit Dancer 11-30-2010 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by waxnrope (Post 238359)
:candle: I light a candle today for Dolo and all who love and care about her. She was told by doc today that the goal is comfort care. Pain and other symptom management. No more chemotherapy, because it would interfere with her current quality of life. She knew what he was saying without his just coming out to say it. I could not ask the important things. To inquire how she felt about this. I was cowardly. Didn't want her to hear my voice if I asked. All I want now is for her to hang on til I get there. Please, a prayer for her comfort. For her kids. Her husband. And, for me, that I can bear it.:candle:

Wax~
When you think there is no strength left,
dig deep to your inner strength it will be there.
Sending Dolo and her loved ones light and strength.
http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t...trength_hd.jpg
http://i246.photobucket.com/albums/g...y/strength.jpg

WolfyOne 11-30-2010 05:25 PM

Quick update on R

The surgeons finally decided to take her gallbladder without her having to be outpatient.
That's just the beginning of what needs to be taken care of so she can start on the path leading back to healthy again.

Keep the prayers coming
Tomorrow morning she has her gallbladder surgery

JustLovelyJenn 11-30-2010 05:57 PM

I light a candle for

My parents and safe journey back home tonight

Matthew that his cold will go away

My dear friend Stephanie who may be pregnant... FINALLY...

and Myself... to have to courage to take needed steps

Leigh 11-30-2010 06:55 PM

I light a candle for all who needs it, especially but not limited to:

~ Wolfy & R

~ Spirit Dancer & partner

~ Wax, Dolo & her family

~ Day & hys neice

~ Jenn, to guide her path with light and love

~ Myself, for this damn cold to go away & to have the courage to move on in life


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Miss Scarlett 11-30-2010 10:09 PM

:vigil: Lighting candles of protection, peace and reassurance for everyone in upstate SC, western NC and the Piedmont of NC and in north GA - we've got some bad weather coming through tonight.

katsarecool 11-30-2010 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett (Post 238975)
:vigil: Lighting candles of protection, peace and reassurance for everyone in upstate SC, western NC and the Piedmont of NC and in north GA - we've got some bad weather coming through tonight.

We sure did!!! It was pure hell for about 45 min tonight!!!! Some damage nearby but no injuries!!!!

Spirit Dancer 11-30-2010 10:58 PM

For those in need.
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Sam 11-30-2010 11:13 PM

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My heart goes out to each and everyone of you. Stay safe NC, SC and my GA peeps

miss entycing 12-01-2010 07:04 AM


Andrew, Jr. 12-01-2010 03:11 PM


My candles are burning for those who are sick, poor, needy, homeless, and grieving. I also have one burning for myself. :candle:

Andrew, Jr. 12-01-2010 03:56 PM

In honor of this being World AIDS Day, I have a white candle burning for those who have died from this horrible disease. Not just the famous like Ryan White, Arthur Ashe, Rock Hudson, & Isaac Asimov, but my friends, my brothers friends, yours and list just grows and grows.

JakeTulane 12-01-2010 04:37 PM

For those in need.. let this be your guide. When you feel your internal flame has been extinguished.. you will find your light here. We are still here... Never let go.. walk over the threshold and take the flame from someone who will guide you..to a safer place.. there is always hope.. just never let go..



miss entycing 12-01-2010 04:39 PM

I flare high and dissapear....
or smoulder eternally.
All I leave behind is all I am.

http://i306.photobucket.com/albums/n...ndle_Flame.jpg

Blade 12-01-2010 04:40 PM

Eagle Spirit
Spirit Dancer
EntycingFemme
Myself
Sweet
who are are felling a little under the weather today.

http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...eDy35RahhrznxH

Turtle 12-01-2010 05:03 PM

Today for Robert and Danny and Kym


:candle::candle::candle:

Jet 12-01-2010 05:45 PM


Novelafemme 12-01-2010 06:12 PM

Today, in honor of World AIDS Day, I am lighting a candle for those living with AIDS, their friends and family. My oldest brother lost his partner in 1995 to an AIDS related illness and continues to battle the disease himself.

WolfyOne 12-01-2010 08:28 PM

R had her gallbladder surgery late this afternoon
She was back in her room by 6:30pm
We'll see how she's feeling tomorrow
This is just a stepping stone to what's been found so far

Keep the faith with me along with those prayers

Tommi 12-01-2010 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne (Post 239603)
R had her gallbladder surgery late this afternoon
She was back in her room by 6:30pm
We'll see how she's feeling tomorrow
This is just a stepping stone to what's been found so far

Keep the faith with me along with those prayers

Stepping stone, Heck. That is where the stones were, hopefully...(f):candle:
Wishing her well..:praying:

JustLovelyJenn 12-01-2010 09:23 PM

I light a candle today for the understanding... of others.

Tommi 12-01-2010 09:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by waxnrope (Post 238359)
:candle: I light a candle today for Dolo and all who love and care about her. She was told by doc today that the goal is comfort care. Pain and other symptom management. No more chemotherapy, because it would interfere with her current quality of life. She knew what he was saying without his just coming out to say it. I could not ask the important things. To inquire how she felt about this. I was cowardly. Didn't want her to hear my voice if I asked. All I want now is for her to hang on til I get there. Please, a prayer for her comfort. For her kids. Her husband. And, for me, that I can bear it.:candle:

Hands and hearts are with you, Love , Tommi :praying::candle:

http://www.mdanderson.org/education-...-in-prayer.jpg

Miss Scarlett 12-02-2010 05:34 AM

:vigil: Lighting candles of peace, harmony, healing, love, positive energy and hope for

Wolfy and friend
Jet
EntycingFemme
DomnNC and family
waxnrope, friends and family
JakeTulane
Andrew
Matthew
Spirit Dancer
me
and everyone feeling disconnected or unsettled this morning

:vigil:

Spirit Dancer 12-02-2010 08:25 AM

There are many here who need prayer
I light my candle from those before me.
Sending light and prayer to each of you.
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Tommi 12-02-2010 08:30 AM

http://media.picfor.me/00171C07/i189...ated_large.jpg

For Miss Scarlett who is conflicted over work and vacation and unfair bosses in the past.

katsarecool 12-02-2010 09:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett (Post 239773)
:vigil: Lighting candles of peace, harmony, healing, love, positive energy and hope for

Wolfy and friend
Jet
EntycingFemme
DomnNC and family
waxnrope, friends and family
JakeTulane
Andrew
Matthew
Spirit Dancer
me
and everyone feeling disconnected or unsettled this morning

:vigil:

Lighting a candle for you sweetheart because I want you to have the best stress free vacation EVER!!!! You deserve it!!! Have fun too!!!

Any for anyone feeling any kind of physical or mental anguish at this time!

LipstickLola 12-02-2010 09:49 AM

My sister just called, she has a tumor on her spine. Prayers for all in this place, prayers of healing, comfort, for the afflicted, and prayers for peace to forge through for the family and friends who stand beside their loved ones as they traverse a scary uncertain path.

:candle::candle::candle::candle::candle::candle:

katsarecool 12-02-2010 09:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LipstickLola (Post 239842)
My sister just called, she has a tumor on her spine. Prayers for all in this place, prayers of healing, comfort, for the afflicted, and prayers for peace to forge through for the family and friends who stand beside their loved ones as they traverse a scary uncertain path.

:candle::candle::candle::candle::candle::candle:

Sending healing thoughts with my white candle!!!

waxnrope 12-02-2010 12:20 PM

She's hardly eating. Food "tastes nasty" to her. Not real hungry, either. Her doc said that he was open to suggestions (from me). I sent Dolo an email recommending either Megace or Marinol for appetite boost. Anyone have suggestion about the taste thing? Please pm me.

I thank you all for your continued prayers and thoughts for Dolo and the family.

:candle: and prayers for all who need them.

WolfyOne 12-02-2010 12:33 PM

Talked to R for almost an hour and she sounds so much better. I hung up because I knew they'd be bringing her some kind of lunch soon. She's hoping whatever it is stays with her. With that in mind, she's hoping to try solid foods soon. I can't remember the last time she even wanted to try something solid. She's been sucking down Ensure for so long now. Anyhow, this made me smile because she wants to get out of the hospital before she has to return on the 7th for her biopsy.

Always, keeping faith and hope alive along with my prayers

Thank you all for the prayers and healing energy

sylvie 12-02-2010 03:45 PM

stopping by to leave some positivity, healing thoughts & comforting hugs to all who need them.. and peace of mind to those who feel conflicted, stressed & sad.. ♥


(((((huggggz))))))

Tommi 12-02-2010 06:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by waxnrope (Post 239922)
She's hardly eating. Food "tastes nasty" to her. Not real hungry, either. Her doc said that he was open to suggestions (from me). I sent Dolo an email recommending either Megace or Marinol for appetite boost. Anyone have suggestion about the taste thing? Please pm me.

I thank you all for your continued prayers and thoughts for Dolo and the family.

:candle: and prayers for all who need them.

Banana popsicles. :praying: :candle:

At this stage dry mouth may be a big problem (try favorite flavor kool-aid and make ice chips, swabs, lemon drops, etc.) and the "need to nurture" and reframe feeding needs.

Jet 12-02-2010 06:02 PM


Leigh 12-02-2010 06:38 PM

Candles lit today for anyone who needs it

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Kenna 12-02-2010 07:36 PM

Three more, sweet, loving, beautiful children gone from this world forever due to another senseless, disgusting act of violence...

Andrew Ryan Skelton, 9, Alexander William Skelton, 7, and Tanner Lucas Skelton, 5


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