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mustangjeano 02-05-2013 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Novelafemme (Post 743635)
I had my second colonoscopy yesterday and my doctor said everything looks perfect! No polyps and everything looks pink and healthy! YAY! So now I can move on to the five year screening plan. :)

I woke up from the anesthesia at the very end of the procedure and got to watch a bit of it. I find it so interesting to get a glimpse at the inner-workings of my body.

Such great news! It just makes my day. Thanks for sharing. Jeano

deb_U_taunt 02-06-2013 07:08 PM

Novelafemme HUGS!!!! And another congrats on the wonderful news. :)

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Originally Posted by Novelafemme (Post 743635)
I had my second colonoscopy yesterday and my doctor said everything looks perfect! No polyps and everything looks pink and healthy! YAY! So now I can move on to the five year screening plan. :)

I woke up from the anesthesia at the very end of the procedure and got to watch a bit of it. I find it so interesting to get a glimpse at the inner-workings of my body.


Novelafemme 02-07-2013 03:59 PM

Thanks Folks!!! I wasn't super worried, but it sure is nice to get a break from all the craziness of testing this and that!

Much love and health to you all <3

Tommi 02-07-2013 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Novelafemme (Post 744739)
Thanks Folks!!! I wasn't super worried, but it sure is nice to get a break from all the craziness of testing this and that!

Much love and health to you all <3


Ditto..backattcha. Sure is !
:hangloose:
:pile: :heartbeat:

deb_U_taunt 02-26-2013 04:33 PM

BRCA came back positive, not sure how I feel.

Well, besides shock.

DapperButch 02-26-2013 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by deb_U_taunt (Post 757389)
BRCA came back positive, not sure how I feel.

Well, besides shock.

Not sure what to say besides, "We're here for you".

{{{{{{Deb}}}}}} <--- all of us on the thread.

Boots13 02-26-2013 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by deb_U_taunt (Post 757389)
BRCA came back positive, not sure how I feel.

Well, besides shock.


It's shocking news, to say the least.
Time to go to battle? Let the arrows fly -

clay 02-26-2013 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by deb_U_taunt (Post 757389)
BRCA came back positive, not sure how I feel.

Well, besides shock.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{deb}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Let's brang out the weapons and slay this bitch...again!!!
Time to go to Battle.
I am on YOUR team..always was...always will be...
You know I love you, my bestie!!!...:wine: and :eatinghersheybar: and :sushi: and(f)

deb_U_taunt 02-26-2013 07:45 PM

Thank you, you all have been great support.

The plan of action:
First is to share with my daughter her 50/50 chance of having the gene this weekend. Then share with sisters, niece.
I am going to have my ovaries out in the next few months. (at least this surgery will be a band-aid surgery)
Continue to eat all this healthy vegan shit and supplements.
Find a clinical trial with my doctors.

Finally, have fun while working on the bucket list!!!

deb_U_taunt 02-26-2013 07:48 PM

I honestly can say I love you all. Its a very unconditional place to vent, pout and yeehaw.

mustangjeano 02-27-2013 01:47 AM

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Originally Posted by clay (Post 757429)
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{deb}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Let's brang out the weapons and slay this bitch...again!!!
Time to go to Battle.
I am on YOUR team..always was...always will be...
You know I love you, my bestie!!!...:wine: and :eatinghersheybar: and :sushi: and(f)

Where do I go to sign up for Deb's team. I'm in.!!!!!

mustangjeano 02-27-2013 01:54 AM

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Originally Posted by deb_U_taunt (Post 757389)
BRCA came back positive, not sure how I feel.

Well, besides shock.

Deb, I am just now seeing your post. It surely is a shock but you sound strong and ready to fight. I am sending love and healing energy to you.
There are lots of people here who love you and are in your corner. Come here to vent or whatever you feel like. Jeano

FireheartForever 02-27-2013 03:03 AM

~ my mother has cancer ~

while she is not meant to b with me much longer, i find myself @ a loss as to ask god what i can say for her in my prayers. i dont think anything can prepare me for the loss of another parent. am i supposed to b ready for this? if so...i cant say i feel it. chemo is suppose to extend her life...but i dont see it giving her any quality. all i know is that all the joy in my life has left..it is replaced with a knawing sorrow of what is eniveitable. i understand what its like to not b able to do anything for someone whom u love n cant......... the uneviable position of feelin helpless ....

deb_U_taunt 02-27-2013 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by mustangjeano (Post 757826)
Deb, I am just now seeing your post. It surely is a shock but you sound strong and ready to fight. I am sending love and healing energy to you.
There are lots of people here who love you and are in your corner. Come here to vent or whatever you feel like. Jeano


The shock is wearing off now. Its going to be a hard family conversation. I didn't share with them I was doing the test, since when I brought it up before it caused one sister to have a temper tantrum thinking I was telling her she was going to get cancer. She created some family drama, but its not just about her. Hell, its doesn't mean I will get cancer again.

deb_U_taunt 02-27-2013 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by FireheartForever (Post 757832)
~ my mother has cancer ~

while she is not meant to b with me much longer, i find myself @ a loss as to ask god what i can say for her in my prayers. i dont think anything can prepare me for the loss of another parent. am i supposed to b ready for this? if so...i cant say i feel it. chemo is suppose to extend her life...but i dont see it giving her any quality. all i know is that all the joy in my life has left..it is replaced with a knawing sorrow of what is eniveitable. i understand what its like to not b able to do anything for someone whom u love n cant......... the uneviable position of feelin helpless ....

Fireheart, I am so sorry about your mom. I don't know what to say. It is hard to watch someone we love leave us. Hold on to good memories when you look in her eyes. Sending lots or love, prayers and hugs to you and your family.

clay 02-27-2013 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by mustangjeano (Post 757825)
Where do I go to sign up for Deb's team. I'm in.!!!!!

jean...you have always been on this amazing team here.....we are all chosen family here....I am honored to know you and call you a friend here on thsi Planet.
Your kind words, your warmth, and compassion as a loving human being here in this forum makes you part of each of us...thank YOU, jean. YOU are awesome...Go Team...Rah! Rah!

clay 02-27-2013 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by FireheartForever (Post 757832)
~ my mother has cancer ~

while she is not meant to b with me much longer, i find myself @ a loss as to ask god what i can say for her in my prayers. i dont think anything can prepare me for the loss of another parent. am i supposed to b ready for this? if so...i cant say i feel it. chemo is suppose to extend her life...but i dont see it giving her any quality. all i know is that all the joy in my life has left..it is replaced with a knawing sorrow of what is eniveitable. i understand what its like to not b able to do anything for someone whom u love n cant......... the uneviable position of feelin helpless ....

{{{{{{{{{{{{{Fire}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}....as my beautiful BFF deb said..there are no words except the love, comfort, and support we each offer here. Make every moment you have with her a memory. Tell her of your love for here every chance you get. Sometimes a hug does wonders.
I know this is a tragic journey, heartbreaking...to feel so helpless, powerless to make things all better for your mom....but know we here send you love, support, and feel free to come and vent here anytime. May your mom and you find comfort and peace within for this journey. Perhaps a support group in your area...there are some incredible people there as well who could walk with you in this journey...ask the local SW at the hospital...I care....

JAGG 02-27-2013 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by deb_U_taunt (Post 757389)
BRCA came back positive, not sure how I feel.

Well, besides shock.

I guess they didn't learn their lesson last time. "They are on your left they are on your right they are in front of you and they are behind you. They can't get away this time !!"
LET ME SEE YOUR WARFACE !!!! I am only a phone call away friend .

Tommi 02-27-2013 10:38 PM

My best wishes to you and you and youuuuuuuuu
 
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Originally Posted by deb_U_taunt (Post 757576)
I honestly can say I love you all. Its a very unconditional place to vent, pout and yeehaw.


Yeah, it is, and it is open 24/7. :rrose:

Some rough stuff comes our way, and fight as we can, tough as we are, and gentle as a lamb at times, we understand.

My best advice came from my Mom's chemo oncologist.

Go have lunch, smile at each other and see if you have anything in your teeth. Other than that, share the good and the bad, and most of all just listen. The words and the tears will come and go.


Lung cancer, then a heart attack took my Mom too early, and she was gone when I was diagnosed with endometrial cancer, but I talked it over with her anyway. :tea:
Now, I need to look up some stuff....love the internet

mustangjeano 02-28-2013 01:55 AM

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Originally Posted by clay (Post 757936)
jean...you have always been on this amazing team here.....we are all chosen family here....I am honored to know you and call you a friend here on thsi Planet.
Your kind words, your warmth, and compassion as a loving human being here in this forum makes you part of each of us...thank YOU, jean. YOU are awesome...Go Team...Rah! Rah!

Thank you my brother. I am proud and blessed to be your friend. The folks who post on this thread are my adopted family . There are so many good people offering such love and support to each other here.

mustangjeano 02-28-2013 02:06 AM

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Originally Posted by FireheartForever (Post 757832)
~ my mother has cancer ~

while she is not meant to b with me much longer, i find myself @ a loss as to ask god what i can say for her in my prayers. i dont think anything can prepare me for the loss of another parent. am i supposed to b ready for this? if so...i cant say i feel it. chemo is suppose to extend her life...but i dont see it giving her any quality. all i know is that all the joy in my life has left..it is replaced with a knawing sorrow of what is eniveitable. i understand what its like to not b able to do anything for someone whom u love n cant......... the uneviable position of feelin helpless ....

Fireheart thank you for posting and sharing so intimately your feelings at this horribly sad and difficult time. All you can do at this time is the best you can give at any given time--some days it will be a lot and others maybe less. I know what you mean about not being ready for your Mom to leave--it's always too soon. Please know that she will always be with you--I often feel my Mom's presence. Please post whenever you want us--there are so many great, compassionate, loving people here. You and your Mom are in my thoughts and prayers. Jeano

goodlilfemme 03-01-2013 12:33 AM

your not alone in going through this
 
(((((((((((((fireheart))))))))))))))))))))) major hugs for you . know that your absolutely not alone in dealing with your feelings right now. know that im thinking of you and wishing for comfort for you , always goodlilfemme


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Originally Posted by mustangjeano (Post 758457)
Fireheart thank you for posting and sharing so intimately your feelings at this horribly sad and difficult time. All you can do at this time is the best you can give at any given time--some days it will be a lot and others maybe less. I know what you mean about not being ready for your Mom to leave--it's always too soon. Please know that she will always be with you--I often feel my Mom's presence. Please post whenever you want us--there are so many great, compassionate, loving people here. You and your Mom are in my thoughts and prayers. Jeano


clay 03-01-2013 05:01 AM

((((((((((((((((((((((deb u taunt)))))))))))))))))))))))....:byebye:

Tommi 03-01-2013 05:39 AM

This thread....

is such a powerful, hauntingingly thought provoking, compassionate and sometimes sad, sometiimes gloriously wonderful place to see.

All with our own hopes and prayers, friends and families, we have a pkace to come and share, acknowledge, or just support in thought.

Our worlds are just an enter key, an electronic highway away. Driving by to say Love, and Thoughts, and precious memories be with you all.

Tommi.

deb_U_taunt 03-06-2013 09:26 PM

I am counting down the damn days. This is so frustrating. Its been 18 months since my last chemo treatment and while its better, its still a pain in the ass.

Chemo Brain:
While frustrating, the ultimate outcome is very good: symptoms typically disappear in about four years.

clay 03-14-2013 05:19 PM

Had my 15 month Check Up today with my Oncology Practitioner.
My CEA is within normal limits, has come down 1 point...:).
I go again in June, and again in September. That will be my yearly Re Scan..CT chest/abd/pelvis with IV Contrast.

I am very happy that today she told me my chances that were 59% Survival rate, now bring me up to a 75% 5 year survival rate...and that each 3 month checkup, being within normal ranges, decreases my chances of recurrence.
I am very happy with this, but by same token, I feel a sense of sadness to post my good news here.....a bittersweet kind of feeling....(w). I know all of us here will understand this...

Know my heart is with each and everyone of us..always...I heart you all...Clay

mustangjeano 03-15-2013 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted by clay (Post 767328)
Had my 15 month Check Up today with my Oncology Practitioner.
My CEA is within normal limits, has come down 1 point...:).
I go again in June, and again in September. That will be my yearly Re Scan..CT chest/abd/pelvis with IV Contrast.

I am very happy that today she told me my chances that were 59% Survival rate, now bring me up to a 75% 5 year survival rate...and that each 3 month checkup, being within normal ranges, decreases my chances of recurrence.
I am very happy with this, but by same token, I feel a sense of sadness to post my good news here.....a bittersweet kind of feeling....(w). I know all of us here will understand this...

Know my heart is with each and everyone of us..always...I heart you all...Clay

Hey Bro, thanks for sharing your good news--never feel sad about that--we all rejoice with you and need to hear the good news stories. It gives hope to everyone.

clay 03-15-2013 07:36 AM

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Originally Posted by mustangjeano (Post 767545)
Hey Bro, thanks for sharing your good news--never feel sad about that--we all rejoice with you and need to hear the good news stories. It gives hope to everyone.

Hey Jean..thanks so much! I so appreciate you. You are one of the kindest, most compassionate, and solid people I know. You are always so wonderful for each of us here.

You mean so very much to me, and the others here as well.

Thanks..have a great weekend Jean...Clay

deb_U_taunt 03-16-2013 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by clay (Post 767328)
Had my 15 month Check Up today with my Oncology Practitioner.
My CEA is within normal limits, has come down 1 point...:).
I go again in June, and again in September. That will be my yearly Re Scan..CT chest/abd/pelvis with IV Contrast.

I am very happy that today she told me my chances that were 59% Survival rate, now bring me up to a 75% 5 year survival rate...and that each 3 month checkup, being within normal ranges, decreases my chances of recurrence.
I am very happy with this, but by same token, I feel a sense of sadness to post my good news here.....a bittersweet kind of feeling....(w). I know all of us here will understand this...

Know my heart is with each and everyone of us..always...I heart you all...Clay


wonderful wonderful news!!!! shout happy thoughts, its not bittersweet by no means. happy news is the best news

kittygrrl 03-16-2013 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by deb_U_taunt (Post 762885)
I am counting down the damn days. This is so frustrating. Its been 18 months since my last chemo treatment and while its better, its still a pain in the ass.

Chemo Brain:
While frustrating, the ultimate outcome is very good: symptoms typically disappear in about four years.

It's been several years for my sister and she says she is just now feeling what used to be normal. She had lung cancer, had a partial lung removal, chemo that almost killed her three times..she had bone scans every 3 months for years but the last few years twice a year. It's been grueling with a lot of other kinds of heart ache along the way. She is brave, much braver then I would be.

deb_U_taunt 03-16-2013 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by kittygrrl (Post 768568)
It's been several years for my sister and she says she is just now feeling what used to be normal. She had lung cancer, had a partial lung removal, chemo that almost killed her three times..she had bone scans every 3 months for years but the last few years twice a year. It's been grueling with a lot of other kinds of heart ache along the way. She is brave, much braver then I would be.

kittygirl, its amazing what strength you have when you need it. We can surprise ourselves with what we are capable of. Your inner strength is there.

Glad to to hear your sister is moving forward and is still in recovery. :)

Hugs, Deb

DapperButch 04-17-2013 07:03 PM

IT'S THAT TIME OF YEAR AGAIN....
 
:blowingitup:

:blowingitup:



HAPPY COLONOSCOPY DAY TOMORROW, DAPPER!

:blowingitup:

:blowingitup:

rhopar 04-17-2013 07:27 PM

As a cancer survivor of 9 years on this coming November 21, 2013, I would like to send prayers to all who are fighting this terrible disease. Never give up, stay faithful, keep praying and fight, fight, fight!! Many, many people have won this battle and you can also!!

mustangjeano 04-17-2013 11:48 PM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch (Post 784683)
:blowingitup:

:blowingitup:



HAPPY COLONOSCOPY DAY TOMORROW, DAPPER!

:blowingitup:

:blowingitup:

Hey Dapper, by now you have already been thru the worst part ( drinking the stuff and cleaning out) except for waiting for the results. I will be thinking the very best thoughts for good news. We will all celebrate with you! Jean

DapperButch 04-18-2013 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by mustangjeano (Post 784819)
Hey Dapper, by now you have already been thru the worst part ( drinking the stuff and cleaning out) except for waiting for the results. I will be thinking the very best thoughts for good news. We will all celebrate with you! Jean

Well, it is time for that celebration! No cancer, here!

2 polyps. Back in 18 months. :hangloose:

mustangjeano 04-19-2013 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch (Post 784930)
Well, it is time for that celebration! No cancer, here!

2 polyps. Back in 18 months. :hangloose:

WoooHoooo! Thanks for sharing the great news. That is, without a DOUBT, THE BEST NEWS i HAVE HEARD TRODAy. Jean

Tommi 04-19-2013 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch (Post 784930)
Well, it is time for that celebration! No cancer, here!

2 polyps. Back in 18 months. :hangloose:

:pile: :dance1: :danceparty::danceparty::danceparty:

Tommi 04-19-2013 12:17 AM

9 Year Club
 
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Originally Posted by rhopar (Post 784693)
As a cancer survivor of 9 years on this coming November 21, 2013, I would like to send prayers to all who are fighting this terrible disease. Never give up, stay faithful, keep praying and fight, fight, fight!! Many, many people have won this battle and you can also!!

Hey Hey..way to go. Yep, keep on keepin on .:fastdraq:

We are in the same club. May 15th will be 9 years for me. :LGBTQFlag::snooker::goodscore:

DapperButch 04-19-2013 05:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Tommi (Post 785342)
Hey Hey..way to go. Yep, keep on keepin on .:fastdraq:

We are in the same club. May 15th will be 9 years for me. :LGBTQFlag::snooker::goodscore:

Congrats, Tommi!

deb_U_taunt 04-23-2013 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch (Post 784930)
Well, it is time for that celebration! No cancer, here!

2 polyps. Back in 18 months. :hangloose:

Fantastic news!!!!

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