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Daktari 04-08-2011 08:00 AM
Tell her you love her for her intellect whilst not taking yer eyes off her rack! :|

girl_dee 04-08-2011 08:03 AM
Do not ignore someone's past. It's the best prediction of the future.

Oiler41 04-08-2011 08:05 AM
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Originally Posted by sassy_girl (Post 315884)
Do not ignore someone's past. It's the best prediction of the future.
Absolutely.

Glynn

girl_dee 04-08-2011 11:39 AM
don't ignore your past failed relationships by engaging with the same person with a different name, you will get the same results

Glenn 04-08-2011 12:37 PM
You cannot buy Real love and attraction. It cannot be bought or sold.

Nat 04-12-2011 04:56 PM
I actually heard this one on a podcast about successful and happy long-term marriages -

Don't forget to create opportunities to laugh together.

According to the interviewee, regular laughter alleviates tensions and strengthens the bond. The guy claimed laughter produces oxytocin (the "bonding" or "trust" hormone also involved in labor/birth) but I haven't verified that.

Anyway, it's good advice for me because I get so very serious so very often.

Nat 04-12-2011 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted by popcorninthesofa (Post 316010)
You cannot buy Real love and attraction. It cannot be bought or sold.
Thank goodness for that, or I'd be sh*t-outta-luck. :)

Sachita 04-12-2011 05:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Nat (Post 318681)
I actually heard this one on a podcast about successful and happy long-term marriages -

Don't forget to create opportunities to laugh together.

According to the interviewee, regular laughter alleviates tensions and strengthens the bond. The guy claimed laughter produces oxytocin (the "bonding" or "trust" hormone also involved in labor/birth) but I haven't verified that.

Anyway, it's good advice for me because I get so very serious so very often.
That's why you don't get involved with someone you don't like a lot. You have to have things in common like the same sense of humor and adventure. This is a big one for me. I need to have fun and laugh a lot. I can't deal with passive aggressive negativity that stifles the fun.

Don't throw out sexual innuendos in our first couple of conversations. Show me your sense of humor and what kind of human you are. If we gel, laugh and can connect in a playful way then we'll move forward. If it's too much work going in then no doubt there will be a struggle later.

Blade 04-12-2011 07:12 PM
Don't shutdown.......keep the communication open

girl_dee 04-12-2011 07:18 PM
don't tell all your private hardstuff unless you are absolutely sure it's ok.

Bard 04-12-2011 09:51 PM
A brief disclaimer .... this post is in NO way reflective of Desd if anything she shows me the what you should do and I am forever grateful she took a chance on this Cowboi

DON'T ever use our child as a pawn or for that matter make fun of me in front of her.. she thinks the world of BOTH of us and when you laugh at me call me names infer that I am dumb it HURTS her

Make fun or belittle my Military service yes I know I signed up for it but it was not my vacation from you or the child it broke me to be away from her

don't go through my phone or email I will flipp and it ain't gonna be purddy

don't try to change me I ain't broken flawed yes scared hell yeah

Lastly and this is for me DON"T EVER take her for granted :cigar2:

Starbuck 04-12-2011 10:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Nat (Post 315762)
I'm a cheese addict. It's a sad life. But thankfully I'm loved. Though I think she might be catching my cheese addiction. Mmmm feta.
Hey I think cheese should be it's own food group!:hangloose:

Starbuck 04-12-2011 10:27 PM
Don't make me a yo-yo, meaning push me away then draw me back in with your loving, caring behavior. Make your mind up already! :wtf:
If you decide we're no longer compatible, let me know! Don't just stop talking to me! :phonegab:
Don't take that which I've shared with you and spread rumors against me. :|

CherryFemme 04-12-2011 11:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Nat (Post 318681)
I actually heard this one on a podcast about successful and happy long-term marriages -

Don't forget to create opportunities to laugh together.
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

Oh that is a good one-- I know I laugh at blackboot all the time...

:shocking:
CF

simpleasdirt 04-13-2011 12:03 AM
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Originally Posted by Blade (Post 318790)
Don't shutdown.......keep the communication open
Exactly! The silent treatment doesn't resolve anything. If anything should be "fluid" in relationships, it's communication.

Soft*Silver 04-13-2011 12:08 AM
dont expect miracles out of the new person in your life. They are not the second coming of the messiah here to absolve your world of all the past sins of your past lovers. They are just another person who has a chance to love you. Dont screw it up by expecting too much out of them.

simpleasdirt 04-13-2011 12:08 AM
We should try not to react without thinking first.

msW8ing 04-13-2011 12:18 AM
Aretha said it best..R-E-S-P-E-C-T. ie..Even if thier wrong do not correct them in front of others..Never degrade or demean them..Open communication..Never let a day pass that you don't tell them how much they are loved, appreciated and admired, one key a counselor friend of mine said was to hug and kiss for at least 3 minutes when you get home...Grams said it best, think before you speak, you can't take back words.

girl_dee 04-13-2011 05:03 AM
Don't keep talking about your ex for Goddess sake! I would like to respect that relationship but if you keeping bringing them up it no longer appears you are over it!

dixie 04-13-2011 06:05 AM
Don't take advantage, nor take for granted.


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