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JustLovelyJenn 12-04-2010 03:44 PM
People from my past have been on my mind.... and even though we didn't part on good terms.... I still wonder about them, and hope they are well... and for some reason, I still haven't deleted their numbers from my phonebook...

girl_dee 12-04-2010 04:37 PM
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Originally Posted by WolfyOne (Post 241206)
I used to let that happen when I was younger with my mom and 2 older brothers until my Dad and I had a talk. He told me if I don't let them see they've gotten to me, eventually the thrill they got from it would go away and they'd stop. He also told me if what they said or did bothered me, rather than confront them on it and give into their little game of hurt that I should write it all down on paper. He then proceeded to tell me to read and reread what I wrote until I get it out of my system. After I felt like it was gone, I should crumble up the paper and throw it away. Honestly, it worked and the game they played called hurt me, stopped when they finally got that they couldn't get to me anymore.
Thanks Wolfy.. I need to get myself in a headspace that this doesn't happen anymore..

Maybe writing then burning it will make it better. Glad you are good now..

lipstixgal 12-04-2010 04:45 PM
On how cold its gotten in the past days and wishing I lived in a warmer place like the south and how I have to go out in it for Chanukah dinner at the Temple!! sigh

Cirrus 12-04-2010 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted by WolfyOne (Post 241238)
My friends in and around Chicago are digging themselves out from all the snow they got

One of them sent me a pic of it with a tape measure showing almost 9 inches where he's at
Another told me he had to go get another shovel, the one he had broke

I do not miss that much snow and will never move back to Chicago

Yesterday I didn't even have a jacket on when I went outside :blink:
Ohhh that explains it. I was wondering why you had a Bears logo up. The Packers are not doing as well as I'd like. Those darn Bears are in 1st place!!

WolfyOne 12-04-2010 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Cirrus (Post 241429)
Ohhh that explains it. I was wondering why you had a Bears logo up. The Packers are not doing as well as I'd like. Those darn Bears are in 1st place!!

Yes indeed....you can take me out of Chicago, but wherever I am, Da Bears come along, lol.

WolfyOne 12-04-2010 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted by lipstixgal (Post 241414)
On how cold its gotten in the past days and wishing I lived in a warmer place like the south and how I have to go out in it for Chanukah dinner at the Temple!! sigh

This is where I come in and tell you it's not really cold here yet. Not saying it doesn't get cold, but won't get as cold as where you're at and the snow when it comes here never lasts long at all.

Wolfy....who doesn't miss Chicago winters at all :)

shadows papa 12-04-2010 07:58 PM
Want!!!!
 
I will be adding one of these to my bike collection in the next couple of years....it's on my mind BIGTIME!

katsarecool 12-04-2010 08:02 PM
I saw teeny tiny snowflakes early this morning. Wondering if I imagined them. Alberta Clipper headed this way and will stay for ten days or so. Very very cold weather coming and I hate it!!! I know hate is a strong word. But extreme temps do me in with the fibromyalgia and I spend time in bed when that happens. Plus it knocks the hell out of my utility budget....

Miss Scarlett 12-05-2010 09:09 AM
The beautiful, young calico cat who showed up outside my apartment friday evening...I don't know if she is lost, a stray or was abandoned. I wish I could bring her inside but my cat is 14, not used to other animals and I am fairly certain things would not go well at all. Also I have no idea as to her health.

But this poor creature just broke my heart yesterday, especially since we have some really, really cold weather approaching. She was outside my windows meowing and climbing my screens. After some thought I decided to provide her with food, water and shelter. I fixed up a box, covering the exterior bottom to keep out moisture, closed 3/4 of the open side to hold in heat but also to allow a little entrance and put one of my old fluffy sweaters in there for her. I took an empty Clementine crate and placed dry food and water dishes in it. Then I set everything up under the stairs outside my apartment. It's protected from the wind and rain - two of my neighbors are storing things there: a grill and a bicycle - so she is more or less out of the weather and out of sight of hawks and owls.

When I put out the food, she fell on it so I added some more. She seemed to calm down a bit after that and stopped the meowing and climbing. I did pet her and talk with her after she ate. She is very sweet and not at all feral.

Before going out I refilled her bowl and when I came home she had eaten most of it. I presume she was in her little house because she was nowhere to be seen. I didn't top off the food last night because the raccoons, opossums or other wilidlife would likely eat it.

I haven't seen her yet this morning and I will go outside in a little while to give her some more food and change out her water.

DapperButch 12-05-2010 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted by shadows papa (Post 241513)
I will be adding one of these to my bike collection in the next couple of years....it's on my mind BIGTIME!
Details on bike, please.

little_ms_sunshyne 12-05-2010 12:02 PM
Getting a new tattoo in 2 weeks :)

katsarecool 12-05-2010 12:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett (Post 241794)
The beautiful, young calico cat who showed up outside my apartment friday evening...I don't know if she is lost, a stray or was abandoned. I wish I could bring her inside but my cat is 14, not used to other animals and I am fairly certain things would not go well at all. Also I have no idea as to her health.

But this poor creature just broke my heart yesterday, especially since we have some really, really cold weather approaching. She was outside my windows meowing and climbing my screens. After some thought I decided to provide her with food, water and shelter. I fixed up a box, covering the exterior bottom to keep out moisture, closed 3/4 of the open side to hold in heat but also to allow a little entrance and put one of my old fluffy sweaters in there for her. I took an empty Clementine crate and placed dry food and water dishes in it. Then I set everything up under the stairs outside my apartment. It's protected from the wind and rain - two of my neighbors are storing things there: a grill and a bicycle - so she is more or less out of the weather and out of sight of hawks and owls.

When I put out the food, she fell on it so I added some more. She seemed to calm down a bit after that and stopped the meowing and climbing. I did pet her and talk with her after she ate. She is very sweet and not at all feral.

Before going out I refilled her bowl and when I came home she had eaten most of it. I presume she was in her little house because she was nowhere to be seen. I didn't top off the food last night because the raccoons, opossums or other wilidlife would likely eat it.

I haven't seen her yet this morning and I will go outside in a little while to give her some more food and change out her water.
That is so sweet of you!!! My guess is that she is lost. If she were a stray or feral she would not have let you pet her so quickly.

I have a black male un-neutered cat that I care for but cannot bring inside because of my other furr babies. It breaks my heart every day. His ear has been lacerated repeatedly over the past two years and it keeps re-opening. Makes me so sad! If I come into some extra money I will take Tom Tom to the vet to be neutered, vaccinations and then try to find him a home!! I keep playing the lottery in hopes of being able to help him!!!

I hope you find her owners!!!

Miss Scarlett 12-05-2010 01:10 PM
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Originally Posted by katsarecool (Post 241911)
That is so sweet of you!!! My guess is that she is lost. If she were a stray or feral she would not have let you pet her so quickly.

I have a black male un-neutered cat that I care for but cannot bring inside because of my other furr babies. It breaks my heart every day. His ear has been lacerated repeatedly over the past two years and it keeps re-opening. Makes me so sad! If I come into some extra money I will take Tom Tom to the vet to be neutered, vaccinations and then try to find him a home!! I keep playing the lottery in hopes of being able to help him!!!

I hope you find her owners!!!
Her dish was empty when I put food out for her earlier this morning. About 30 minutes ago I checked and half is now gone. I still haven't seen her nor have I checked her box - it's her safe space and I don't want to disturb her if she is in there. I'm going to top off her dish here in a minute. There haven't been any dogs, etc. out there today so she must be eating.

JustLovelyJenn 12-05-2010 01:48 PM
:detective:

That's classified.

ravfem 12-05-2010 03:52 PM
The coming week...

"playing house"...

talks...

:hangloose:

moonfemme 12-05-2010 06:20 PM
Why... When you no longer choose to speak to certain people, and you haven't for 2 years and counting and and having a very very very good reason why I shouldn't... Why do they continue to try ????????? arghhhh

JustLovelyJenn 12-05-2010 07:04 PM
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Originally Posted by moonfemme (Post 242079)
Why... When you no longer choose to speak to certain people, and you haven't for 2 years and counting and and having a very very very good reason why I shouldn't... Why do they continue to try ????????? arghhhh
AND... why do other people continue to tell you how they are doing???

Cirrus 12-06-2010 04:39 AM
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Originally Posted by WolfyOne (Post 241440)
This is where I come in and tell you it's not really cold here yet. Not saying it doesn't get cold, but won't get as cold as where you're at and the snow when it comes here never lasts long at all.

Wolfy....who doesn't miss Chicago winters at all :)
I've been to Chicago several times. It's about a 7 hour ride from here though so it does not happen often at all. I am actually a lot closer to Duluth, MN. Only an hour there depending on the weather. It's pretty cold here right now, but I am prepared for it. Usually our biggest challenge in the winter is keeping out eye out for drunken snowmobilers, people ice fishing dangerously, and lost skiers.

I get what you are saying though. If I went anyplace else I'd still be a cheesehead


moonfemme 12-06-2010 08:00 AM
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Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn (Post 242107)
AND... why do other people continue to tell you how they are doing???
Jenn... I wish I knew... sometimes family(and some friends) are just hang-er on-ers... maybe it's being blood related and those bonds are hard to break... All I know is I need sometime away... I need to process, then figure out how to deal with a family issue... I hate ultimatums, when I was younger I would do the opposite out of spite... but now... I just think that if you need space and time ... the request should be honored. If not then LEAVE ME THE F%^K alone will be my answer :~)

JustJo 12-06-2010 09:11 AM
...that I used to laugh all the time, and lately feel like I've lost that

...that I am truly sick and tired of arguing and anger

...that I miss my best friend more than I thought I would

...that I am bone tired, and frustrated that I can't sleep

...that whatever I do or say never seems to be right, or enough, or whatever

...that every time I feel like things are turning around in life, they hang a U-turn on me

...that I'm fighting that same old depressed crap...ugh


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