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socialjustice_fsu 11-06-2016 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1104863)
Well, another weekend is here and it is already November. Time flies.

I'm going down to the predominantly gay part of San Diego tonight. My coworker is forcing me out on the town. Actually, my colleague actually works for me. I'm wondering how appropriate it is to have drinks with a direct report. Would you or would you not?

Mel, I have been in a number of meetings with direct report staff. It's not even a slippery slope. In my opinion it's a loud and clear "no."

Mel C. 11-06-2016 03:28 PM

Thanks for the input all!

Gemme 11-06-2016 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1105156)
Thanks for the input all!

What did you do, cupcake? Was it drinks? A show? Dinner? A quiet night?

Inquiring minds....:thinking:

Mel C. 11-06-2016 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 1105161)
What did you do, cupcake? Was it drinks? A show? Dinner? A quiet night?

Inquiring minds....:thinking:

We met for drinks in the predominantly gay area of town. Not sure whether there will be another night on the town. There are only 25 or so employees where I work but we were recently bought out by a company of 4,000. They will probably end Mimosa Monday's (yep, we really do drink alcohol at work sometimes).

Gemme 11-06-2016 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1105175)
We met for drinks in the predominantly gay area of town. Not sure whether there will be another night on the town. There are only 25 or so employees where I work but we were recently bought out by a company of 4,000. They will probably end Mimosa Monday's (yep, we really do drink alcohol at work sometimes).

Glad things worked out okie dokie.

Zimmeh 11-08-2016 07:27 AM

Hope you all are having a good start to your week! I'm taking my pup to the park here in a bit.

Zimmeh

Mel C. 11-08-2016 09:34 AM

Well today is the day...time to elect a President. I will be watching shows off my DVR to avoid stressing too much. I hope all the singles who are registered to vote got their vote on. I voted by mail a couple weeks ago.

*drumroll*

Zimmeh 11-08-2016 11:50 PM

I worked in the unit where my stepdad's grandma is. I walked in and she didn't recognize me. I held her hand and told her I was there to keep her safe. She hasn't eaten anything in over a week and I left her room in tears. So we are preparing ourselves to accept when she goes home.

Now to cuddle with Babygirl and relax before bed.

Zimmeh

Zimmeh 11-15-2016 11:32 AM

Hope you all are having a good start to your week! I have bought three gifts so far and I love shopping online :)

Leaving a pot of hot water and Teavana's Peach Tranquility tea for us to enjoy.

Zimmeh

Nattih 11-19-2016 10:03 AM

Have been trying to be a responsible adult lately. Was hallway successful lol. I had my heart set on renting an apartment in an awesome high rise but it decided that saving more each month is the responsible thing to do. So still at the apartment hunting drawing board.

I hope everyone here is doing well! Hopefully the weekend holds some great adventures

Mel C. 11-19-2016 01:04 PM

Happy Saturday Singles! The holidays are rapidly approaching, which can be hard for some people. I'm hoping that all of the singles have an enjoyable week!

Zimmeh 11-21-2016 07:54 AM

It is a chilly start to my morning here in Florida! My poor pup was shivering all night and is still cuddling in her three blankies lol.

Leaving all of us a big pot of Starbucks Thanksgiving Blend coffee and omelets for breakfast.

Zimmeh

Zimmeh 11-21-2016 08:49 PM

I am enjoying a cup of Hot Cocoa. This weather is for the birds, but I love it! I have had my windows open all day and Babygirl enjoyed that.

Hope you all had a great Monday and a good start to the beginning of your work week.

Zimmeh

Zimmeh 12-01-2016 09:44 PM

It has been a crazy week for me. My step dad's grandma passed away on November 21st, so we have been dealing with that and now shopping for Christmas. My oldest niece will be moving to Texas in January with her mom and step dad. This will also be her last Christmas with us until she comes back in two years, it bums me out.

Have a good night,

Zimmeh

Mel C. 12-03-2016 08:56 PM

Sorry to hear life has been stressful Zimmeh.

Where are all of the singles on a Saturday night?

Chad 12-03-2016 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1113007)
Sorry to hear life has been stressful Zimmeh.

Where are all of the singles on a Saturday night?

Hey buddy, I am here. Meet me in CT in the the spring for a beer. Let's invite Salty. :)

Mel C. 12-03-2016 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Chad (Post 1113011)
Hey buddy, I am here. Meet me in CT in the the spring for a beer. Let's invite Salty. :)

I'm game. I will be in the Boston area in January. Come get cold with me.

Zimmeh 12-05-2016 08:52 PM

Thank you Mel! My step dad has been in denial over her death and my mom is supporting him. Have you finished your shopping? I think I'm done and then realize, I'm not.


Zimmeh

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mel C. (Post 1113007)
Sorry to hear life has been stressful Zimmeh.

Where are all of the singles on a Saturday night?


pumpndude 12-08-2016 07:24 PM

Zimmeh, Sorry to hear about your grandma, she is now is a better place and for your stepdad- grieving takes as long as it takes...everyone is different...

My mom has slowed down a lot and looks really skiny, I'm now cooking for her and my sister....Any loss of a family member can be really hard....

take care and happy holidays to you and your loved ones....

Zimmeh 12-09-2016 12:06 AM

Thank you Pumpmdude! We donated all of her clothes and her wheelchair to the nursing home. I am not sure what happened to your mom and sister, but I hope they have a speedy recovery!

Zimmeh


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Originally Posted by pumpndude (Post 1114615)
Zimmeh, Sorry to hear about your grandma, she is now is a better place and for your stepdad- grieving takes as long as it takes...everyone is different...

My mom has slowed down a lot and looks really skiny, I'm now cooking for her and my sister....Any loss of a family member can be really hard....

take care and happy holidays to you and your loved ones....


Zimmeh 12-23-2016 10:19 AM

Happy Holidays to Everyone! If you are traveling to see family and friends, be safe! It doesn't feel like Christmas here in Florida.

Zimmeh

easygoingfemme 12-23-2016 11:06 AM

Happy Happy Holidays! I hope each and every one of you is able to create the day you want for yourself.

Cheers~~~

Mel C. 12-23-2016 08:24 PM

Good evening Singles! Another holiday approaches. I haven't decided whether it's easier harder or just different being single for holiday parties. What sayeth you?

clay 12-23-2016 10:48 PM

Want to wish all my friends here a very warm & happy holiday season..however each may celebrate!

Hugs to you all....clay

Stone-Butch 12-23-2016 10:53 PM

singles
 
I sit here by myself and happy. Single is not so bad but I don't party anymore. SO, I don't think I am missing anything. I hope you all have wonderful holidays and that geriatric old fart gives you all you have wished for. Peace and good will to all chatters.

Gemme 12-24-2016 06:49 AM

Happy holidays, singles!

Lyte 12-25-2016 03:54 PM

Very Merry Christmas to everyone!! :jester:

Shystonefem 12-25-2016 04:51 PM

I am not single anymore but I am still sending love to all of you. XOXOXO

Chad 12-29-2016 07:23 PM

Singles
 
Howdy singles,

Well here I am. Over the holidays I got the impression that my family wanted to be involved in my dating life...or maybe it was just the interviews...haha.

I say whatever works, haha. Where is that older relative or neighbor that does the match making? Ha!

I always keep my positive outlook so let's have some fun, some laughs, and hopefully find some great friends along the way.

:cowboy:

Zimmeh 12-29-2016 09:51 PM

Have a good night Everyone!

Zimmeh

Mel C. 12-31-2016 12:49 PM

Happy Saturday Singles. I have a date with my mom and possibly my aunt. There will definitely be hugging and a peck on the cheek. Most action I've had in 2016...at least that I can recall. Here's to 2017 being good to all of us Singles!

cinnamongrrl 12-31-2016 04:32 PM

I have a question...

I sometimes peruse the local personals on craigslist...more out of curiosity than with purpose...

So...my question is this...

I've been seeing the word "stud" used in ads...and it tends to also be a butch referring to themselves as such...so...what is a stud exactly?? I mean...I know what it means in the animal sense but...

Yeah. Any help is appreciated and happy New year y'all!

Chad 12-31-2016 07:40 PM

Singles
 
Happy New Year Singles,

Let's party!

:party:

Have a safe and happy night.

Chad

Gemme 01-01-2017 09:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cinnamongrrl (Post 1119967)
I have a question...

I sometimes peruse the local personals on craigslist...more out of curiosity than with purpose...

So...my question is this...

I've been seeing the word "stud" used in ads...and it tends to also be a butch referring to themselves as such...so...what is a stud exactly?? I mean...I know what it means in the animal sense but...

Yeah. Any help is appreciated and happy New year y'all!

The term stud is used primarily in POC communities to describe a very masculine butch. They could also mean that they are a 'ladies' butch' and are smooth.

Here's a link that might be helpful.

Zimmeh 01-01-2017 09:27 PM

After working 16 hours yesterday, I have been watching movies all day and napping. I gave my pup a bath with Burt's Bees oatmeal and honey shampoo, a yummy treat and a lot of loving. I also went shopping for new work shoes. The other night, I stepped in a pile of poo from a resident. I threw them in the garbage once I got home.

Have a good night and leaving us all a yummy slice of birthday cake and hot cocoa!

Zimmeh

pumpndude 01-02-2017 01:30 AM

Happy New Year to All...:cigar2:

I hope 2017 is the year I find my soulmate and she finds me....:hangloose:
I'm going to hang out today in my :boxers:

:fireworks:



:danceparty:

Chad 01-06-2017 08:57 PM

Singles
 
Happy Friday night Singles,

It is freezing in Texas. I hope everyone is safe and warm. The baby kitty and I are snuggled up watching Diners, Drive-ins, and Dives on TV.

I hope everyone has a safe and happy Friday night.
Leaving some hot pizza for snacks.
Chad

Zimmeh 01-07-2017 09:52 PM

It is freezing here in Florida to! My pup is freezing her butt off. I start my new shift tomorrow and I'm really going to enjoy working 11p to 7a.


Night,

Zimmeh

Czarcastica McDarling 01-08-2017 06:20 PM

Another single checking in. It's been freezing here as well - so glad for my electric blanket. Tonight will be doing my nails & toenails and wishing tomorrow wasn't Monday. I worked Saturday, so just a 1 day weekend for me. Hope everybody else is keeping warm!

Mel C. 01-09-2017 02:22 PM

I'm in Boston for work. It's a wee bit colder than San Diego. The white stuff on the ground isn't sand and flip-flops are out of the question. I'll end the week by visiting some b-f people a couple hours from here. I'm excited to see the ones I know and meet the ones that I don't know (yet). Makes me miss Reunions.


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