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~Bo 01-17-2011 09:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme (Post 267717)
American Idol comes back on Wednesday.

:choir:







Yayyyy!!


And with J-Lo. :cheer:

Miss Scarlett 01-17-2011 09:51 PM

6:15-ish tomorrow evening...

Blade 01-17-2011 10:01 PM

I heard 7?

sylvie 01-17-2011 10:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jet (Post 267742)
I really like your post.

j

thank you so very much J!

Nightshade 01-17-2011 10:19 PM

Balls
 
Yes, exactly the sort you think I mean. Which in general slang, indicates bravery and integrity. Neither of which is gender specific, but the idea of which I just slapped my ex with anyway. Sigh.

Man the fuck up. Whether you be a woman or a man, a femme or a butch, have some god damned integrity and own up to your own truths, whether you like them or are proud of them or not.

They are yours to own. Stand up and speak them and don't blame anyone else for them.

If you can do that (no matter how it effects me), you will earn my respect forever.

little_ms_sunshyne 01-17-2011 10:33 PM

I am thinking I may officially be out of this funk Ive been in. Starting new and NOW (yes NOW) am ready to just take everything one day at a time. I mean it this time!!! lol Ready for a positive change :)

blush 01-17-2011 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Nightshade (Post 267828)
Yes, exactly the sort you think I mean. Which in general slang, indicates bravery and integrity. Neither of which is gender specific, but the idea of which I just slapped my ex with anyway. Sigh.

Man the fuck up. Whether you be a woman or a man, a femme or a butch, have some god damned integrity and own up to your own truths, whether you like them or are proud of them or not.

They are yours to own. Stand up and speak them and don't blame anyone else for them.

If you can do that (no matter how it effects me), you will earn my respect forever.

Yo. I GET what you mean. But "having balls" and "man-ing up" is still sexist, no matter how you dice it. There's no general slang in those phrases. They're very specifically-designed phrases that perpetuate the idea that men are braver and more ethical than everyone else.

Otherwise, we wouldn't "scream like girls" or "be a pussy."

Nightshade 01-17-2011 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted by blush (Post 267855)
Yo. I GET what you mean. But "having balls" and "man-ing up" is still sexist, no matter how you dice it. There's no general slang in those phrases. They're very specifically-designed phrases that perpetuate the idea that men are braver and more ethical than everyone else.

Otherwise, we wouldn't "scream like girls" or "be a pussy."

Well I have never screamed like a girl, or called some one a pussy, but I get where you're coming from.

I am one of the strongest, most enduring women you will ever meet. Wanna bet? PM me and we'll match story for story. Manning up is an expression I use, not to denigrate women, but to elevate men. To invite them to step the fuck up. Will anyone? Who knows. Did my ex? Nope. Not in the least.

That is all.

blush 01-17-2011 11:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Nightshade (Post 267860)
Well I have never screamed like a girl, or called some one a pussy, but I get where you're coming from.

I am one of the strongest, most enduring women you will ever meet. Wanna bet? PM me and we'll match story for story. Manning up is an expression I use, not to denigrate women, but to elevate men. To invite them to step the fuck up. Will anyone? Who knows. Did my ex? Nope. Not in the least.

That is all.

Fair enough. We all need to step up sometimes.

The_Lady_Snow 01-17-2011 11:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nightshade (Post 267860)
Well I have never screamed like a girl, or called some one a pussy, but I get where you're coming from.

I am one of the strongest, most enduring women you will ever meet. Wanna bet? PM me and we'll match story for story. Manning up is an expression I use, not to denigrate women, but to elevate men. To invite them to step the fuck up. Will anyone? Who knows. Did my ex? Nope. Not in the least.

That is all.



We've all had to step up be strong it's got nothing to do with male.

I'm Femme they don't make 'em any ballsier, tougher, stronger than that.

;)

Nightshade 01-17-2011 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow (Post 267874)
I'm Femme they don't make 'em any ballsier, tougher, stronger than that.

;)

This exactly!

Miss Scarlett 01-18-2011 05:39 AM

A hat...and the accompanying wicked smile...

sylvie 01-18-2011 05:57 AM


courage is on my mind.. i need the courage to be myself..
picking out some of the things that are important for 'me' ..

- to embrace my strengths - or even be aware i have some..
- to get excited about life - to live, laugh & love
- to face & transform my fears - especially the ones that hinder me
- to ask for help when i need it the most - it's not a weakness
- to get free of trying to be supergirl for everyone, all the time
- to trust myself , especially my gut instincts
- to talk as nicely to myself as i do my plants..or my cat..they get more self respect than i do with myself.
- to honor my own needs, or at least embrace them some, and feel my worth.
- to love the little girl within me ♥
- to overcome my addiction to approval
- to grant myself permission to play - i deserve it..
- to nurture others because i want to, not because i have to..
- to set limits & boundaries and stick by them..
- to take risks and accept change
- to always be completely honest with myself.
- to plan for the future but to live in the present..
- to value my intuition and wisdom..
- to develop healthy, supportive friendships that are positive for me..
- to make forgiveness a priority
- to accept myself, just as i am..

dixie 01-18-2011 06:27 AM

I'm thinking that Ricky Gervais' scathing Golden Globe performance reinforced everything I adore about that man... :D

morningstar55 01-18-2011 06:52 AM

on my mind this morning........

errands to do this morning,
thinking about my sister in law passing away friday morning, and waiting for news on how or why.
working today
staying warm, its freezing out there
jumping in the shower

Sam 01-18-2011 07:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nightshade (Post 267860)
To invite them to step the fuck up. Will anyone? Who knows. Did my ex? Nope. Not in the least.

That is all.

I'm thinking you havent found your match in life, but dont fall upon bad behaviour because not all "guys/butches" fall short.

;)

Nightshade 01-18-2011 08:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sam (Post 267947)
I'm thinking you havent found your match in life

I'm thinking you're right. ;)

Andrew, Jr. 01-18-2011 04:35 PM


Dixie,

On Thursday night, 9pm, on CNN, Piers Morgan will be interviewing Ricky Gervais. I wonder if he will be a no show.

Regards,
Andrew

Miss Scarlett 01-19-2011 05:37 AM

Boots and not mine either...:eyebat:

sylvie 01-20-2011 12:44 PM

things i need to do tomorrow morning...
tonight when i get home, i'll get everything prepared, and then tomorrow marks my big day!
building myself up to this moment has been an incredible process, and feeling 100% ready to take it on , is the best feeling ever..

i don't think i've ever anticipated something for myself, so much...
and yes, i feel worthy. *smiles*


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