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LoyalWolfsBlade 07-10-2012 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy (Post 613341)
Thank you Alix, I've never had a Butch friend crush on me. I crush on everyone here. :)

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Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl (Post 613346)
Yes, thank you Alix. It is nice hearing someone has a crush on me, too.

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Originally Posted by Julien (Post 613391)
Hey Alix, thanks for the butch/friend crush. Let there be more secrets revealed. :hamactor:

You are all welcome!

MrNiceGuy who couldn't crush on you even as a butch your just so damn romantic in all you do and you are one of the posters here on BFP that either makes me smile or laugh out loud. Like I said before not all crushes have to do with a romantic relationship. You remind me of me when I was younger.

APG how could I not crush on you and your writing. You know you speak to my language and as always your respectful at all times. Whish I was going to reunion so I could hear your spoken word piece...especially the erotica one :blink: You and TheLadySnow just speak to ALL of me but I am also a tad bit afraid of TheLadySnow and I have never been afraid of a femme lol

Julien now what fun would it be if all secrets were revelaed. Besides I have to keep some so I can torment poor MrNiceGuy with the knowledge that I have them but won't name names it is the :readfineprint: somewhere let me go look. LOL Besides we have the same avatar how could I not crush on someone that has similar taste as me.


LaneyDoll 07-10-2012 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Alix67 (Post 613324)


I also have crushes on APG, LaneyDoll, and LeftWriteFemme for their ability to touch a part of me in every post I read of theirs it always enlist an exhilarating emotion in me.



Thank you! It was really nice to read this :)

:sparklyheart:

Mr Nice Guy 07-10-2012 06:33 PM

I've tried posting something but I think I'm speechless. Thank you Alix, that was a nice compliment. You and everyone else can torment me by not posting names but I will find out. Ha ha ha!:)

shiagirl 07-10-2012 07:23 PM

I am not sure what defines a crush. I guess it would be different for each person.

When I say i am crushing on someone to me it means i like the interest they already showed in me or i have read or got a feel for who they are and want to get to know them better. It doesnt mean i am getting butterflies in my tummy or even hoping for something to happen. I am the type who has to be hit over the head and persued, otherwise i will just keep sitting there watching you as it takes me a long time to decide if i want to let you in.

Me; not easily understood and when I do get to know someone and start falling for them, the words don't come easily. I usually wait until they say something first and I usually don't say it back right away.

Little Fish 07-10-2012 08:29 PM

BROMANCE
 
Oh Alix,
A brocrush......I'm so touched. :-)

*hug* the bro kind, in which I will neither grab your ass nor secretly smell your hair, you're safe

Ciaran 07-10-2012 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by shiagirl (Post 613452)

Me; not easily understood and when I do get to know someone and start falling for them, the words don't come easily. I usually wait until they say something first and I usually don't say it back right away.

In terms of your comment about not being easily understood ...... It's often the case that those who are the easiest to understand are those that are less worth trying to understand ie most of us are complex, multi-dimensional and layered and that's what gives the world it's variety.

Licious 07-11-2012 12:10 AM

I am too shy to tell people when I REALLY have a crush. I look for signs it may be mutual and I am friendly. So far, they seem to find others to crush on and I breathe a sigh of relief that I never said anything.

Mini Crushes? I have lots of em, and girl crushes too (I don't date femmes they are strictly girl crushes).

Wonder if some of my mini-crushes know who they are? Some don't post on here but some do.

*smiles slyly*

Mr Nice Guy 07-11-2012 03:36 AM

Good morning Crushers, hope you all know what Holiday it is. It's "Name names day" that means its ok to tell who your crush is.

**** I wonder if they'll fall for that? Lol:angel:

bkisbutchenuff 07-11-2012 05:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Alix67 (Post 613324)
[COLOR="DarkSlateBlue"]Now my butch/bro crushes include Julien, BK, MrNiceGuy, LittleFish, Stone4Play, and a few others that I can not list because I would not want to disrespect them by not spelling their names right! :sunglass:

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Thanks Alix67! Nice to be crushed on! Mutual Butch/Bro Crush here....Several Butch on here I respect, admire and look up too.....

Happy Hump Day all Crushers!

Nomad 07-11-2012 06:09 AM

$.02
 
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Originally Posted by Ciaran (Post 613531)
In terms of your comment about not being easily understood ...... It's often the case that those who are the easiest to understand are those that are less worth trying to understand ie most of us are complex, multi-dimensional and layered and that's what gives the world it's variety.

not me. i'm not complex or multi-anything and the only thing "layered" about me is my hair. when i'm in balance with myself i'm ridiculously simple to understand and pretty easy to please despite more than a few attempts by more conflicted people to make things seem otherwise. it's only when i'm out of balance that people find me hard to understand. i suppose i can see the argument that being easy to understand indicates a lack of depth but it could also be argued that some people choose to UNcomplicate life and themselves in order to live from a simpler saner safer more secure place.

i find that i'm associating the word 'complicated' with 'complex' which is probably the wrong thing to do. complicated people seem intent on drama and histrionics and attention seeking to me and i find them exhausting though not always unworthy of effort or time. i'm just not willing to buy into the intensity of their worldview anymore. (i used to be) maybe being UNcomplex means i'm slow witted. not sure. there's just nothing truly that complicated about me. coffee and a decent sunrise and a walk in the park or some decent conversation and i'm content. anyone who thinks i'm hard to understand is usually too busy looking for hidden meaning or trying to read between lines that dont exist. if i tell you something, it's the truth as i understand it and that's all truth is anyway, our understanding of things. if i dont say anything it's because i dont have anything to say or dont know how to respond. if i take my time saying something it's because it's not well thought out or i'm not sure of it yet. if i keep a feeling to myself it's because it's not fair or necessary or kind or valuable in that moment. sometimes silence is the best thing a person can contribute to any situation.

Kobi 07-11-2012 07:06 AM


Mr Nice Guy has the patience of a saint LOL.

Heck people it is a thread for crushes, as opposed to 1001 reasons to avoid answering the question. LOL.

I crush. Aside from my honey who I crush on cuz she is a super person, and a wonderful and sexy woman, I crush on others who have an uncanny ability to engage my brain. Make me think, make me reconsider, make me grow, teach me something - major non sexual turn on. I also crush on people who are sweethearts and never cease to make me smile. I also thread stalk them. ;)

Thus, I crush on the likes of Medusa, CherylNYC, Anya, deedarino, Laney, Miss Tick, Hollylane, Greyson (where is Greyson?) AtLast, Andrea, HowSoonIsNow, Dapper, greco, wil, Cajundee, Princessbelle, Bulldog, Jennifer, dykeumentary, Parker, and a host of others.





Leigh 07-11-2012 08:10 AM

Guess i will throw my name into the mix here; i have alot of friend crushes, both on femmes and butches. i figured i'd come in and give a few of my crushes shout outs because i think they are super awesome and need to be told as such ~ so here we go:

1) Of course first and foremost i crush on the one i love, rocky781, and love Him with all of my heart ~ He is everything a girl could ever want in a partner, and i'm beyond excited to meet Him in September :D

2) i friend crush on alot of wonderful femmes here, those who make me think and laugh and cry and just smile ~ they include nycfembbw, shiagirl, MBE, Princess, Princessbelle, Cajun_dee, Medusa, Licious, ~ocean, ksrainbow, Miss_Tick, Lady Snow, Laney and more

3) i also friend crush on alot of the butches here who are awesome and make me smile ~ they include Claybaby, Mr Nice Guy, Alix, BK, Little Fish, Alex Hunter, Tommi, StoneOne, DamonK and others

i know i'm missing people but i'll be back with more :D

SleepyButch 07-11-2012 08:12 AM

Not crushing on anyone right now but the week is only half way over.. lol

Leigh 07-11-2012 08:14 AM

I friend crush on Sleepy too *grin*

SleepyButch 07-11-2012 08:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Leigh (Post 613611)
I friend crush on Sleepy too *grin*

Ty kindly... don't forget to save me a dance if I decide to go the the reunion!

Mr Nice Guy 07-11-2012 10:40 AM

Thank you Leigh, now my heads getting big with all this crushing. ;) hey, I guess the Holiday is working. Ha ha ha<--- evil laugh

Little Fish 07-11-2012 12:07 PM

See what you did...
 
Aww Leigh,
Thank you so much, I'm really quite delighted!
(tail wagging :-)

~ocean 07-11-2012 12:17 PM

((( Leigh ))) la mia dolce sorellina ~ my sweet little sister, I adore you & rocky :)

WolfyOne 07-11-2012 12:20 PM

I'll be peeking in, looking for those holiday crushes anyone may have on me.

That is all, carry on :)

bkisbutchenuff 07-11-2012 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Leigh (Post 613607)
3) i also friend crush on alot of the butches here who are awesome and make me smile ~ they include Claybaby, Mr Nice Guy, Alix, BK, Little Fish, Alex Hunter, Tommi, StoneOne, DamonK and others


Thanks Leigh! ;)

thedivahrrrself 07-11-2012 01:08 PM

I am friend-crushing on Dark_Crystal. :)

She won my (friendly) heart with an otter.

:hk32:

princessbelle 07-11-2012 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne (Post 613704)
I'll be peeking in, looking for those holiday crushes anyone may have on me.

That is all, carry on :)

Wolfy, i crush on you holiday or no holiday. Can't wait to see you again!!!!! I'm gonna squeeze you and hug you and kiss you and put you in my pocket!!!

WolfyOne 07-11-2012 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by princessbelle (Post 613717)
Wolfy, i crush on you holiday or no holiday. Can't wait to see you again!!!!! I'm gonna squeeze you and hug you and kiss you and put you in my pocket!!!


As long as you let me out of your pocket to help with the reunion, you got a deal :)

Leigh 07-12-2012 01:31 AM

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Originally Posted by SleepyButch
Ty kindly... don't forget to save me a dance if I decide to go the the reunion!

I hope you do come to the Reunion my friend, and if so you got that dance for sure :)

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Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy
Thank you Leigh, now my heads getting big with all this crushing. ;)

I'll make sure to widen a few doorways for you so your head can atleast fit through the doors lol :p

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Originally Posted by Little Fish
Aww Leigh,
Thank you so much, I'm really quite delighted!
(tail wagging :-)

Your very welcome dear ~ hard not to friend crush on such a cool person :)

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Originally Posted by ~ocean
((( Leigh ))) la mia dolce sorellina ~ my sweet little sister, I adore you & rocky :)

I adore you too my awesome big sister :rrose:

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Originally Posted by bkisbutchenuff
Thanks Leigh! ;)

Your very welcome babe :)

SugarFemme 07-12-2012 04:11 AM

In the event that you decide to grab his ass, may I watch pleaseee??? :glasses:




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Originally Posted by Little Fish (Post 613480)
Oh Alix,
A brocrush......I'm so touched. :-)

*hug* the bro kind, in which I will neither grab your ass nor secretly smell your hair, you're safe


~ocean 07-12-2012 04:17 AM

hmmm maybe I am startng to crush .... I do like the way hy talks to me.... conversations into the night a few times has left me thinking of his handsome face.... hys a coffee snob too ~ ahh to share a cup of coffee w. an educated palate .... soo good conversations & coffee w/ a touch of nastalgia .... starting to get interesting.... It's not easy to turn this femme's head ~

Mr Nice Guy 07-12-2012 11:54 AM

Crush away people!! I love this thread. Now does anyone have a crush thats not a friend? I mean a crush in the I really like you way.

Julien 07-12-2012 06:32 PM

Hello to all Crushers,
I was just thinking about past crushes that have turned into friendships. Not to say that the crushes are lessened, but they are very different and I'd like to think of them more than just a fleeting emotional response by me. That is to say I don't want to belittle the crush itself, because I love the feelings surrounding the crush. I just wanted to mention the friendships that develop from the crush. With that being said here are a few crushes/now friendships, Beloved, Miss Entycing, ~ocean, Sweetnfemme, and Venus007. Of course I'm still working on crushes that shall remain in my crushheart. Crushes don't always fade sometimes they grow into friendships.

Licious 07-12-2012 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Leigh (Post 613607)
Guess i will throw my name into the mix here; i have alot of friend crushes, both on femmes and butches. i figured i'd come in and give a few of my crushes shout outs because i think they are super awesome and need to be told as such ~ so here we go:

1) Of course first and foremost i crush on the one i love, rocky781, and love Him with all of my heart ~ He is everything a girl could ever want in a partner, and i'm beyond excited to meet Him in September :D

2) i friend crush on alot of wonderful femmes here, those who make me think and laugh and cry and just smile ~ they include nycfembbw, shiagirl, MBE, Princess, Princessbelle, Cajun_dee, Medusa, Licious, ~ocean, ksrainbow, Miss_Tick, Lady Snow, Laney and more

3) i also friend crush on alot of the butches here who are awesome and make me smile ~ they include Claybaby, Mr Nice Guy, Alix, BK, Little Fish, Alex Hunter, Tommi, StoneOne, DamonK and others

i know i'm missing people but i'll be back with more :D

Thank you, I am honored, and got ya on my list. Yer a doll.

Nomad 07-12-2012 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy (Post 614078)
Crush away people!! I love this thread. Now does anyone have a crush thats not a friend? I mean a crush in the I really like you way.


i have an unrequited crush i'll admit. it's more than a crush. it's the real thing. but it's one of those 'can't be' things. so crush it remains.

LoyalWolfsBlade 07-13-2012 02:02 AM

Multi-quote time
 
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Originally Posted by Leigh (Post 613607)

3) i also friend crush on alot of the butches here who are awesome and make me smile ~ they include Claybaby, Mr Nice Guy, Alix, BK, Little Fish, Alex Hunter, Tommi, StoneOne, DamonK and others

i know i'm missing people but i'll be back with more :D

leigh now you know I crush on you too My friend. I apologize for not seeing this sooner. I come by everyday to look for My name and low and behold the day I don't check someone actually named Me. A friendship crush is more endearing to Me especially from you leigh...because it is a sign that I am not just a fleeting thought to someone. So thank you.


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Originally Posted by OneOfAKind (Post 613951)
In the event that you decide to grab his ass, may I watch pleaseee??? :glasses:

In the event LittleFish or any butch tries to grab My ass or smell My hair I guarantee there will be NO witnesses to the event!!!

Oh and OneOfAKind you are most definitely someone I crush on. Ooops did I say that out loud? I am sure My girl will understand she knows who I have chosen to be My girl sweet unique femme and is comfortable with My promise of commitment. Now do not start hatting Me everyone there is no harm in this type of crush in my opinion.


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Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy (Post 614078)
Crush away people!! I love this thread. Now does anyone have a crush thats not a friend? I mean a crush in the I really like you way.

see above just for you Mr Nice Guy my friend I named a non friend crush. Yup I did!

Now as for the woman that has stolen My heart, mind, body, and soul I still respectfully refuse to name her at this time. That is okay though because we are past the crush stage yet visit those wonderful tingly feelings everyday. I promise you though MrNiceGuy once the time has arrived for Me to tell BFP who the one that saw all of me is I will do it here in an oficial crush announcement.

Have a wonderful weekend everyone.

~ocean 07-13-2012 02:04 AM

retracks the possiable crush **erases yest's post **

Bleu 07-13-2012 02:05 AM

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Originally Posted by ~ocean (Post 614344)
retracks the possiable crush **erases yest's post **

Ahh...damn...

LoyalWolfsBlade 07-13-2012 02:26 AM

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Originally Posted by ~ocean (Post 614344)
retracks the possiable crush **erases yest's post **

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Originally Posted by Bleu (Post 614345)
Ahh...damn...

Agreeing with Blue on this one no other words needed.

Except that I still smile whenever I see Bleu post from her "reluctant femme" discrption

Mr Nice Guy 07-13-2012 02:58 AM

Crush away, crush away, crush away. I think I have a cavity because this threads do sweet. ;)
Hey Nomad, I've been there and done that too. Unrequited feelings suck! Hope all is well with you.

2qt 07-13-2012 04:42 AM

Okay update on the pizza delivery butch.... Damn it ordered pizza.... Not the same driver......BUGGER....... :deepthoughts: What's next? lol Time to find a real crush!

JistMe 07-13-2012 06:44 AM

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Originally Posted by 2qt (Post 614366)
Okay update on the pizza delivery butch.... Damn it ordered pizza.... Not the same driver......BUGGER....... :deepthoughts: What's next? lol Time to find a real crush!

Order it at the same time, on the same night of the week as last time. Just sayin... ;)

SleepyButch 07-13-2012 06:47 AM

Okay crushers... it's Friday the 13th, lots of freaky stuff if bound to happen today.

Leigh 07-13-2012 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Licious
Thank you, I am honored, and got ya on my list. Yer a doll.

Its easy to crush on you, especially being one of my sisters in the D/g House :D

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Originally Posted by Alix67
leigh now you know I crush on you too My friend. I apologize for not seeing this sooner. I come by everyday to look for My name and low and behold the day I don't check someone actually named Me. A friendship crush is more endearing to Me especially from you leigh...because it is a sign that I am not just a fleeting thought to someone. So thank you.

Now as for the woman that has stolen My heart, mind, body, and soul I still respectfully refuse to name her at this time. That is okay though because we are past the crush stage yet visit those wonderful tingly feelings everyday. I promise you though MrNiceGuy once the time has arrived for Me to tell BFP who the one that saw all of me is I will do it here in an oficial crush announcement.[/COLOR][/B][/SIZE][/FONT]

Alix,

I knew you'd see it eventually, and I'm so glad that you atleast got to see it. Your one of my closest friends on here and I respect you alot so its not hard to friend crush on you. For me personally it doesn't matter if you name her or not, now or in the future, I am just happy for You and her both :gimmehug:

Nomad 07-13-2012 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy (Post 614352)
Crush away, crush away, crush away. I think I have a cavity because this threads do sweet. ;)
Hey Nomad, I've been there and done that too. Unrequited feelings suck! Hope all is well with you.

i kinda dont mind. hard to explain. i guess i like the feeling my crush inspires in me. crazy i know.

hope all is well with you too!


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