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the 1st date. i know for sure. but i don't date girls. i date butches. but if anyone wants to see you again a 2nd time, they are into you.

If you wake up Thursday morning and she's in your kitchen in her panties sipping OJ out the jug.

She just might be into you

Prox, let me put this as plainly as I can

She IS into you!

I have read this thread from the start and all the signs she has given are green lights. Go forward assuming she is into you, not questioning it.

Relax and enjoy.

But I also want to say, that if she dates a lot of women, don't forget this either. Not sure what you are looking for in this situation but I would not advise you to assume you are the only one she is into.

Cool?

She walked and talked with me for a long time, picked me a :rrose: before her bus came, and kept on waving goodbye from the bus window the first time we met.We were married for over thirty years.

Want to add my own little quandary

I can be so clueless sometimes. And I miss opportunities. This frustrates me.

Today's example:

Coming home from work, tired, a bit disheveled. Just thinking about dinner and a hot bath. As I am getting my two dogs out of the truck, I see a veeeery cuuuute woman unloading a u-haul truck. I am so ...? I honestly don't know (shy, clueless, ?) I barely even look her way. She stops what she is doing and smiles at me. I smile and say hi, then realize I forgot something in the truck, go back and get it. As I head towards home again she is still standing there smiling. I say hi again (dork?) as we walk past her.

It does not dawn on me until I am in the bath that she had stopped what she was doing and was smiling at me. Who knows, maybe she was just tired and taking a break. Maybe she liked my dogs. Maybe her face is stuck in a smile naturally. But maybe, just maybe she was open to me saying something more than hi. Maybe something like welcome to the neighborhood? Maybe I will get another chance if I can even remember what she looked like. UGH!

This is just today's example. I feel like my cluelessness makes me completely oblivious to these types of situations/opportunities in the moment. It is only after the fact that I sometimes get it.

Can anyone relate?

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow (Post 292170)

If she's all up in your space asking you to buy her breakfast...

She might be into you

I confused hunger one time :)

Being into you does not equate 4ever!

When after your done talking and you tell her to have a nice day and she say's don't tell me what to do!

oh, how to tell if she's INto you? read that wrong

If she lets you "in" even though you can be the biggest jerk on the planet earth some days.

I must read this thread.... always gussing...

Don't forget to drop the soap!

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Originally Posted by June (Post 293256)

Downer.

Try again.

If she shouts from her long hot shower "join me"

She just might be into you

When you both share what makes you uncomfortable about yourself and they listen and tell you, It does not matter I want you baby as you are. :love1:

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Originally Posted by InfiniteFemme (Post 292505)

Well, I was just doing the right thing and giving a girl the heads up!
Sheeesh!!!

I agree with you, not just from the FB breakup stand point, but more importantly, you're giving someone access to a lot of your stuff - who your friends are, photos, other personal info, that you might not want them to have right away. I have my reasons for being a paranoid freak!

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Originally Posted by proximitywithoutintimacy (Post 292941)

I don't necessarily want to do that, mainly because I don't want to put any pressure on the girl. I figure, if she's interested in me, she'll let me know. Until then, I'm just going to relax and let things happen the way they do ;)

Me, Devil's Advocate: I'm with the turned tables contingent. Sounds like you're into her, so why not let her know? That doesn't necessarily mean you're placing any pressure on her. Sometimes you just have to leap.

See!!! I'm not the only "downer"

When she loves you warts and all, she is in to you!

I'm seeing someone and we are meeting again tonight. Our first meeting was yesterday and we had fun. I hope she is into me. She asked to go to a comedy club tonight and of course some other woman wants to come. I'm not into that so I told her. I would like to spend the evening with you alone!! I think that is fair??

Ah, thank you! ;)

I haven't heard back from her in two days, but she is a busy woman - going to school, working, and being the vocalist in her band... very busy, indeed.

I will not forget I'm the only girl she's into, and the way I see it, I'm not necessarily looking for a girlfriend... so whatever happens, will happen... I just know I like her ;)

I'm one of those girls, who, unless you outright kiss me - I don't really know if you're into me or not :lol2:

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Originally Posted by key (Post 293233)

I totally do this too!!!

Or, I tend to assume that the only reason a girl is interested in me, when she does make it obvious, is for carnal reasons (this has happened to me in the past and my heart was broke a little bit). I just don't know how to tell if a girl is interested in me for sex or for more, for who I am and not just what I can do for her in the bedroom (or the car, living room, kitchen, shower, etc. :P). It makes me honestly distrustful.