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justkim 07-07-2011 07:44 PM

I stalk Sassy...
I laugh at in opportune moments...
I cry...
I love...
I hurt...
I need...
I dream...
I hope...
I fear...

princessbelle 07-07-2011 07:45 PM

I had cereal for dinner...and enjoyed it.

Lynn 07-08-2011 08:44 AM

I lick the peanut butter off the knife.

I force myself to stay awake, even if I'm tired.

We have four cats because I can't say no.

I keep drama-inclined people on my FB page so I can read their dirt, like it's the National Enquirer.

I still use regular old bar soap and a washcloth, rather than liquid and a puff. I feel cleaner.

When I get new, cool things. I like to sit in silence and stare at them.

Scorp 07-08-2011 08:51 AM

Nice! I/We do that too!


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Originally Posted by princessbelle (Post 374336)
I had cereal for dinner...and enjoyed it.


Chancie 07-08-2011 09:03 AM

Bella poops outside, and I pick it up with special biodegradable bags that Pete bought me.

girl_dee 07-08-2011 09:34 AM

I refuse to own fish and keep them in a glass box yet I go out fishing to eat fish.

Mister Bent 07-10-2011 08:22 PM

I get real excited about shit getting blown up in movies.



Lynn 07-11-2011 07:41 AM

I pretended to like Silas Marner when I was a teenager.

When the lightbulb is burnt out, I usually don't care.

If I can sleep in, I wake up early. If I have to get up early, I can't wake up.

I'm a backseat driver.

Queerasfck 07-11-2011 08:04 AM

I brush my teeth two times a day and floss nightly.



I ain't afraid to say it. Sometimes I have bad hair days.

princessbelle 07-11-2011 08:29 AM

Sometimes, I sing and dance to the radio while cooking dinner. The only person watching is me...and it makes me smile.

girl_dee 07-11-2011 08:31 AM

I sing along very loudly, and badly, and I change the lyrics to match what I want them to.

princessbelle 07-11-2011 08:42 AM

Me too Sassy. I rarely know the correct words to any song. When i look on you-tube and see a song with the lyrics typed out...i think OMG THAT'S the right words? Sometimes it totally changes the meaning. Too funny.

Quintease 07-11-2011 10:21 AM

I blame myself a little bit for bad relationships, sometimes I forget coffee cups and leave them sitting all over the house, I wash dishes only when I begin running out of clean ones, I change my underwear more than once a day.

I raise my voice when I'm frustrated and also when I'm excited, I laugh sometimes when I'm nervous, I like to share my achievements with the world, I have an active FB account yet I often forget to text people back.

I can't suffer fools especially when they've made me look the fool, I forgive my badly behaved pets everything, I feel smug about my happy relationship, I try not to think too much about my financial difficulties.

I love chocolate, almost as much as I love sleep and more than I love shoes.

Jess 07-11-2011 10:25 AM

We have "city water" now, so we might be closer to regular :)

nycfem 07-11-2011 06:43 PM

We watch television during dinner and pause it if the need to conversate arises.

MsTinkerbelly 07-12-2011 07:55 AM

We always eat dinner together at the dinning room table.

Funny story...

When we first got our dog and sat down to dinner, he would go and lay on the kitchen floor or in the living room on the couch. Oh how lucky we are we said, how wonderful it is that he's trained!

Fast forward to me sitting down on the couch with a frozen fruit pop; that dog was in my face so fast he almost got the pop from me before I could react! Seems the previous owners never sat at the table to eat, so he hadn't known what was going on! We still laugh at the expression on my face.:|

princessbelle 07-12-2011 08:50 AM

A gathering place for my family is my mom's kitchen.

All the problems of the world have always been solved here....they always will be.

A good cup of coffee and clear thoughts come easy at momma's table.

Kätzchen 03-21-2013 04:44 PM

I like to sit out on my patio deck, late in the evening, and listen to my nieghbors or the kids when they're playing outside.

My son and I live on opposite sides of our home and it seems we always see each other in the kitchen - either when I'm making some coffee or making some unusual supper or when we sit down to have a meal together.

It seems like I do the laundry at least twice a week: Saturday afternoons for bed linens and towels and wash clothes; Tuesday afternoons for our own clothes. I iron once in a great while - mostly for my son, which I sometimes will do that, late at night.

nycfem 03-21-2013 04:47 PM

BB and I often end up trying to move past each other in our small nyc apartment with its narrow spaces, so one of us will say, "Back that bus up," and the other of us will move back saying, "Beep...beep...beep" in order to make room for the other one to get by.

Kätzchen 03-29-2013 02:03 PM

I bought an extra serving of chinese take-out, the other night, because there was a homeless person outside the store (with a sign asking for money) who looked like they were hungry. I gave it to them when I left the store. In the spontanaity of the moment, they hugged me. I left in tears. I could easily be them.

Kätzchen 12-26-2013 08:16 PM

Over the past few weeks, I've gone overboard in 'spring cleaning' my home and now that I've rearranged lots of things in the kitchen and bathroom and even in my own bedroom, I can't seem to find what I'm looking for - half the time. My son told me to stop 'spring cleaning' the house because he hates to see me having to 'spring clean' the house again, right after everything looks so nice.

TruTexan 12-26-2013 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Kätzchen (Post 872879)
Over the past few weeks, I've gone overboard in 'spring cleaning' my home and now that I've rearranged lots of things in the kitchen and bathroom and even in my own bedroom, I can't seem to find what I'm looking for - half the time. My son told me to stop 'spring cleaning' the house because he hates to see me having to 'spring clean' the house again, right after everything looks so nice.

I am going to do so called Spring cleaning Next month again, I have an apt. inspection where I live, so must be done at least 2x a year, Jan and then again mid year so not to have any clutter or stuff I don't need anymore. I'm almost done already giving stuff I don't use away, so not much left to give out now. WOOHOOOO. If I don't use something for say a couple months, out it goes when I do the spring cleaning, unless I've just put it aside cause it's the wrong time of year to use it. I'm gonna make someone happy to get some clothing that I no longer use. :)

Kätzchen 05-19-2015 10:40 PM

Today, I stayed in the moment and tended to reality at work.


Then, I came home and got caught up on legal documents that needed careful attention.

Now, after having a bit of supper, I will most likely take a very long bath. Then set the alarm so I don't miss the taxi cab in the morning.

Summer, in our universe, begins tomorrow. :stillheart:

Gayandgray 02-11-2016 09:46 PM

Definately a Regular Folk here! : ) I work full time on the second shift, so don't get home till around midnight. Let dogs out, make sure my spouse has eaten and taken her meds, hang out with her and our dogs watching tv, playing on my phone, reading, etc for a few hours. Mornings if she doesn't have doctor or therapy appts, it's cooking, cleaning, laundry, helping her with her am care, playing with my dogs before work. If I can fit in a little ME time, great. If not, I meditate on my 45 minute commute to work, and again coming home. Days off depend on how she is feeling that particular day, whether she is up to going out. We love the beach and I push her wheelchair on the boardwalk any time she is willing to go, hang out with friends sometimes, I work in the yard. Kinda boring I guess compared to how active we were before she got sick. But hey, we make the best of what we got and we are happy, so that's all that matters.

meridiantoo 02-11-2016 10:24 PM

What makes me regular folk:

I grew up raised by a single parent - latch-key kid who could have done so much worse than I did, if I had only known the options. :|

The best day each week was grocery store day. Why? Because then you got goodies/snacks that would last about 2 days, but boy were those 2 days awesome. :eatinghersheybar:

I don't get Christmas cards from the White House.

I smile sweetly, knowingly, when I see an elderly person in the store, having reached an age that I have the beginning of a revelation of what I am headed towards, getting closer and closer as each day passes. The loneliness, the worry, the fear, the confusion of the ever changing world around them. It truly breaks my heart. And I know for every 1 I see, there are hundreds, probably thousands, who are stuck at home, immobile, unable to make a trip to the store.

I eat peanut butter and banana sammiches. I eat cold pizza.

I join the morning coffee train every day. Otherwise, I'm not sure I would move at all. I don't buy gourmet coffee.

I work, I do laundry, I clean house, I walk the dog, clean the cat box.

I wait my turn in line.

I have socks with holes in them. I'm ok with that. I could darn them, if I could do it neater than a 5 year old with a playskool knitting kit. They are warn in, comfy friends. I'll wear them until my foot slides through them.

~ocean 02-11-2016 10:28 PM

this regular folk worked hard all my life ~ see I got boo-boo's

Kelt 02-11-2016 10:41 PM

I have always been a creature of habit and routine. It's what made me feel stable and productive. It was how I accomplished goals, fix the habit, fix the problem. That kind of thing.

A year and a half ago my world and all of my established routines went away and it's been a steady stream of getting knocked this way and that by circumstances ever since.

While I've learned a lot about managing chaos, I sure do read about peoples steady routines with envy now.

Here's to the regular folks!

TruTexan 02-11-2016 10:51 PM

Yeah, I can't stand unorganized and cluttered stuff. I'm in the midst of doing some cleaning up at a junk yard I'm helping to organize right now for some cashola. Man, this stuff is a complete mess around there. I do NOT understand how anyone could run a business that you don't have a computerized inventory of parts, cars, etc. and having parts laying all around and trash in the office area where customers come in. OMFG, it's going to be a nightmare getting the bossman to get his act together and make room for me some shelves in the shop so I can organize stuff and tag it so we can find it all. It's going to be a long while before its all said and done. UGH

homoe 02-12-2016 12:55 AM

I guess I'm just regular folk because I;'m down to earth! I don't put on airs or feel I'm better than anyone else! I always try to treat others as I'd like to be treated. I pay my bills and I pay taxes IF I owe them!

girl_dee 06-24-2017 04:33 AM

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Originally Posted by girl_dee (Post 362126)
5 big dogs
10+ cats
16 hens
1 (lucky) rooster
4 pigs
an extensive Fairyvillage
Vegetable gardens
Umpteen Flower gardens
A barn
A barnhouse, including Princess Tower
2 scatterbrained girls
2 bois
A very proficient Syr

The most normal thing we do here is have coffee every morning, which I am now. The rest of the day is anything goes, but it all gets done. The evenings are wrapped up with a lovely family dinner for 3 and quiet time (Unless the riding crop comes out) and bedtime before 10:30.


Is that regular?


update!

my regular is
  • just Dix and me
  • enjoying the smallest space i have ever lived in
  • working m-f 40 hours
  • dating
  • paying the bills
  • long walks

Chad 06-24-2017 06:57 AM

Regular folks
 
I think many folks would find my adult life boring or even too demanding.

As a professional scientist I work long hours and travel often. My work is usually Monday-Friday with some travel overlap during the weekend.

I own a small ranch (called a ranchette in Texas). The house and land require constant work so I can be found clearing brush, mowing, or cleaning house in my spare time.

I hang out with family and friends when I can find the time.

I cook all my own food unless I am traveling and have to eat out. I rarely eat fast food.

My daily happiness comes from my home and my two kitties. I am loved and respected by my friends and family.

I am so normal that a friend of 30 years nicknamed me "Ward" many decades ago. Ward as in Leave it to Beaver's dad. Haha!

:cowboy:

homoe 06-24-2017 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Chad (Post 1151089)
I think many folks would find my adult life boring or even too demanding.

As a professional scientist I work long hours and travel often. My work is usually Monday-Friday with some travel overlap during the weekend.

I own a small ranch (called a ranchette in Texas). The house and land require constant work so I can be found clearing brush, mowing, or cleaning house in my spare time.

I hang out with family and friends when I can find the time.

I cook all my own food unless I am traveling and have to eat out. I rarely eat fast food.

My daily happiness comes from my home and my two kitties. I am loved and respected by my friends and family.

I am so normal that a friend of 30 years nicknamed me "Ward" many decades ago. Ward as in Leave it to Beaver's dad. Haha!

:cowboy:

"ranchette"? That sounds a little girlish.........:giggle:

Chad 06-24-2017 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by homoe (Post 1151115)
"ranchette"? That sounds a little girlish.........:giggle:

Haha! Yes it does but that is the saying for ranches under 40 acres. :)


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