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Tangle 10-03-2011 10:53 PM

well-
 
I originally chose 'tanglelips' for two reasons. 1: b/c I, in 1999, listened often to the Dave Matthews Band, and they had a line in a song which i thought was very sexy: "tangled tongues and lips." 2: Additionally, a wonderful fairytale book I read as a little girl called -The Golden Key- had a protagonist named Tangle, whose long hair wasn't brushed regularly enough. Well I have very long golden hair just like she, and it can get plenty tangled when I don't brush it very regularly. I always identified with her name.

I am well aware that my name makes me sound a little slutty and juvenile, and I considered making a new name when I registered here, but I felt a little weird, as though I would be ditching one identity/past for another, and I didn't want to feel like i'd be perceived as sneaky. I wish I'd ditched the 'lips' now though, and just gone with Tangle. *laugh*

Alas.

NorCalStud 10-03-2011 11:22 PM

I was being funny really. I do not think of myself as a stud. Been called one. Wondered if it meant you get a stable of...pleasure...so add my location and it is a little me and alot fantasy. My mother named me Cheri...which I do not go by. Always kind of enjoyed that book by Anias Nin tho....

PumaJ 10-03-2011 11:44 PM

An ex of mine who was Two-Spirit, once told me I was as fierce as a Cougar protecting her young. Henceforth, she nicknamed me Pumawoman & sometimes called me PumaJ. A few years later when I finally got online, I decided to use those nicknames as screen names.

Ranger Butch Force 10-04-2011 12:21 AM

Its my Ranger radio call sign at Burning Man. I might put in for a change. Havent decided yet.

Bard 10-04-2011 04:18 AM

OK when I had found the dash site and was signing up I gave a lot of thought as to my screen name.. went through variations of my name yeah nope this was a new beginning for me ok next some nicknames in conjunction to what I do or my rank in the military yeah I am a cop and a medic nope STILL did not fit was to shy to let my Cowboi out to many years of hiding my self (but that is another story) then it hit me I love to write love the power of the word :sunglass: and the Bard of old even perhaps someday I will publish my ramblings not hat anyone would buy my poetry but hey>>:byebye:

perhaps I could call it Becoming Bard

*Anya* 10-04-2011 05:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Starbuck (Post 430655)
My screen name came from a character on the scifi show Battlestar Galactica, the one that ran from 2004-2009. In this one, Starbuck is played by a woman named Katee Sackhoff, and is a badass Marine who doesn't take shit from anyone, not to mention she is H.O.T.! I really got into the show but I truly watched it just to see her. Short, blond hair and butch to boot, mmmmmm. :awww:

My other screen name on a couple of online games is Kara Thrace, which is the character Starbuck's given name. Starbuck was the name of the airplane she flew so all the crew called her Starbuck. BFP Starbuck and I share the love for that TV series as well as for Katee Sackoff!

Since I can't drop Georgia from my name, ( I asked) maybe I will change it to Kara Thrace...but I feel like an Anya.

Tawse 10-04-2011 05:47 AM

tawse

— n
1. a leather strap having one end cut into thongs, formerly used as an instrument of punishment by a schoolteacher



Love a good tawse :)

luv2luvgirls 10-04-2011 05:57 AM

It is the one I used on another LGBT site over 7yrs ago. I made it up because I love my lil girl and,...... im all butch, I dig da femmes ;)

Venus007 10-04-2011 06:04 AM

I read a novel by Anais Nin called "Spy in the House of Love" and thus my screen name was born 007 for spy and Venus for love.

Cin 10-04-2011 07:23 AM

I believed that I never had trouble accepting myself as a woman. I always felt my sensibilities lay with women. However, there was a sort of disconnect when it came to identifying with society’s definition, as well as a sense of invisibility because I could never see myself reflected in other women. Then I found butch and that felt right. The masculine male thing was a bit of a struggle, because despite a real gender incongruence in my presentation in the eyes of others, I had never really felt like I was male. I looked it. At least there was always a good deal of gender confusion from the world in general regarding if I was male or female. But I never was confused. But I do find comfort in my masculinity, it fits like my old black t-shirt. But I am never comfortable with it. I hold it suspect and watch it like it was a cranky old dog prone to biting. In the spirit of this very tiresome way I have of looking at my masculinity I thought it would be great fun to give myself a feminine name this time around. Miss Tick is a very minor character in a couple of Terry Pratchett novels. I liked that it was a kind of oronym. So I decided to try it out.

I’m having such a hard time with it. When I see it beside my words I cringe. It’s beyond being uncomfortable with it. I pretty much hate it. But I’m going to keep it. At least until the fear and loathing of a too feminine name passes or it just gets too much to look at. I am pretty surprised at myself. I didn’t think it would be this hard. But it is. It's so hard that I sometimes feel detached from my own words once they are out there authored by this Miss Tick person. I wonder what that says about me. I think it needs a touch of masculine to make it more palatable. I keep telling myself that tick is kind of male. But really what the hell does that even mean? How can a word be male? I think I'm losing it. Maybe I should just give in and change it.

Just_G 10-04-2011 07:27 AM

My name is Gin, but the group I kind of hang out with here has 3 "Jen"s and it got really confusing so I shortened mine to just G.....and when I introduce myself I always say, "Hi, I'm G." Then they look at me and tilt their head like a puppy and I reply: "Just G". They nod and we are good to go!

Not so fancy shmancy!! :sunglass:

justkim 10-04-2011 07:35 AM

To me it seems simple... I have been asked more than a few times if my real name is Kimberly and I reply with NO it is JUST Kim... and like G I get the head tilt and reply with "really, it is just kim... not kimberly not kimmie, just kim...

JustJo 10-04-2011 07:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustJo (Post 430748)
Mine is boring, sorry. :)

My real name is Jo...and everyone always seems to want to add something to it...calling me Joan, Joanne, etc.

Most of the time I end up introducing myself as Jo...Just Jo. :rrose:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Just_G (Post 431022)
My name is Gin, but the group I kind of hang out with here has 3 "Jen"s and it got really confusing so I shortened mine to just G.....and when I introduce myself I always say, "Hi, I'm G." Then they look at me and tilt their head like a puppy and I reply: "Just G". They nod and we are good to go!

Not so fancy shmancy!! :sunglass:

Quote:

Originally Posted by justkim (Post 431028)
To me it seems simple... I have been asked more than a few times if my real name is Kimberly and I reply with NO it is JUST Kim... and like G I get the head tilt and reply with "really, it is just kim... not kimberly not kimmie, just kim...

I'm detecting a pattern here :)

JAGG 10-04-2011 08:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Julie (Post 430647)
And...
Because people invariably always misspell:

INFINITE

BELLE!

Maybe you should take typo as a second language. I have and things are much easier. I can even understand my own posts now. Haha

*Anya* 10-04-2011 08:13 AM

Let it be known, that henceforth, Anya/Georgia will now be known by the double-asterisk name:

*Anya*

Thanks to PrincessBelle for thinking out of the box (that I was unable to do) and thanks to tech guru Linus for the change!

Let's not forget Dapper, who started the whole thing!

PS: just call me,

princessbelle 10-04-2011 08:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by *Anya* (Post 431057)
Let it be known, that henceforth, Anya/Georgia will now be known by the double-asterisk name:

*Anya*

Thanks to PrincessBelle for thinking out of the box (that I was unable to do) and thanks to tech guru Linus for the change!

Let's not forget Dapper, who started the whole thing!

PS: just call me,

It's PERFECT!!!!!!!

Hiya Anya!!!!!!

1QuirkyKiwi 10-04-2011 09:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tapu (Post 430658)
Afraid not. I was reading a Ngaio Marsh novel when I needed a screen name and Tapu popped into my head from that. I love her books, especially the ones set in NZ.


I love the Inspector Alleyn Mysteries - UK TV was showing them in the early 90s when I was here studying. I have them on DVD, lol!

Random 10-04-2011 09:47 AM

Random is short for Randomnumbers

randomnumbers is a young cat in a book... He was named so because of the extremely changeable behavior that adolesent cats can have.

Random was my nickname in my twenties, because of my lighting train of though changes.... Lol.. Circular logic, linar logic... nope... Mine was A, B 7, %, Z... The result were the same as other people, just my process to get there was different....

I left the nickname behind and went back to my birth name when I left Atlanta... but used randomnumbers as my email.

I thought I left it behind... lol... I met and fell in love with a woman who hated my birthname... She called me Random....

Fast forward eight years later... we break up, I try to go back to my given name... (Hence the short lived Ms Cyn) but the problem is.. when I self talk, I name myself Random.. People call my Cyn or Cynthia, but I'm still Random..

DapperButch 10-04-2011 10:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by *Anya* (Post 431057)
Let it be known, that henceforth, Anya/Georgia will now be known by the double-asterisk name:

*Anya*

Thanks to PrincessBelle for thinking out of the box (that I was unable to do) and thanks to tech guru Linus for the change!

Let's not forget Dapper, who started the whole thing!

PS: just call me,

Woo Hoo! congrats!

intrigue_in916 10-04-2011 10:34 AM

Intrigued by screen names
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by princessbelle (Post 430590)
The name change thread gave me this idea a few weeks back. We all have screen names and some of us just use our real names but may have used screen names in the past.

I thought it would be fun to have a place to explain why you picked the one(s) you did and if it is meaningful to you in someway.

I'll go first....

I was SouthernBelle for many years because, well i am southern. I used this name for around 10 years on yahoo and in yahoo chat rooms. When i found the dash site, a few years ago, that name was already taken. I was at a loss. My dad always called me his princess so i just picked that and combined it with belle because most people called me belle anyway and still do.

Ok....now your turn....

:)

My S/N ~~~ Is simple.~~ I have been Intrigued by another and also Intriguing to someone.

Julie 10-04-2011 10:51 AM

I wonder what happens when people select a screen name with deep meaning to the one they love (this is not directed at you Intrigue) - And then they break up?!?

We have Linus to magically erase our tattoos - but what do other people do?

Apocalipstic 10-04-2011 11:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Julie (Post 431144)
I wonder what happens when people select a screen name with deep meaning to the one they love (this is not directed at you Intrigue) - And then they break up?!?

We have Linus to magically erase our tattoos - but what do other people do?

I try to go with my own identity. Breakups are bad enough without having to change my on line persona too.

A sagging screen name is never fabulous

intrigue_in916 10-04-2011 12:00 PM

in a name
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by luv2luvgirls (Post 430956)
It is the one I used on another LGBT site over 7yrs ago. I made it up because I love my lil girl and,...... im all butch, I dig da femmes ;)


YUM!!:lips:

Novelafemme 10-04-2011 12:34 PM

Originally, when on the dash site, I used a name my older sister has used off and on (landsoftly)...it's a combination of our last name and softly. Then I switched to novelafemme...novela after my then favorite red wine minus an L. most recently I switched to CatalinaRose because I didn't like the sad/hurtful reminders that came along with novela. Catalina Rios is a feminist poet who wrote The Three Tongues, which is one of my all time favorite poems. Catalina is also a character in a novel I am reading for my Chicana Theories class.

JazzGirl 10-04-2011 01:13 PM




JazzGirl came into being through my Dad. He told me from the time I was
old enough to wave my hands as a baby, when jazz came on the radio or record player I danced in my seat or on my feet.



tapu 10-04-2011 01:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Random (Post 431115)
Random is short for Randomnumbers

randomnumbers is a young cat in a book... He was named so because of the extremely changeable behavior that adolesent cats can have.

Random was my nickname in my twenties, because of my lighting train of though changes.... Lol.. Circular logic, linar logic... nope... Mine was A, B 7, %, Z... The result were the same as other people, just my process to get there was different....

I left the nickname behind and went back to my birth name when I left Atlanta... but used randomnumbers as my email.

I thought I left it behind... lol... I met and fell in love with a woman who hated my birthname... She called me Random....

Fast forward eight years later... we break up, I try to go back to my given name... (Hence the short lived Ms Cyn) but the problem is.. when I self talk, I name myself Random.. People call my Cyn or Cynthia, but I'm still Random..


Oo! That reminds me of a children's book about a cat. He's named Elemenopeo.

I think I'll use that if Tapu becomes too famous....

Greyson 10-04-2011 02:35 PM

I have been using this as a screen name for about six years now. I signed up at the dash site under my original screen name, U2. I started coming onto the internet in 98/99. I started over at gag.com under the screen name U2.

I stayed there about a year. During this time I was so naieve. I finally realized I was being stalked by an unstable woman in cyberland and one day I just decided to change my name. (Besides most thought my U2 screen name was about the band, and it was not.)

The name Greyson came to my mind. This was before the young man who sings became an internet sensation and I guess now somewhat of a celebrity. A few years before him. I like my screen name so much, I had it changed to my middle name legally and have started to use it outside of the internet a few years back.

P.S. The subject of internet duplicity is up on another thread. I have always been troubled how some use multiple names on the internet. "Same game, different name." I like the way Linus handles it here. It is in the open, transparent and we all know that so and so is now _________.

princessbelle 10-04-2011 02:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Greyson (Post 431302)
I have been using this as a screen aname for about six years now. I signed up at the dash site under my original screen name, U2. I started coming onto the internet in 98/99. I started over at gag.com under the screen name U2.

I stayed there about a year. During this time I was so naieve. I finally realized I was being stalked by an unstable woman in cyberland and one day I just decided to change my name. (Besides most thought my U2 screen name was about the band, and it was not.)

The name Greyson came to my mind. This was before the young man who sings became an internet sensation and I guess now somewhat of a celebrity. A few years before him. I like my screen name so much, I had it changed to my middle name legally and have started to use it outside of the internet a few years back.

P.S. The subject of internet duplicity is up on another thread. I have always been troubled how some use multiple names on the internet. "Same game, different name." I like the way Linus handles it here. It is in the open, transparent and we all know that so and so is now _________.

Greyson definately suits you perfectly. I remember you are the one that taught me years ago, to keep my same name as i went to each BFP site. I'm glad i did.

I'm not saying i don't think people should change their names as they evolve, move to different times in their lives, ect...just that it's nice to know who you once called yourself. And i agree with Greyson, it's nice to know who people were and who they are now. Linus does a great job keeping us up to date.

betenoire 10-04-2011 02:46 PM

my old screen name came from a job I had over 10 years ago. Me and a coworker used to refer to each other as Princess Pottymouth. We'd even draw pictures of each other wearing tiaras and saying horrible things. *shrug*

I picked betenoire as a way of stabbing at people who think I'm really mean and awful. It's more of a joke than a username. I think it's hysterical.

starryeyes 10-04-2011 02:47 PM

An ex always told me I had starry eyes, so that's why I picked it at the time.

nobelcarrot69 10-04-2011 06:08 PM

I doubt mine is very fancy. My last name is Noble and I work in the optics field, so like a carrot I'm good for the eyes and I was born in 69. nobelcarrot69. That's me.

BugsAndKisses 10-04-2011 06:26 PM

Mine is simple, I think bugs are just so darn cute I could kiss'em

Gemme 10-04-2011 09:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dixielady (Post 430898)
Oh, and my stage/stripper/porn star name: Pepe Price :|

We all have our price, Pepe.

:blink:


Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss Tick (Post 431015)
I believed that I never had trouble accepting myself as a woman. I always felt my sensibilities lay with women. However, there was a sort of disconnect when it came to identifying with society’s definition, as well as a sense of invisibility because I could never see myself reflected in other women. Then I found butch and that felt right. The masculine male thing was a bit of a struggle, because despite a real gender incongruence in my presentation in the eyes of others, I had never really felt like I was male. I looked it. At least there was always a good deal of gender confusion from the world in general regarding if I was male or female. But I never was confused. But I do find comfort in my masculinity, it fits like my old black t-shirt. But I am never comfortable with it. I hold it suspect and watch it like it was a cranky old dog prone to biting. In the spirit of this very tiresome way I have of looking at my masculinity I thought it would be great fun to give myself a feminine name this time around. Miss Tick is a very minor character in a couple of Terry Pratchett novels. I liked that it was a kind of oronym. So I decided to try it out.

I’m having such a hard time with it. When I see it beside my words I cringe. It’s beyond being uncomfortable with it. I pretty much hate it. But I’m going to keep it. At least until the fear and loathing of a too feminine name passes or it just gets too much to look at. I am pretty surprised at myself. I didn’t think it would be this hard. But it is. It's so hard that I sometimes feel detached from my own words once they are out there authored by this Miss Tick person. I wonder what that says about me. I think it needs a touch of masculine to make it more palatable. I keep telling myself that tick is kind of male. But really what the hell does that even mean? How can a word be male? I think I'm losing it. Maybe I should just give in and change it.




sanee66 10-04-2011 11:29 PM

simple
 
a play on my first name and i was born in 66

Tcountry 10-05-2011 12:06 AM

Well T is my niickname, even my dad calls me it. It is shortened from my given name and also from "lefty" given when I started sports. My favorite coach shortened it to T and I have been T since.


The country part came from working summer camp at Easter Seals in 1999. Everyone knew me as T and when Fri night came around for our dance/karaoke I was the only one with country cd's... so named tcountry then, that got shortened to TC for the rest of the year. lol


Still fits well. I am good ole midwestern country at heart always.




Massive 10-05-2011 12:50 AM

A very good friend from way back when turned to me one night and said "Luvva, you're f*ckin' massive ..." (she's a good foot shorter than me and I'm 5'11'' barefoot) and Massive just stuck ...
Not that exciting really :blink:

J. Mason 10-05-2011 05:59 AM

It is the name I picked when I decided to transition, just something simple!

*Anya* 10-05-2011 06:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Massive (Post 431605)
A very good friend from way back when turned to me one night and said "Luvva, you're f*ckin' massive ..." (she's a good foot shorter than me and I'm 5'11'' barefoot) and Massive just stuck ...
Not that exciting really :blink:

That's hot!

Just sayin...

MaggieBluIze 10-05-2011 06:56 AM

Good Morning!!!

Where did my screen name come from ... Well ...
From all my lovely BFP friends on Facebook ...

Thanks so much for helping me create my name that I :heartbeat:!!

(I :heartbeat: that it sounds like I'm in the Mafia) :)

ruffryder 10-05-2011 11:03 AM

Back in the 90's just chose this name because I like the rapper DMX and the Ruffryders. There is also motorcycle groups with the name. Have used it since and at other social networking sites.


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