I KNOW, riiiiight??? lol

Stopping by to say hello. So...

Hello Everyone. I hope the weekend is going well for you.

Hello everyone :) Hope you all are having a wonderful weekend :)

Hello Gentle Tiger

Awww Ruthie Im so sorry :( I truly am...

yeah, I hear that. I have yet to go on a date since my break up...god how many years ago...

Sometimes I worry that I enjoy being alone too much. Or at least enjoy it enough to not put THAT much energy into changing my status.

...or am I just scared...maybe bit of both.

Nice to meet other singles out there
 

:sailing:

Hi Everyone,

I am currently single. I live in New Jersey in the Southern part of the state. I like meeting new people and listening to their stories. I currently work in retail Management. Been in it for over 25 years. I love to laugh and usually will make myself laugh. I have a great imagination which comes in handy. LOL I wish I was going to the reunion it sounds like great fun. Sunny

To Softness
 

You bring up a very good point about Long Distance Relationships. I really think that as you get older it is more difficult to pick up your life and move. I am amazed that you have done it so many times. Do you regret doing it? Sunny

Good Morning singles girls and bois! Hope everyone has a fun filled day planned.

I dont regret giving love a chance. I dont even regret the choices of partners ... they were all wonderful in their own ways. Unfortunately they were also not a good choice for me, each in their own way. My bad. No one twisted my arm. I stand accountable for my part in the decision to live together. I made my choices they made theirs and I am sorry for the upheaval OUR choices did to each other. I have found that two really good people can end up in really bad relationships if they arent the right people for each other. What complicates things, is when you move everything you own across states and after the break up you have to re-establish yourself somewhere else. I moved back home, to Ohio, and am purchasing a house so I am feeling rooted again, but for awhile, especially with my health issues, I felt like I wasn't really settled and secured.

I have nothing against LDRs. I would do one again with the right person. But there would be no instant Uhaul at either of our doors. The older I get the more I am willing to satisy my needs first. Call me selfish, if you will. But when its over, its me I always have to sleep with and face in the morning. And me who has to comfort myself over a broken heart. I will not settle for less than what I want and I will not give up what should not be asked to be given up.

I am 53. I have had the benefit of dating some remarkable people in my life. I have been loved well, and at times, badly. But to be honest, with those bad ones, I was just at fault and loved badly too. Another reason why I am unwilling to settle. I end up behaving like I dont want to and becoming someone I dont like.

In the midst of this post, I went outside and planted my peas, weeded out the brown stalks leftover from winter and set out new soil for a new spring. This is what I believe in. No matter how many winters I will see, I believe and count on spring to come. And that is about all I have to say about love....for now...lol

Single. Love being single. Will stay single.
The idea of not being single anytime for the very extended future gives me a headache.:veggie:

Representing. :cheesy:

Have a beautiful day all you all! :givingarose:
:happyjump:

Good Afternoon Everyone,

Hope you all are having a wonderful day...I finished moving all of my stuff out of my old apartment in Orlando to my mom's second house while I am waiting to move into my new house on April 1st.

Have a good day,

Zimmy

Good evening Everyone,

Hope you all had a wonderful day and have a wonderful weekend!

Zimmy
<I am tired after moving the last two days>

morning all you lovely people..

here is a treat to start your saturday.....

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I am new to this thread...so be gentle...however it is always more fun if you are not. Have a great weekend

ohhhhhh I like the sound of that!

welcome

Happy to Be Single?
 

You know I have been thinking the last few days....

I spent a good part of my 20's and 30"s single. It wasnt that I couldnt have a relationship...I just really didn't want one. Lately I've been talking, exploring, visiting old friends and feeling really great. A few friends asked me if I was looking or interested in dating. I thought about this long and hard....

I'm in a good place right now. I have a clear perception of what I want and what I don't want. My happiness is not dependent on another human being, although my connections, all of them, even very good friends is important. I just don't need to take it to the next level or at least not now.

I'm really loving my space right now and getting into myself. I'm also loving spending time with good friends without the pressure.

I'm in southern va just outside Danville. I'm not a bar person and I live in the country. I enjoy small cook outs, sipping wine and intelligent conversation. I also love gardening and meeting others that are into this.

opps forgot to subscribe

Oops! I thought this thread said "shingles"! I am really tired! :rofl:

its not everywhere

Hi I'm single. 32 or 33 can't remember. I live in Texas. I fix computers for a living. I'm silly, love video games and I love all kinds of music.

Sayin' "HI"
 

I have been single for 2 years...it gets lonely. But I have confidence that we will find someone. Someone who will make us happy and challenge us. Some sweet honest boi will come your way i am sure of it.

I have a interest, someone I want to know more about but for now Im just going to wait and see

playing it safe...that is a good approach. would this someone have to make the first move? you seem a little shy.