The first week of July 1954. The week I was born. My grandmother died the week I was born and it was very painful for my mother. I'd want to be there for her, comfort her, listen to her fears, let her know that she'll get through it, that she'll be okay.

Good question ... same one

If you could travel in time where and when would you go?

That was beautiful answer....thank you for being so open...

Perhaps you already did what you wished, perhaps you coming into her life at that time was the comfort she needed.....

My answer.......I would go back to any day my own mother needed comfort herself as child and hope to provide it. It may give me some understanding of why she grew into the person she did.

If you could do any job for a day what would you do ?

DC

Rock star!


What would you do if you were to choose between your family or your sexuality?

I choose my family, my childrens needs were greater than my own.

If you ever regretted something you didnt say do you ever ponder the difference it would of made, or is it over and done with ?

DC

Knowing me, I ponder the difference it would have made.

do you speak your mind often enough?

I used to too often...rather now I know my own mind more and quiet my words.

Do you often strike up conversation with strangers ?

DC

Yes I do.

Are you passive aggresive?

I hope not, its not a quality I would be proud of. I would rather be open and direct if I had a problem with someone, or rather a problem with a difference of opinion with them. Though on forums its hard to give typed words the true feel in which they are meant, you can hardly smile softly and speak in a gentle tone can you.

if something unexpected ruins your plans for the day, does it ruin the day in general or can you change direction with ease ?

DC

I can usually change the direction with moderate ease: a bit of time and a vent.

Are you looking forward to anything this weekend?

Just being able to sleep in. (it is the little things).

Do you find it hard to make up your mind?

I'm a Libra. I had a hard time deciding to even answer this question. :jester:

What's the last snack food you've eaten?

I just had some strawberry shortcake.

(not sure if that is a snack food) :blink:

Is there a place you have visited that would describe you as a person?

Yes, Hell! (Just joking!)
Seriously though, a Rose Garden.

What car best describes you, and why?

A Souped up Chevy, I like to live life loud and fast

Do you eat late at night?

Yes.

Do you cook late at night to eat then?

Sometimes depends on my mood.

Do you like to travel and if so, how often do you travel?

I love to travel. If time allows I normally do atleast 2 lengthy trips a year.

Do you enjoy being out in nature?

No not at all

Do you enjoy a good debate?

It all depends on who wants to debate.

In what way(s) are you creative?

I like up cycling thrift finds for my home

Do you have a song which never fails to reduce you to tears when you hear it ?

DC

Nothing really reduces me to tears, although, I do find Beethoveen's Moonlight Sonata, truly spiritual......my 💓 does leap within.


If you could have a set of bed sheets made of anything in the world, what material would you choose?

....One of my favorites is cotton sateen sheets....

What is the one thing a partner must have in their character?

The ability to be honest at all times.

Would you rather study the ways of people or felines?

Right now? Felines.


Do you find it hard to make life changing decisions?

Every dang time, I suck at making decisions!

Will you move to be with the right person?

Given the age of my children and where they are in their education I would have to say no. The time for making my own needs a priority will come....but its not now.

What are your thoughts on LDR`s ?

DC

I think that is what planes, trains, and automobiles are for.

How do you know when someone is more than "liking" you?

Now that's the ten million question!! I have NO CLUE but maybe they pvt you and sort of flirt?

What is a deal breaker for you?

Lying is a deal breaker for me

What turns you off the fastest? and no i aint talking about sex

A blow-hard who brags about all their material possessions!


What is the quickest way to your heart?

Through my stomach with good food! :sushi:

Are you dating anyone?

Nope.

What makes you happy right now?

chili and stews made in da crockpot (it's winter here!)

what's the mos' recent article o' clothin' you've bought fo' yourself?

shoes...then I made mistake of wearing brand new shoes on a, largely, walking holiday.

what's your best cure for blisters on your feet?

Clean the blister, then Neosporin, and then a band aid ..then after a couple days of doing that.. keep the band aid off and let air get to it for a few hours each day...keep applying the Neosporin and let that and the air heal it.

Are you a sentimentalist?

Yep.

If you could do it all over again what would you do differently?

Go to college right out of high school...and make choices for my happiness instead of another's.

Would you consider yourself happy with your life right now?

Yes.

What's the best dream you've ever had?

The one where my Gram came to me (after she passed away) - it seemed so real - it felt like when I woke up - that she was still alive. Bittersweet - but by far the best dream.

Who would you like to see in concert? (that you have not seen)

Johnny Mathis.

Same question ... Who would you like to see in concert that you haven't seen?