I am sorry , but I am in the same situation . Never in my life I was loosing my hair , Now, for the past three months , I think due to the stress, I just get out of the shower and I am pulling handful hair out of my head . It almost feels like I am on a round of chemotherapy .

My life has been in turmoil and I didn't have a time to make appointment with a MD . I never specialized in Dermatology so I am not as educated about conditions . I know a basic things , but that about it .

I am hoping when my situation resolve , I will make an appointment and I will see what is going on . Good luck to you , take care yourself . You are important

I had semi sweet choc morsals in the pantry...
Now I don't...

hmmmmm

So much for choc dipped choc haznut sandwich cookies..

No Cookies ?!! F**k !! now Im pissed off !!!! Wheres ma girl Smouldering...She bakes !!

Still fuming about my baby having trouble getting a Visa to get into the country !! S/hy may just have to marry me....Muahahahaha...(this could work to my advantage !)......lemonade, anyone ??

Today I had to contact the sso about sighning up for medicare,I got the agent from hell,she was more than simi rude..sorta like the teacher that u cant ever say a word to she says..we wont talk about that cause this is what I know I looked it up.........U can bet im getting it straightend out.People like this grade my nerves to no end no mater how nice I am.

Femmes that paid ZERO attention to your butch until they realize hys taken.....theres gonna be a WWE smackdown !!

tired, frustrated, angry
 

I think the events of the last few days prove I should just shut up, because people make no damn sense.

Some background, to make a long story even longer: My daughter (13) is good friends with a fifth-grade girl who lives in the next building, "Hannah". Hannah has a 3rd grade brother who is friends with my son (11). They live with their father.

Downstairs from us is our neighbor, his oldest daughter, OD's two children, OD's boyfriend, neighbor's younger daughter (who goes to school with my daughter), and the boyfriend's younger brother. I don't like neighbor, but he is the supervisor of maitenance for the complex, and so I have to stay on his good side.

So that's the cast of characters.

Last weekend, Hannah asked if she could spend Sunday night at my apartment (Monday was no school). As I understood, her father was going to be out of town all night. I was concerned about this, and so told her that I had to talk to her dad myself to understand. I asked about her brother, and she said he would stay in their apartment with the boyfriend's younger brother, age 14.

I do know that the younger brother has a juvvie record, and I just plain feel hincky around him. He's ridden other kids' bikes (including mine) without permission. I've combated bad language from the kids ever since he's been here. I've discouraged my kids from playing with him.

Nothing more was said about Sunday until Sunday afternoon, when I finally spoke with Hannah's father. He was coming home after all, and I told him I'd just needed to verify where he was going to be before Hannah spent the night. He bristled at this, and said "So she isn't welcome in your home?"

I assured him he was, but I needed to know where a parent was going to be when there was a sleepover. I then said something like, "I'm probably overstepping my bounds, but I do have to say I was concerned about *Hannah's brother* staying with *younger brother*. I felt that *younger brother* was probably not such a hot influence for my own kids, and have discouraged the friendship." Father seemed grateful to hear that, as they are fairly new here and didn't know anyone too well.

Well, according to my daughter, all the sh*t hit the fan. Somehow, the father is angry with me (of course; he probably knows I'd call the authorities if I knew a 14 year old was staying overnight alone with a 9 year old). The family downstairs is angry with me. My daughter is angry with me. Not one adult has come to talk to me; this is all second-hand.

I don't understand people. I know minding my own business isn't my strong suit, but I don't see what I did wrong. My take is everyone knows I will call them on bullshittery and that's what makes them angry. I don't know.

I have so much to do tonight, and all I want to do is curl up and listen to music.

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KelsFemme-

June JUST moderated this thread for an ugly post so I am kinda agog that you immediately came in here and posted something ugly.

I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt and not time you out for what you just posted since you have never been in trouble here but I want you to review the part of our Terms of Service where we ask folks to leave their personal drama and ugly posts off of the site.

Don't use this or any other thread to poke, jab, or otherwise post things that will spread drama across the site.

Thanks,
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All -

The Mod team is at their limit for people using these threads as their personal drama toilets and we will not be issuing any more warnings about posts that most people would KNOW are ugly.

Any further posts that poke at an ex, stir drama, or are just plain hateful or ugly will receive an immediate time-out.

We have had an inordinate amount of reported posts and crazy bullshit in the last week so if you find yourself feeling ugly, it would be best for you to log out and take a walk rather than test the boundaries of moderation here.

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People I refer to as friends are planning a going away party for a dear friend of mine. They all seem to think it's a great idea of it's held at my ex husband's house. This would effectively uninvite me. I can be in the same room as my ex and politely ignore him. There's no way I can go hang out in the house he lives in, among all of the things/possessions/furnishings/art/dvds/etc that were purchased by my paychecks over the course of a decade, and listen to his egotistical rantings, abrasive soliloquies and crass jokes and NOT pull a sword from a wall and stab him repeatedly. I just can't. I won't. And it's BS for anyone to ask me to. ... So I guess I'll see just who gives a damn about whether or not I get invited to my friend's send off. Oh, and it's a surprise party. So I can't talk to my friend and mention this. He would just show up to a big send off and I wouldn't be there. RAWR~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/0...6pLid%3D139296

A woman fights cancer and is considered cancer free. Years later, she gets pregnant and has a beautiful baby girl. After the baby's born, they realize the cancer has come back and now the mother has stage 4 melanoma. The mother passes away.

Now, the baby, at 9 months, has also been diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma. It passed from her mom to her in utero.

How sad for that man to lose his wife and now be facing losing his baby girl and from the exact SAME disease that took his wife.

That makes me sad and pisses me off all at the same time.

Today? How about this week ... A silly, leggy, giggly thing got a promotion some time back. I had hopes. But no, she's a silly, leggy, giggly thing. ... She failed to deliver on a project. Which should have been her problem. We share a boss. Our boss isn't here this week. ... Our bosses' boss decided project needed delivered and damn fast. Suddenly, this is put in my lap and deemed to now be my problem. ... But but but ... my department is understaffed and we already have issues getting another project done on time. ... I tried explaining. Seems it wasn't my bosses' boss' problem. Just mine. ... Days and days of 12 hr shifts, working from home and general SUCK ... and now ... Whew! ... Project is finally done. ... But wait ... silly, leggy, giggly thing seems certain that she participated in accomplishing majority of said project... WAT?

Not a darn thing could piss me off today :-)

Illegal immigrant enslaved for years..
 

This did.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/0...6pLid%3D140274

Eggshells.