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sweetfemme247 11-02-2010 12:04 PM

Lately I just feel so alone, though I am on this site and I do talk to some people its only every now and then, I miss having someone to text during the day ask how they are doing and such.... when I do text people I feel I am a burden so I just dont do it. I have my dog bella but it' not the same and I can only crochet so many blankets for no one I have like 5 blankets and not a soul to give them to.

perfekly_flawed 11-02-2010 12:07 PM

Well, if you are feeling like texting friends or other folks is being "burdensome" maybe just make sure that whatever energy you put out there in the text is positive - even if you have to scrounge up the positive energy to create the message. Folks shy away from us when we're hurt, like they are afraid it's a permanent condition or (gasp) contagious! I think that is natural self-protection for some people.

And, with winter coming? I think that your heart may feel good donating your blankies to some agency who needs them. Last year we rounded some up for a local senior center. I haven't crocheted in YEARS but it felt nice knowing where it went! Putting love out into the universe doesn't have to be limited to a partner and I firmly believe that love in ANY form comes back to us... :hangloose:



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Originally Posted by browneyedgirl (Post 219117)
Lately I just feel so alone, though I am on this site and I do talk to some people its only every now and then, I miss having someone to text during the day ask how they are doing and such.... when I do text people I feel I am a burden so I just dont do it. I have my dog bella but it' not the same and I can only crochet so many blankets for no one I have like 5 blankets and not a soul to give them to.


LipstickLola 11-02-2010 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by perfekly_flawed (Post 219115)
Hi there! You can talk to us! :eyebat:

I think one of the hardest things for me to get used to on a day-to-day basis is what to do with all of the time I have on my hands - now that I'm not taking care of another person. Cooking for one has become interesting, as I'm freeze-packing meals for later (freezer is getting full) and while I've always been pretty tidy in general, my condo is SPOTLESS since I get up at 3am thinking I've forgotten to do something (which I haven't) so I'm up cleaning the bathrooms or the floors AGAIN.

I am trying hard to focus when I find myself in those modes of not knowing what to do and not having a human companion to talk to - for me it's go to the onsite fitness center and ride the bikes or punch the bag (GREAT release) or take my dog to the Bark Park. The Bark Park is nice b/c at least once I'm there, there are LOTS of humans to speak to. My goal is to not isolate, since that is my natural response when I'm hurting - withdraw and suffer alone. It doesn't work for me, even if it is easiest.

Anyway... like I said, talk to us!

(((((((Perky/Browneyed)))))))

sweetfemme247 11-02-2010 12:12 PM

All I do is text hello. I have been alittle depressed lately from what has happen to me, which I will never forgive this person. But I truly want to get out of this depression and be happy again, make new friends grow from my experience and maybe find someone who will love me for me and not expect me to change.

perfekly_flawed 11-02-2010 12:30 PM

Hmmm.. perhaps HELLO doesn't tell the person anything and your mood is what is making you feel like a burden.

How about try "Hello, I was thinking about you just now... when you have time, let's get together and xxx" fill in xxx with something you like to do OUTSIDE of your home. Get outside!!!!



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Originally Posted by browneyedgirl (Post 219122)
All I do is text hello. I have been alittle depressed lately from what has happen to me, which I will never forgive this person. But I truly want to get out of this depression and be happy again, make new friends grow from my experience and maybe find someone who will love me for me and not expect me to change.


perfekly_flawed 11-02-2010 12:30 PM

Why thank you, Lola! This felt nice, it's especially CHILLY outside today... right back atcha!!!

:-)

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Originally Posted by LipstickLola (Post 219119)
(((((((Perky/Browneyed)))))))


sweetfemme247 11-02-2010 12:45 PM

I will try that, though most of my friends are from here and dont live near me

lipstixgal 11-02-2010 01:06 PM

Good afternoon singles wow its the first day home from internship and I'm tired no stove for me today all oven no fires!! Hope everyone is doing well and on the mend..

sweetfemme247 11-02-2010 05:21 PM

afternoon everyone, I didnt finish my laundry or anything else I was suppose to do today

cuddlyfemme 11-02-2010 06:12 PM

Good evening Singles! I hope everyone had a good day and is having a relaxling evening. My ex called me today and wants to come visit this weekend with her new partner. Hopefully "oldL" feelings won't surface on my part since I still have a little bit of feelings for hym

MaggieBluIze 11-03-2010 06:58 AM

Good Morning and Happiest Hump Day Everyone!!!!!

Wow!!! What a 4 day weekend!!!!

It's good to be back!

Hope this finds everyone well and having a great week so far!!!

:kissy:

sweetfemme247 11-03-2010 07:34 AM

Good Morning everyone,

It is 6:30am and I am wide awake

bigbutchmistie 11-03-2010 07:36 AM

Hello everyone! :) I hope you all are having a great week and have a wonderful Hump Day...

cuddlyfemme 11-03-2010 07:38 AM

Good morning everyone! I hope you all have a wonderful day!!

asphaltcowboi 11-03-2010 08:29 AM

good morning and happy humpday to all the singles, its a beautiful crear crisp morning here. i think ill pull out my leathers,fire up the harley and ride up to grand canyon south rim and just kick around today.. forget all the responsable stuff and just enjoy the day.

sweetfemme247 11-03-2010 08:31 AM

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Originally Posted by cody (Post 219758)
good morning and happy humpday to all the singles, its a beautiful crear crisp morning here. i think ill pull out my leathers,fire up the harley and ride up to grand canyon south rim and just kick around today.. forget all the responsable stuff and just enjoy the day.

ooo take me

MaggieBluIze 11-03-2010 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by browneyedgirl (Post 219759)
ooo take me

LOL That's my response too!!! :)

sweetfemme247 11-03-2010 08:42 AM

I want to go and forget cleaning and looking for an apartment today

lipstixgal 11-03-2010 09:37 AM

Good afternoon singles!! its about to be lunch and I'm starving making pita sandwich toasted...

MaggieBluIze 11-03-2010 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal (Post 219809)
Good afternoon singles!! its about to be lunch and I'm starving making pita sandwich toasted...

Yummmmmmmmmmmmmm :)


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