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miss entycing 12-29-2010 10:10 PM

leaving this for those here who are seeking solace, comfort and strength.
all of you are in my prayers.

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Spirit Dancer 12-30-2010 07:12 PM

Jagg's Dad and family
Daywalker's Niece and Family
Blaze and Doll
Abby
Graphiteta and Family
Lady P and family
Ladt D and family
Wolfy and R
Milana
Wax and family
JustJenn
ALK
Theo and Ivan
Strappie and Zoe
For healing, peace and strength
lighting candles with a prayer.
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Miss Scarlett 12-30-2010 07:30 PM

:vigil:Lighting candles of peace, comfort, love and healing for:

:candle: Abby
:candle: Jagg and his dad
:candle: Jet
:candle: Lady Pamela
:candle: Daywalker
:candle: Graphiteta2s
:candle: Spirit Dancer
:candle: and anyone else in need tonight

Miss Scarlett 12-30-2010 07:38 PM

:vigil:For my special friend, lighting incense & candles of healing, comfort, strength & positive energy. Wrapping them in a comfy blanket of warm, peaceful, loving, healing energy for a restful night and relief from the aches and pains. :vigil:

miss entycing 12-30-2010 08:42 PM


nycfem 12-30-2010 10:39 PM

Lighting a candle for Abigail Crabby, the sweetest femme ever. She is in hospital.

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theoddz 12-31-2010 12:32 AM

I took Ivan to the frog doctor today and spent most of the afternoon there.

We're thinking now that Ivan has some sort of an intestinal blockage going on. The doctor gave him some contrast dye to swallow and he will be getting another x-ray in the morning. The doctor felt it best to board little Ivan overnight, in order to get the x-ray first thing in the morning, so I left him there at the hospital. I wish now that I hadn't, and had decided to drive him back over, first thing in the morning. I hate to think of him there, alone, sick and away from Myra and me, and not understanding why.

I feel sick inside for Ivan and I'm worried beyond all belief. Poor Myra is sitting in the waterfall, waiting for Ivan, as I type this, and I'm sure she doesn't understand where he's gone. She just keeps sitting there, and turns to look at me when I approach. She seems to know there's something wrong, and I wonder if I will be able to bring Ivan home tomorrow. I know what bowel obstructions are to humans, and I can only think that it must be near to impossible to treat the condition in an animal as small as a frog. I know, too, how painful it is for humans, and I don't want my poor little frog to suffer.

Tomorrow may well be the last day......

~Theo~

JustLovelyJenn 12-31-2010 12:43 AM

I light my candle tonight for those forgotten or unseen.

Miss Scarlett 12-31-2010 05:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn (Post 256641)
I light my candle tonight for those forgotten or unseen.

Jenn, that is just beautiful.

:vigil: Adding a candle to Jenn's :candle:

Miss Scarlett 12-31-2010 05:16 AM

:vigil: In love and light as 2010 concludes I light candles for everyone for:

:candle:Good Health

:candle:Prosperity

:candle:Confidence

:candle:Peace

:candle:Love

:candle: Joy

:candle:Healing

:candle:Protection

:candle:Compassion

and

:candle:Wisdom


Spirit Dancer 12-31-2010 07:50 AM

From Miss Scarlett's
I light mine'
Wishing everyone a new year filled with
peace, love, hope and happiness.
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WolfyOne 12-31-2010 10:15 AM

Peace and prayers for better days ahead in the coming year

Those drinking tonight and not staying home, please find a designated driver

miss entycing 12-31-2010 12:08 PM

Here's to a beginning of the end of the darkness this year-
new light for a new year.
blessings to us all on this eve.

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theoddz 12-31-2010 02:57 PM

Good news....or as good as it can be now. :)

I'm going to be picking up little Ivan from the froggie hospital this afternoon, around 4. I talked to his doctor twice this morning and she tells me that he does have a blockage in his digestive tract, but she doesn't think it's in his stomach. She thinks it is in his colon now, which means that there is a strong possibility that he may pass/poop it, eventually. She doesn't think that he's in a lot of pain, but he is probably having some definite discomfort. She will be giving me some anti inflammatory medication for that, along with some topical antibiotics for Ivan. Even better news is that Ivan is not really doing any mouth breathing now, so maybe any potential respiratory complications are not anything to worry about anymore.

The doctor instructed me to set up the little frog house for Ivan to stay in, until he passes/poops the problem out. I'm going to be busy this afternoon doing just that and getting it nice and comfy for him to come home to. I'm going to be setting it up right beside the big frog house so that Ivan and Myra will be able to see each other. I plan to put Ivan in the big frog house with Myra when he first returns, so they can see each other and Myra will know that Ivan is back home and all right. Ivan will also be able to see Myra and visit with her a bit. I think that might lift his spirits, too, and if he wants to nap on her back, well, that'd be just fine, too. Bottom line is, Ivan will, undoubtedly, feel better when he gets home to his Myra and his loving, devoted Dad.

I will feel much better having him home, too, and at this point, we'll just hope and pray that Ivan can pass/poop his problem out and that he'll be just fine soon. :awww::frog::heartbeat:

I have been absolutely worried out of my mind about Ivan, all during these holidays. I have prayed and prayed that G-d, the Great Healer, will step in and make my little fellow all better. You all have been such a bastian of support and love, too. I so appreciate everyone here and all of the support, prayers and healing light given to both Ivan and myself. This is why you all are my chosen family and are so very dear to me. Thank you all again, for being there.....for everything. :) :bouquet:

Ivan, Myra and I are so very thankful. :):frog::frog::cheer:

~Theo~ :bouquet:

Daywalker 12-31-2010 03:04 PM

Yea for Ivan

:frog:


My Niece opened her eyes a little today.
:candle:
I think about that and you know, when she went
under she thought she was not coming back.

I can't wait to share Pringles with her when she recovers.
:heartbeat:

:daywalker:

Miss Scarlett 01-01-2011 10:16 AM

:vigil:On this first day of 2011, I light candles of positive energy, love, joy, healing, power, harmony & abundance.:vigil:

:candle::candle::candle::candle:

:vigil: In my mind's eye I see my friends here & in R/T; I ask the Universe to bless them, keep them safe & grant each their hopes, dream & desires in 2011. :vigil:


:candle::candle::candle::candle:

miss entycing 01-01-2011 12:01 PM


JAGG 01-01-2011 10:09 PM

Thank you
 
I wanted to thank everyone who said a prayer or lit a candle for me and my family. It worked!!! My dad is doing good and will probably be out of ICU tomorrow. Thank you for your healing energy, and thanks for caring enough to take time our of your day, to show concern. I am very grateful.

theoddz 01-02-2011 10:31 AM

Update on little Ivan....
 
Ivan is doing very poorly again.

I'm going to be packing him up this morning for another ride to the froggie doctor. She's on duty at the animal hospital today, thank G-d, in His infinite mercy. When I brought Ivan home on Friday evening, I thought he might perk up and I was hoping that his stress level would go down, with being home and all, but he's gasping again and grimacing with pain.

The plan, as I had left it with his doctor, was to give him some rest, some topical antibiotics and a calcium soak each day, which I've done. If he hasn't pooped, and looks worse, to bring him back to the vet and get another xray to see if the obstruction had moved at all. He's still got the barium contrast in his tummy, as he hasn't pooped, so we should be able to tell if the blockage has moved at all. If not, then I am going to ask the doctor to put Ivan down.

Every time I look at little Ivan now, my heart breaks. If that blockage hasn't moved, then I really think I owe this little guy, this little green "child" of mine, a final act of kindness and love. It's going to break my heart, but I am determined that he NOT suffer anymore. Ivan is such a unique little fellow, full of personality and a zest for life. He's been fighting this like a little trooper. I so admire his tenacity and his strength. He is very, very special, and I think he knows how much his dad and his lady, Myra, love and adore him. It's been the good fight.

Thank you all for all of the love, support, kindness, prayers and healing light/energy you've given to Ivan, Myra and myself. We all do so appreciate it. :bunchflowers:

~Theo~ :bouquet:

Miss Scarlett 01-02-2011 11:06 AM

:vigil: Lighting incense and candles of wisdom, peace, healing and power for Theo and Ivan. :vigil:

miss entycing 01-02-2011 03:15 PM


theoddz 01-02-2011 03:39 PM

One last try...and hope...
 
I have just returned from the animal hospital, where I took little Ivan today. We had xrays taken and it revealed a large pool of barium dye, concentrated in what we *think* is his large bowel. It's so hard to discern exactly what is going on where with him, due to the fact that he's so small and, well, he is a frog!! But there is an obstruction.

Now, there is one option left, and I have decided to opt for it, even though it is a chancey thing......surgery. His doctor is an "exotic pet specialist and surgeon", and she does have experience with amphibians. She seems to think that, given Ivan's young age and the fact that he is still quite active, despite having this problem, he may well be able to pull through a surgery to relieve this problem. I sat and thought about this option, long and hard. I even prayed to my G-d to guide my decision and give me the strength to see it through, come what may. I decided that it was worth a chance to save Ivan's life. He deserves the right to fight for his life. This, from one of my favorite movies, "Seven Years In Tibet", kept coming into my mind:

"All beings tremble before danger and death. Life is dear to all. When a man considers this, he does not kill, or cause to kill." -- Dalai Llama, quoting Buddhist scripture.

So, we are going ahead with the surgery, which will probably take place tomorrow afternoon. The doctor is going to do it via laser, so blood loss will be minimal. I left Ivan at the hospital and they're going to keep him medicated with pain meds before and after his surgery. In the event that the doctor begins the surgery and correcting it is impossible or hopeless, then I will have him promptly euthanized.

Ivan needs all of our prayers, healing energy and lights. I am now asking everyone here to, please, offer up a little prayer for Ivan, that he has the strength and will to keep fighting a little harder, for a little longer. I know that I'm going to be in a lengthy prayer session tonight, myself.

Once again, thank you to everyone, from Ivan, Myra and me. (f)

This is for my little Ivan, with all my love, prayers and hopes. He has always made me ~smile~. :winky:


~Theo~ :bouquet:

WolfyOne 01-02-2011 04:50 PM

R had her long beautiful hair cut off today and will be sending it to Locks for Love
Tomorrow she gets her port put in, so she can start her chemo


Me, keeping my faith and continued prayer

theoddz 01-02-2011 07:09 PM

Update on Ivan....
 
I think the prayers and healing energy you all are sending are coming through in fine form for Ivan and are making a huge, HUGE difference for him!!!! :cheer:

Ivan's doctor called me a few minutes ago from the vet hospital and told me that IVAN HAS POO'ED!!!! :D :frog::cheer::awww::danceparty:

Okay, I hope that I'm not offending anyone with this description, but keep in mind that Ivan has been so very, very sick and this poo'ing may well be the difference between him having to have surgery or not and, on an even more serious note, whether he lives or dies. Anyway, the doctor told me that he passed a bit of the barium contrast that was given to him the other day, in addition to a little round poop!!! After he did that, the doctor took it as a *very* encouraging sign and gave him what she called a "little slurry" of mineral oil and some vitamins. We're hoping that he might just pass this stuff that's been blocking him up and he just might not need surgery!!!! :winky::thumbsup:

Ivan has always made me smile with his antics, his songs, his little face and his fun-loving little personality.....and he is *still* making me smile, even bigger, with this good news!!!

A special, heartfelt THANK YOU to Dr. Mary Lee, DVM, of the Lone Mountain Animal Hospital, in fabulous Las Vegas, Nevada. :winky::heartbeat::frog:

Keep the prayers coming, fambly, because it's working!!!! :winky::clap::cheer::praying::candle::frog:

~Theo~ :bouquet:

waxnrope 01-02-2011 07:48 PM

Never thought that I'd :trampoline: up and down over passing poo, but dang, that spunky little Ivan sure has me cheering. You can "do" it boy!!!

durrrrrrrr 01-02-2011 08:44 PM


WolfyOne 01-03-2011 08:06 AM

Yay for Ivan, he has all his Daddy Theo's strength and good sense and all of us pulling for him

Thanks for the update Theo

JustLovelyJenn 01-03-2011 07:00 PM

A little girl in my son's first grade class died in a car crash over the holiday break. They were driving down a frozen rural road and her mother drifted over the center line. That small 6 year old girl was the only fatality. My candle is lit today for Kiahnna. May her family and friends find peace in her passing.

miss entycing 01-03-2011 07:14 PM


miss entycing 01-04-2011 09:50 AM


waxnrope 01-04-2011 11:04 AM

:candle: :candle: lighting a candle and saying prayers for our beloved Spirit Dancer. The ink isn't dry and there are plenty of opportunities to blur and change the script. May you be enveloped in the Mystery of delightful surprise.

sylvie 01-04-2011 02:49 PM

sending love & light to all & strength to those who need it..
to those feeling down or needing a light in their journey - those hurting or sick --

may you find your way through your difficult time, leaving hugs for those who need them and lighting a candle ♥

Miss Scarlett 01-04-2011 08:29 PM

:vigil: Sending a blanket of extra energy full of warmth, peace, love, light and healing to my special friend who is still under the weather.:vigil:
:vigil: Lighting candles of good health, healing, postive energy and power. :vigil:

:candle: :candle: :candle: :candle:

miss entycing 01-04-2011 10:41 PM

candles lit with prayers for all of us.

JustLovelyJenn 01-04-2011 11:16 PM

:candle:

Let Them That Watch and Them That Help
See in us each the guidance we seek
Give patience and grace
Lend insight and fates
The path moves forward as so must we

Spirit Dancer 01-05-2011 09:21 AM

For those who seek solace,
and for those who need healing.
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theoddz 01-05-2011 10:31 AM

Ivan Update!!!
 
I'm heading over to the animal hospital soon to pick up little Ivan and bring him home!!! :awww:

Poor little guy...he's had quite the ordeal, but I think he's better and his doctor tells me that he's really picking up and is back to climbing (and sticking) to the top of the wall of the enclosure they've been keeping him in. That means he is much stronger now!!

He did not end up needing surgery, thank G-d!! I know what bowel obstruction and surgery does to humans. I see it all the time and it is extremely painful, dangerous and involves a long and tedious recovery, usually. I didn't want to have to think about how I'd even begin to take care of little Ivan after such an ordeal. He did poop and start to move his bowels after being tube fed and having a load of barium tube fed into him. Here's a pic of his problem. The white spot is the pooled contrast (barium) behind his blockage. That is now almost totally gone!!! :clap:

http://i709.photobucket.com/albums/w.../Ivanxray2.jpg

So, I'm heading over to pick him up and bring him home to Myra, the Big Frog House and me. :winky::cheer:

Thank you all, again, for all of your prayers, healing energies and thoughts!!! Keep 'em coming, please, because Ivan's got a long road back to complete recovery, but he can do it!!!! :clap::frog::heartbeat:

More updates to follow......

~Theo~ :bouquet:

waxnrope 01-05-2011 11:06 AM

Ribbet!
Thank the Maker! :)
Thanks Theo. This was a moving experience ... so to speak.

miss entycing 01-05-2011 01:48 PM

leaving my love, strength, hope and light here.

I spend alot of time here in this thread- it gives me a sense of calm...
I find comfort and solace here,
and there are days when I deperately need this thread, and all of you in it,
so I thank each of you for caring, and for coming here to shine a light on another's darkness.
Y'all have no idea how much it helps sometimes
:)

Blessings to you, my Planet family.

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nycfem 01-05-2011 01:56 PM

For EntycingFemme


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I think all of us have come to feel this way about you, EntycingFemme. I know I have.

In love and light,

Jennifer


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