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BugsAndKisses 11-07-2011 10:17 PM

Trying to figure out how I have NO rhythm despite the fact that I am of Latin decent and all my cousins dance really really great while I end up tripping and falling on the sofa.... for real wtf!

BugsAndKisses 11-07-2011 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by princessbelle (Post 457386)
I think we would be surprised at how many have done this. I left a horrible relationship (noone on these sites) a few years back with what i could load in my car on my lunch hour. My boss encouraged me to after he found out the living conditions i was in and gave me a thousand bucks to do it.

I left my life there. I only had what i could fit in my car, which was mostly clothes and pictures, and took off across the country and came home. I left 8 years of accumulated "things" from my personal things growing up to somewhat expensive items i had purchased on my own. Boat, camper, motorcycle, hot tub, all of my Christmas stuff ...everything.

But, I'll tell you something. You *anyone, can rebuild, start again. Many of us have done it. In the end, you know it was worth it if the relationship was not healthy or safe. Things are just things. It has taken over two years to rebuild my life, but it is now rebuilt and i couldn't be happier and i know i made the best decision.

*hugs to you


Thanks...I know things will be better in the long run it just...sucks! Thank You for replying :)

BugsAndKisses 11-07-2011 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Fenchurch (Post 457376)
You know, it's funny you ask. I deliberately sought a degree that will allow me to get a job anywhere in the world at any time, and I have a get-away/escape plan. In my home office lock box I keep a list of all of the things I'll need to do (call my best friend to pick up my cats, transfer ownership of my house to my mother, etc.), a packing list (take LOTS of contact solution, extra lenses, and chapstick), and necessary travel documents (passports, wedding license, medical/legal proxies, etc.). I can grab the box and leave.

I put all of this in place during the 2004 presidential election, and I've kept everything up-to-date since then. So no, I haven't had to yet, but you just never know.

Wish I had some sort of plan already set in place years ago..sigh

sylvie 11-07-2011 10:50 PM

my beautiful, adorable Nanny G...

She is currently living in the Nursing Home i work at, which is wonderful, for both of us because i am with her most everyday.. my grandmother was always so independent, she raised 5 children on her own and when my mother was raising me, my grandmother was there for me, most everyday and always gave me her time, her love & smiles.

While it is wonderful to have her near, and be there for HER now, everyday.. it is equally wonderful that she has me near too.. The progression of her Dementia is very difficult to watch though- and seeing this everyday breaks my heart.. As well as the lack of visits from family, etc...It is so frustrating for her, i can feel it and i can see it, in her tears and her outbursts and she's just not herself because of it.. i know having me near makes it easier for her, and THAT is what strengthens me to spend every moment i can with her, despite the hurt of the changes in her everyday..

Right now, we're dealing with Sundown Syndrome, and the last few days her outburts have gotten far worse.. It exhausts her, and her confusion and loneliness make me so sad for her.. So, i do my best to spend every moment i can with her, even going there on my days off, just so she has someone familiar, and someone to help her smile & laugh.. i try my best to make this easier for her, and i can't help being angry at times that this wonderful woman, who gave her whole life to her children & grandchildren is dealing with this.. It hardly seems fair..

And i wish there was more i can do.. i adore Nanny G, with all my heart..& will always do what i can to make her days have some smiles, some love & something familiar...to calm her when i can & to give her my time.. Because her time was always precious to me, and i hope i can help her feel that in return when she needs it most.

ruffryder 11-08-2011 03:23 PM

lots..
 
these damn small ants.. hoping they go away soon since they sprayed and all today..

a shower

a walk

the reunion

schtuff!

1QuirkyKiwi 11-08-2011 03:28 PM

My sewing machine is wearing out - I can't decide between another Pfaff or a Husqvarna....

I had a Pfaff that lasted me 20 years and went around the world with me and was used on a regularly - I miss it! It was the best sewing machine I've ever had (I've had many of the makes and worn the motors out of most of them! LOL!). Now to decide as to which make, then buy after Christmas....

Wryly 11-08-2011 07:02 PM

I think my barber is trying to set me up with another client. I was long overdue for a haircut. Shortly after he was done with the clippers he started telling me about another female client who likes her hair really, really short. She is a police officer (which scores big points with him), she comes in every 3 or 4 weeks and always remembers to ask about his 4 boys.
I think he started cutting my hair about the same time he started cutting hers. But every time I get my hair cut he mentions her. Yet to meet her tho.

crashhere4eva 11-08-2011 07:16 PM

The Kristy Lee concert in Philly and wishing my girl and I could have gone! "Someday" though we will... "Someday" sooner, than later... ;)

Inked_Trinity 11-08-2011 07:21 PM

Listening to a very dear friend cry as she makes the decision to put her kitty down :blues:

Vlasta 11-08-2011 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by 1QuirkyKiwi (Post 458608)
My sewing machine is wearing out - I can't decide between another Pfaff or a Husqvarna....

I had a Pfaff that lasted me 20 years and went around the world with me and was used on a regularly - I miss it! It was the best sewing machine I've ever had (I've had many of the makes and worn the motors out of most of them! LOL!). Now to decide as to which make, then buy after Christmas....

I want Baby lock serger , but they are so hard to sell it to me . I need to take a class to even purchase machine . Right now, I don't have time to take a class . I love to design a window treatments and sew them . Hopefully , I will fit my time in they schedule before Christmas and get me present for myself . I have a serger that driving me crazy to thread my serger . I am tired of , I want automatic .

1QuirkyKiwi 11-09-2011 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Vlasta (Post 459048)
I want Baby lock serger , but they are so hard to sell it to me . I need to take a class to even purchase machine . Right now, I don't have time to take a class . I love to design a window treatments and sew them . Hopefully , I will fit my time in they schedule before Christmas and get me present for myself . I have a serger that driving me crazy to thread my serger . I am tired of , I want automatic .

I like my Overlocker serger - I sat for two days teaching myself how to thread loopers and trying out the various stitches on scrap fabric.

Now it's old and it's time for an upgrade - I'm looking at a machine that will Overlock and do straight stitch, but, will also take up to 12 layers of Denim, 4 layers wool coating, etc. With the amount of sewing I do in making my own clothes, home soft furnishings, etc, I need an industrial machine that can do the work. Both Pfaff and Husqvarna make such machines for domestic use, but, they aren't cheap, lol! They're also very heavy so need to be set up in a permanent place.

I'm not keen on automatic feeds - I've had three go wrong and my frustration levels were too high to sit and sew, lol! Manual is a pain, but, at least I know I won't be swearing my head off as much, lol!

~Bo 11-09-2011 06:52 PM

What else.......
 
My beloved..........

JoePa and PENN STATE :(

tazz 11-09-2011 07:00 PM

that i'm so happy i got my NASM (National Association of Sports Medicine) personal training study materials today from my work, gold's gym. now i have 6 months to study until i can take my test next year, May 2012.

i'm on my way to acheiving my desires/dreams/goals!

this is so awesome! :) :)

uglyboi 11-11-2011 04:25 AM

Hello?
 
Snicklesnark

girl_dee 11-11-2011 05:04 AM

the wolves howling at the moon and how the pack was howling right back.

luv2luvgirls 11-11-2011 06:29 AM

how funny I find some peoples behavior :D SMH TGIF!!!

Kenna 11-11-2011 06:40 AM

thought about this stuff all week: couldn't wait to work from home today because the remote office is closed...

My talk with a Compliance Officer and HR yesterday, with a future appointment set for more in depth convo...

The hard emotions that I've faced recently.

The work, both physically and emotionally, I need to do between now and next month to prepare to move into my own place. Always on my mind lately, since I found out about the abuse...getting myself in a position and place where I can bring Gramma D to live with me. I miss that woman so much! I found a place that would be perfect for her! All on one level and with so many rooms that she might be able to have her own Suite. We shall see.

luv2luvgirls 11-11-2011 07:06 AM

How beautiful Adele is.. she is just all around beautiful, her voice,her spriit, her looks.. have any of you seen this?




Shows her shyness and how humble she is.

~Bo 11-11-2011 09:48 AM

Jerry Sandusky
 
How one slimey scum-bag can ruin sooooo many lives. :(


I hope they attack his sorry ass in prison.

Shadowboi2010 11-11-2011 11:22 AM

Because I'm good enough, I'm strong enough, and gosh darnit, people like me!


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