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WolfyOne 01-21-2011 09:48 AM

Update on R because I've been too tired to think and write lately

She had her first chemo last week
Day after was good, but she felt progressively worse after that
Yesterday she couldn't tolerate the pain anymore and I was at work,so she called a friend to come get here
She spent yesterday at the VA ER
They gave her morphine, took x rays and sent her away with new pain meds
Today she said she's feeling much better with the new meds
Whatever the new med is, must be taken every 4 hours
Her mouth has been sore, but no mouth sores inside it
She has been eating 3 meals a day, which is a good thing

To my dear friend SD, thank you for being there for her when she needed answers

Keep the prayers from our prayer circle coming
Me, saying my prayers for all and keeping faith and hope alive

Spirit Dancer 01-21-2011 11:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WolfyOne (Post 269744)
Update on R because I've been too tired to think and write lately

She had her first chemo last week
Day after was good, but she felt progressively worse after that
Yesterday she couldn't tolerate the pain anymore and I was at work,so she called a friend to come get here
She spent yesterday at the VA ER
They gave her morphine, took x rays and sent her away with new pain meds
Today she said she's feeling much better with the new meds
Whatever the new med is, must be taken every 4 hours
Her mouth has been sore, but no mouth sores inside it
She has been eating 3 meals a day, which is a good thing

To my dear friend SD, thank you for being there for her when she needed answers

Keep the prayers from our prayer circle coming
Me, saying my prayers for all and keeping faith and hope alive


Wolfy we continiue to keep R in prayers and thoughts
and as you know, anytime call and i'll do what I can my friend.
http://i922.photobucket.com/albums/a...Healing017.jpg
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Spirit Dancer 01-21-2011 12:02 PM

For those who are trying to move ahead
every now and then.....
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Spirit Dancer 01-21-2011 12:04 PM

For healing, love, light and laughter...
to lighten the load or to open a door.
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Tess 01-21-2011 01:48 PM

Please light a candel
 
http://i890.photobucket.com/albums/a...eburning-1.jpg

Please light a candel for a dear friend who is going thru a hard time right now.

miss entycing 01-21-2011 07:43 PM

I leave my candles burning,
with the belief that this circle of light continues to light our way.
As it has lit my way many times, and in many ways.

~Believe~

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Jet 01-21-2011 11:13 PM

My candle and favorite prayer to the Blessed Mother.

This is for me tonight.


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The Memorare


Remember O Most gracious Virgin Mary
that never was it know that anyone
who fled to they protection,
implored thy help
or sought they intercession
was left unaided.

Inspired by this confidence
I fly unto thee
O virgin of virgins, my mother
to thee do I come
before thee I stand sinful and sorrowful.

O mother of the Word Incarnate
despise not my petitions
but hear and answer me

Amen

Blessed Mother, help me
.

ravfem 01-22-2011 01:14 AM

for R
 
who is on her continued journey of healing.

http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5083/...0d65f278_m.jpg

:caveman:

Miss Scarlett 01-22-2011 06:50 AM

:vigil:This morning I light these candles for my BFP family:

Hope – there is always hope; never give up

Joy - to remind us that no matter how bad things get there is always joy to be found somewhere; even in the darkest of times if you look you will find it

Gratitude – for everything we have

Peace and Harmony – for tranquility in our homes and hearts

Strength – to keep pushing forward and have the confidence to do so

Healing and Restoration - for bodies, minds and relationships

miss entycing 01-22-2011 11:37 AM

Leaving light and love.
Blessings today, and keep believing.

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Blade 01-22-2011 01:09 PM

Lighting a candle of thanksgiving to God who has let Ritchie live a week and has given him 48 good hours straight. No marked improvements, but sustaining at this point.

http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...sVgpci_SJDMa3g

Spirit Dancer 01-23-2011 08:24 AM

A prayer sent, a flame burns
may your days feel lighter
and healing energy surround you
thank you for the lovely note.
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Spirit Dancer 01-23-2011 08:30 AM

With faith we find hope,
with hope we find peace'
with peace, we continue to have F*A*I*T*H
For us each who need doors opened,
healing energy, and understanding
I share this light with you all.
http://i163.photobucket.com/albums/t...s/DSC01552.jpg

sylvie 01-23-2011 08:56 AM

leaving hope, strength, peace & light...

sometimes wishing was more i could do, but having been the one in need before, i know someone holding one in their thoughts & prayers can be the exact comforting hug one needs..

this thread is full of so much support, positivity and blessings..
adding mine as well and sending much positive thoughts, comfort & love to all in need today.. ♥

WolfyOne 01-23-2011 09:16 AM

Chemo is really kicking R's butt
She says the pain meds help very little
On a good note, the nodules on her thyroid are benign

Keep the faith, hope and prayers coming

miss entycing 01-23-2011 10:16 AM

I leave this for my gorgeous sistah SD-
because I worry for her, and because I love her.
please my beautiful sistah- take care of you.

I leave this my my cousin Jim-
we aren't expecting him to make it much longer,
and I pray that it's peaceful.
I love you Jim.

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Tess 01-23-2011 10:33 AM

Hope – there is always hope; never give up
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett (Post 270149)
:vigil:This morning I light these candles for my BFP family:

Hope – there is always hope; never give up

Joy - to remind us that no matter how bad things get there is always joy to be found somewhere; even in the darkest of times if you look you will find it

Gratitude – for everything we have

Peace and Harmony – for tranquility in our homes and hearts

Strength – to keep pushing forward and have the confidence to do so

Healing and Restoration - for bodies, minds and relationships

With Gratitude and thanks for all here, for all who pray, who light candels and send their love may you all be blessed with peace and love. (f)

Andrew, Jr. 01-23-2011 08:27 PM


My devotional candles are always burning. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

pajama 01-24-2011 12:40 AM

Tonight I light a candle for the poor teenage mother that has just lost her infant child. I light it for her suffering. I light it for her situation that put her pregnant at 13. I light it for her unsupportive family structure that left her alone in the intensive care with her infant child. I light it for her sobs and cries, alone, as we fought to save her child.

http://i1.trekearth.com/photos/19025/candle.jpg

Andrew, Jr. 01-24-2011 10:41 AM


I am praying and leaving positive energy for you all.

Peace be with you all. :praying:

miss entycing 01-24-2011 03:51 PM


Daywalker 01-24-2011 07:05 PM

How about a Miraculous update?

:praying:
It starts with a message from my Big Seester:
:rose:


A few of you were privileged to receive a text this evening from Wonder Woman...
(seriously, and I hope none of you ever have to know this kind of experience
and out of body endurance!)...she is officially on the rehab ward, but her vision
is impaired on top of everything else, so it is difficult to see this stuff. Docs say
it will come back (due to the machines, ie; ECMO), but unsure of time frame.
For now, she is working hard to convince her small frame that it is mighty and
she can get out of there by her birthday. **crosses fingers and toes, then
decides to skip the toes until a pedicure happens**


And THEN came one from mah Niece!
:shocking:

Hi everyone, thanks for the well wishes. I'm in rehab and on the computer here.
Will try to update when there is something new to say. Right now it's focusing
on strength and weight gain. Hoping to be out of here and in
the hotel by my birthday.

:awww:
And then today...another FB from mah Niece:

UPDATE; so doctors think I'm doing well enough to get out and stay in the
hotel early! So as of right now it's looking like Friday. I'll still have therapy
just at the hotel yay!

:heartbeat: :heartbeat: :heartbeat:

:goodscore:


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:daywalker:

nycfem 01-24-2011 07:29 PM

This candle is for my friend and site member, JustJo. I think that she is going through some struggles, and I light this candle to say we send you hope and strength, as you are a giving, caring, wise woman whom we love. May this light lead you to the answers that you and we might not have right now. We are with you in spirit, my sister.

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Andrew, Jr. 01-25-2011 10:16 AM


My candles burn brightly for everyone. May you all find what it is you are searching for.

Peace.

miss entycing 01-25-2011 11:00 AM

Bright Light, and Brightest Blessings to us all.
Know that I care, and that my candles are burning.

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Blade 01-25-2011 04:36 PM

lighting a candle of good luck today for my 3 formerly unemployed femme friends who have new jobs this week.
GOOD LUCK LADIES

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Canela 01-25-2011 07:53 PM

I light a candle and stand in agreement in prayer with those lifted up in here...

For my younger brother and his situation...

For my daughter and all her efforts academically and spiritually...

For my other daughter who needs very little but still covering her in prayer...

For my family whose transition and transformation as a fully functional as opposed to a dysfunctional one is coming to fruition...praise God!

For all who need prayer for all your needs...

I light this for you...

.



Blade 01-25-2011 08:57 PM

lighting a candle for a friends grandson. He's a little fellow and has pneumonia.

http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...kM3taYRmtfGBRU

miss entycing 01-25-2011 09:06 PM

Lighting my candles from Blade's-
for that very same friend's lil grandbaby.
Be well little one!

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miss entycing 01-26-2011 08:09 AM

keeping the light burning here for my Planet family.
Blessings to us all.

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Tommi 01-26-2011 08:37 AM

Classic Alfie and the Diva.
 
For Milana, in who needed a transfusion: First time since starting chemo and radiation therapy

For Milana's sister Rozella and her hubby who are driving 8 hours to come and visit her in the sub-acute Nursing Home. For Milana and Rozella's birthdays later this week. :candle::candle::candle::candle::candle:
For all who come and go among us.:candle::candle::candle::candle:
and for the struggles in my own conscious reality about life, love and death.
What is it all about?

Cher, the innocent and beautiful way she was, almost to shy to look in the camera..Lest we forget, she was just a kid with a beautiful voice and who has survived a lot of hype thrown at her..and she is Chaz's Mom.

What's it all about, Alfie?
Is it just for the moment we live?
What's it all about when you sort it out, Alfie?
Are we meant to take more than we give
Or are we meant to be kind?
And if only fools are kind, Alfie,
Then I guess it's wise to be cruel.
And if life belongs only to the strong, Alfie,
What will you lend on an old golden rule?
As sure as I believe there's a heaven above, Alfie,
I know there's something much more,
Something even non-believers can believe in.
I believe in love, Alfie.
Without true love we just exist, Alfie.
Until you find the love you've missed you're nothing, Alfie.
When you walk let your heart lead the way
And you'll find love any day, Alfie, Alfie
would you tell me what's it all about?
what's it all about? Alfie, Alfie, Alfie.
What's it all about? Whats this all about?
what's it all about Alfie? tell me
just tell me yeah. what's it all about?

Spirit Dancer 01-26-2011 10:31 AM

For the littlest one,
from those before me I light my candle,
sending you healing love and energy to get
better quickly.
For your Daddy and Mommy we send strength;
and for me, to not come beat that mean ole
nurse up for making you cry.
http://i236.photobucket.com/albums/f...LESET38559.jpg

PS. your frogs and mo mo are waiting for you
to go Voooooooommmmmmmmmmmm

Andrew, Jr. 01-26-2011 10:33 AM


My thoughts and prayers are with you all. My devotional candles are burning. :candle::candle:


Blade 01-26-2011 02:24 PM

Lighting up again this afternoon for the little man

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Blade 01-26-2011 02:47 PM

still keeping the candle burning for Ritchie

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Spirit Dancer 01-26-2011 05:20 PM

For my son, know I'm there
sending and surrounding you and
little man but please remember to
http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j1...99/breathe.jpg
Continuing with candles from those before but adding
http://i161.photobucket.com/albums/t...ldinghands.jpg

http://i185.photobucket.com/albums/x...athe_thumb.jpg

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Spirit Dancer 01-26-2011 05:24 PM

For lady D and Her Family
Sending light and Strength always
http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y64...0Candles/9.jpg

Andrew, Jr. 01-26-2011 07:04 PM


For those who are without electricity, cold, hungry, hopeless, hurting, sick, poor, needy, unemployed, homeless, and alone. My candles and incense are burning for you.

WolfyOne 01-26-2011 07:06 PM

I'm dropping R at the VA Hospital tomorrow before heading to work
She's getting her 2nd chemo session
The 1st one took a toll on her, I'm guessing the 2nd will be worse
She's having a hard time dealing with the pain it causes her
So, please keep the prayers coming along with strength, hope and faith

sylvie 01-26-2011 08:12 PM


a friend i work with , has diabetes..
she has been through hell & back since November, being hospitalized numerous times, and then losing her toe.. she was told at the end of December she would probably lose her foot, and was so scared and sad through the holidays..

we just got word that she will actually be amputated from just below the knee now, =(

please keep Debi in your thoughts & prayers, ♥

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as i am lighting a candle for Debi, it's also for all of you who need strength, support, light & positive energy sent your way.. xox


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