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JustLovelyJenn 11-20-2015 10:03 PM

I am thankful for the courage and strength I was born with to travel the hardest parts of my path...

starryeyes 11-20-2015 10:53 PM

I am thankful to have a loving partner and loving dogs :)

giggleluver 11-24-2015 07:48 PM

I'm grateful that I'll be spending my first holiday since 2002 with my middle son who is 19.

Chad 11-25-2015 08:32 AM

Thankful
 
I am thankful that I get to spend Thanksgiving with my mom.
I am thankful for my friends and family.
I am thankful for my kitties.

Bèsame* 11-25-2015 08:36 AM

I'm so very very thankful for the strides of modern medicine.

MysticOceansFL 11-25-2015 08:53 AM

I'm thankful for:
1. Friends & family and extended families.
2. To the troops who make it safe for us to live our lives and our freedom.
3. To JackHammer & Medusa and all the moderator's who make this site safe for All those who enter here and enjoy.
4. For my health and that I'm able to do for myself.

TruTexan 11-25-2015 12:12 PM

I'm Thankful for this used laptop my sister gave me. It came in the mail today!! YAY LUCKY ME!!! I tossed my old one as it was a pile of junk now cause it died.

CherryWine 11-25-2015 01:06 PM

Today I am very thankful to have gotten the news that my company's contract has been renewed for another five years. No more worrying about job hunting in the new year. Phew!

I'm also thankful for strong cough medicine and banana popsicles.

kittygrrl 11-25-2015 01:58 PM

reason, sanity, responsibility, goodness, and most of all love

Jesse 11-25-2015 04:49 PM

First and foremost, I am thankful for Medusa & Jack for sharing this place for me to visit that offers a semblance of home and family. I don't have any family, so this is a huge blessing for me. Thank you.

I am also thankful for the moderators who manage somehow to keep things somewhat sane. Thank you all.

I am also thankful to the community here who bless me daily with smiles, things to think about, laughter, things to disagree with, and sometimes even things to shed tears over. All of these things help me to grow as a person. Thank you all.

I am thankful for my dog, Sadie for she truly is both friend and family to me. I only hope that one day I can grow to be as humble and kind as she is.

I am thankful for my health, a somewhat sane mind :blink:, and that I am helped along this fantastic journey by a loving God who loves me in spite of my faults and short comings.

clay 11-25-2015 06:11 PM

I am thankful for all of these things:

This beautiful Planet website to come to.....to find like minded souls.

Medusa & Jack....for always providing a welcoming site to relax in & read some forums in a safe manner

My beautiful honey & our life together! She is everything,, then some!

My sweet little senior dachshund, Heidi, who has given me the purest of love & joys for 10.5 years. Unconditionally....always happy to see me..always by my side if she has her way

Wonderful chosen family I love...

Amazing friends who decorate my life...

The Mods here who give of themselves to keep our Planet in perfect alignment...:)

The Penpals/Crafters & all the freakin' great projects we have done this year!!

My health & peaceful life.....I am truly blessed in this Universe....

Finally, for "old friends" who have come back into my life....I am grateful to them....you know whom you are...:).

Happy Thanksgiving, Planet Framily...much love to you all...:praying:

Blade 11-28-2015 11:11 PM

Thankful for
Time off from work
A job to go back to
thankful to share another holiday season with my parents
for safe travels of frinds and family
thankful for my 6 little greats they keep me laughing and youthful minded
thankful all my orange teams won today

Orema 11-29-2015 05:10 AM

Clarity . . . . .

MsTinkerbelly 11-29-2015 10:03 AM

I am thankful for another day of life.

JustLovelyJenn 11-29-2015 09:34 PM

I am thankful for the knowledge that all my little efforts over the years I have been unable to do more were noticed.

I am thankful for the acknowledgement that I have done all I can as often as I can.

I am even more thankful for the new opportunities to do more.

Liam 11-29-2015 10:17 PM

I am thankful for having a wee room to call home, and a bed to fall asleep in and have sweet dreams. I am grateful for a job with a company whose core values match up with many of mine. I am thankful that I make enough money to supply my needs with a little extra to spoil myself on a weekly basis, and put away some, toward my next adventure. I am grateful for my friends, both near and far, all of them are very special people.

Amulette 11-30-2015 02:05 PM

It makes my heart beat faster.....
 
That illusive place where perception and possibility meet.......

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Tuff Stuff 11-30-2015 11:10 PM

All Is Well...
 
I'm thankful for tonight...we're both "safe"..tomorrow night I won't have her by my side,we'll have over 200 miles between us..thank gawd she taught me how to shoot a real gun. *snort*

I hate people guns.

Orema 12-13-2015 12:11 PM

This morning I'm particularly thankful for honest people.

A little while ago I left my purse in the grocery cart in the parking lot—I was so worried about some bleach I had put in the car that I forgot about my handbag. I realized I didn't have it when I stopped to get gas.

I returned to the grocery store and one of the employees had found it and took it to the manager. I gave her a finder's fee :) and counted my lucky stars.

Orema 01-02-2016 06:02 PM

Unified States Postal Service
 
I really appreciate the USPS and this article on infratructure does a nice job of paying homage to a service I often take for granted.

__________________________
Why The Post Office Makes America Great
by Zeynep Tufekci

I was transported recently to a place that is as enchanting to me as any winter wonderland: my local post office.

In line, I thought fondly of the year I came to this country from Turkey as an adult and discovered the magic of reliable mail service. Dependable infrastructure is magical not simply because it works, but also because it allows innovation to thrive, including much of the Internet-based economy that has grown in the past decade. You can’t have Amazon or eBay without a reliable way to get things to people’s homes.

Of course, infrastructure is also boring, so we get used to it and forget what a gift it truly is. I never do, maybe because I discovered it so late.

My first year in the United States was full of surprises. I remember trying to figure out if the 24-ounce glass of ice water the waitress placed in front of me was a pitcher, to be shared by the whole table. But where was the spout? I had expected some of what I encountered — I had seen enough movies, and came to this country expecting big cars and big houses and wide open spaces. I got used to gigantic glasses.

But I didn’t expect the post office.

The first time I needed to mail something, I trekked over to my campus’s post office, looking for the line to get my envelope weighed. The staff was used to befuddled international students like me, I suppose, and one clerk took my envelope without fuss, said “first class letter,” and took my change.

Then I discovered some vending machines outside the office. People came and bought stamps. “So many people must be into stamp collecting,” I thought to myself. Was that another weird American quirk? Otherwise, why would people waste money buying stamps in advance, without having their letters weighed?

Something I take for granted now just didn’t occur to me: There were standardized rates, and you could just slap a stamp on your letter, drop it in a mailbox, and it would go to its destination.

I then encountered a visa service that asked me to mail in my passport. My precious, precious passport. With a self-addressed, stamped envelope for its return. I laughed at the audacity of the request. Despite being a broke student, I booked a plane trip. I couldn’t envision putting my passport in the mail. I’ve since learned that this is a common practice, and I’ve even done it once or twice myself. But it still does not come easy to me.

I noticed that Americans were a particularly patriotic bunch: So many of them had red flags on their mailboxes. Sometimes they would put those flags up. I presumed it was to celebrate national holidays I did not yet know about. But why did some people have their flags up while others did not? And why weren’t they American flags anyway? As in Istanbul, where I grew up, I assumed patriotism had different interpretations and expressions.

The mystery was solved when I noticed a letter carrier emptying a mailbox. I was slightly unnerved: Was the mail being stolen? He then went over to another mailbox with the flag up, and emptied that box, too. I got my hint when he skipped the mailbox with the flag down.

Yes, I was told, in the United States, mail gets picked up from your house, six days a week, free of charge.

I told my friends in Turkey about all this. They shook their heads in disbelief, wondering how easily I had been recruited as a C.I.A. agent, saying implausibly flattering things about my new country. The United States in the world’s imagination is a place of risk taking and ruthless competition, not one of reliable public services.

I bit my tongue and did not tell my already suspicious friends that the country was also dotted with libraries that provided books to all patrons free of charge. They wouldn’t believe me anyway since I hadn’t believed it myself. My first time in a library in the United States was very brief: I walked in, looked around, and ran right back out in a panic, certain that I had accidentally used the wrong entrance. Surely, these open stacks full of books were reserved for staff only. I was used to libraries being rare, and their few books inaccessible. To this day, my heart races a bit in a library.

Over the years, I’ve come to appreciate the link between infrastructure, innovation — and even ruthless competition. Much of our modern economy thrives here because you can order things online and expect them to be delivered. There are major private delivery services, too, but the United States Postal Service is often better equipped to make it to certain destinations. In fact, Internet sellers, and even private carriers, often use the U.S.P.S. as their delivery mechanism to addresses outside densely populated cities.

Almost every aspect of the most innovative parts of the United States, from cutting-edge medical research to its technology scene, thrives on publicly funded infrastructure. The post office is struggling these days, in some ways because of how much people rely on the web to do much of what they used to turn to the post office for. But the Internet is a testament to infrastructure, too: It exists partly because the National Science Foundation funded much of the research that makes it possible. Even some of the Internet’s biggest companies, like Google, got a start from N.S.F.-funded research.

Infrastructure is often the least-appreciated part of what makes a country strong, and what makes innovation take flight. From my spot in line at the post office, I see a country that does both well; not a country that emphasizes one at the expense of the other.

http://www.nytimes.com/2016/01/03/op...ml?ref=opinion

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Zeynep Tufekci is an assistant professor at the School of Information and Library Science at the University of North Carolina and a contributing opinion writer.

cinnamongrrl 01-02-2016 06:15 PM

I am thankful for personal freedom...

And for the big and small things in every day life...

As always...for the beauty around me and for the physical ability to immerse myself in it....

Gayandgray 02-07-2016 10:56 PM

I'm thankful that my spouse can still walk with her walker and has not gone totally blind, I'm thankful for my job and a car to get back and forth to said job, I'm thankful for our home in the country, our dogs, plenty of food to eat, and I'm thankful for finding this BFP!!!!!

boioboi 02-10-2016 11:31 AM

I'm thankful for a loving and supportive partner. I'm thankful for our pups, having a roof over our head, food to eat, tea to drink, and being able to follow my dreams.

Orema 02-24-2016 07:24 AM

I'm thankful to have a life that allows me to stay home for a couple days when I'm sick. There are lots of people who can't "take it easy" when they're ill.

Gayandgray 02-26-2016 10:32 AM

Today I'm thankful that things didn't get too out of hand last night with my former best friend. I'm thankful when I threw her out that it did not get ugly. I'm thankful I woke up today and feel that a dark cloud has been "lifted" off my heart and I can see things clearer. I'm thankful we have the finances to help my stepdaughter buy groceries. I'm thankful for another chance.:koolaid:

Gayandgray 03-15-2016 11:10 AM

I'm thankful that I can finally see a certain person's true colors. I have taken off my rose colored glasses and now I see this person for the very first time, and I don't like what I see. I'm thankful somebody upstairs has shown me what I have been needing to see for a long time now.

JDeere 03-15-2016 01:52 PM

Thankful for being able to get a doctors appointment for tomorrow afternoon.

Gayandgray 04-30-2016 07:04 PM

I'm thankful for my part time job at the dog/cat kennel, and not just for the extra money. But also for my ME time, to help me de-stress and relax my mind. And I'm thankful that I have enough food to eat! I just found out that a friend I don't see too often is kind of struggling financially, so the next time Redners has whole chickens on sale I'm going to pick up some for her. I guess I'm guilty of taking it for granted that we always have plenty of food in the house, and if we want something special at the grocery store, we just go get it. I need to remember that not everyone can do that.......

girl_dee 05-09-2016 05:03 AM

Thankful that my mom is still here.

bright_arrow 05-11-2016 12:46 AM

Text messaging with my dad
My mom being a phone call away
Spontaneous hugs from my boyfriend's dad

socialjustice_fsu 05-11-2016 03:03 AM

I am thankful for:
 
competent CNA's and nurses as they provide care for my mom. They are so good to her. I hope I can be half as good as they are when she comes home.

Gayandgray 05-16-2016 05:05 PM

That our Vet is only 15 minutes from our house. That I'm working less at a job that stresses me and more at a job that relaxes me. That I now have more time with my spouse and my oldest dog as both their health declines. That my faith is strong. That even if I don't have all that I want, I definitely have all that I need.:praying::praying

Soon 05-16-2016 06:10 PM

A piece of valuable information.

Glenn 05-17-2016 10:15 AM

I am very thankful that I can fly here to BF when I need a rest from the mess. I've been crazy busy here.

FireSignFemme 05-17-2016 12:13 PM

The Big Stuff;
- My health
- Safe, affordable housing
- Access to plenty of clean, fresh drinking water
- Being a citizen of one of the wealthiest countries in the world
- Indoor plumbing and the unsung heroes working in all the many different capacities, industries that support it
- The whole waste management loop
- Having easy, ready access to round the clock, virtually uninterrupted electrical service, internet and refrigeration
- Education in a world where many are denied schooling or live where only the wealthy are fortunate enough to achieve literacy
- Healthcare
- An emergency response time of less than three minutes to my door by the ambulance, fire department and police
- The men and women who serve our country, help defend and keep it safe.
- The right to keep and bear arms
- Monte the Magnificent
- Friends who get me
- A cordial friendship and good working relationship with my children’s father and stepmother
- That everyone in my family who wants a job has one
- The health and safety of my sons
- A good relationship with both of my children
- Her, all special and new


The Small Stuff;
My “scented ALLEGED Lucky Flame” novena candle that I got at Wally World, which made me laugh/really lifted my mood on a day when I was feeling especially hang dog low - all for under a buck which, even now, still makes me smile/brightens my day whenever I notice it sitting on my shelf and read the word “ALLEDGED”.


https://img1.etsystatic.com/055/1/96...53141_8x49.jpg

~ocean 05-17-2016 03:23 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by FireSignFemme (Post 1066760)
The Big Stuff;
- My health
- Safe, affordable housing
- Access to plenty of clean, fresh drinking water
- Being a citizen of one of the wealthiest countries in the world
- Indoor plumbing and the unsung heroes working in all the many different capacities, industries that support it
- The whole waste management loop
- Having easy, ready access to round the clock, virtually uninterrupted electrical service, internet and refrigeration
- Education in a world where many are denied schooling or live where only the wealthy are fortunate enough to achieve literacy
- Healthcare
- An emergency response time of less than three minutes to my door by the ambulance, fire department and police
- The men and women who serve our country, help defend and keep it safe.
- The right to keep and bear arms
- Monte the Magnificent
- Friends who get me
- A cordial friendship and good working relationship with my children’s father and stepmother
- That everyone in my family who wants a job has one
- The health and safety of my sons
- A good relationship with both of my children
- Her, all special and new


The Small Stuff;
My “scented ALLEGED Lucky Flame” novena candle that I got at Wally World, which made me laugh/really lifted my mood on a day when I was feeling especially hang dog low - all for under a buck which, even now, still makes me smile/brightens my day whenever I notice it sitting on my shelf and read the word “ALLEDGED”.


https://img1.etsystatic.com/055/1/96...53141_8x49.jpg



(((((((( fire )))))))) your positive energy makes me smile ~ I love reading your posts, thank you !

Liam 05-17-2016 08:16 PM

For the first time in over four years, I was able to take a five mile hike through Golden Gate Park. While I did have some discomfort, I was not in pain, and it was a HUGE accomplishment, and I am so thankful that I was able to do this today. I'm looking forward to doing it again!

FireSignFemme 05-17-2016 08:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Liam (Post 1066843)
For the first time in over four years, I was able to take a five mile hike through Golden Gate Park. While I did have some discomfort, I was not in pain, and it was a HUGE accomplishment, and I am so thankful that I was able to do this today. I'm looking forward to doing it again!

That's amazing, that's really great news and I'm happly for you. :)

Blade 05-27-2016 07:35 PM

MY LIFE and the many blessing I've had especially the ones I probably didn't deserve.

In the last 2 months I have reconnected with my besties from childhood, high school and college.

One from the circle, has had difficult times but has done well. She has a few health issues and both her pare,ts have passed. The other one from the circle, has 3 adult children, 3 marriages, lost her parents within 6 months of each other. She has struggled financially her entire adult life, lost her house in the recession and now pays rent 3 times what my house payment is. She's been healthy but is still as man crazy as she was at 15yrs old.

My college peeps, one struggled for years and years raising her kids alone, married someone who got on crack, lost her house then her job. Finally 3 yrs ago found a good guy to marry and has the great life she deserves. Her parents are in their 80's and still campin and riding horse

Another peep owned a store with her husband for 20 yrs and found out that the person who sold them the store didnt actually own it. An heir of the late real owner showed up one day with papers end result the store was closed and the mechanic shop he husband ran in the back was closed and torn down. Then she fought cancer for 3 yrs and now her Mom has cancer and is at home with hospice care.

Spoke with my last peep last night. Her company sold out while she was on vacation they offered the employees to lose their jobs or move to Alabama. She lost her job, then started having health issues, COPD, has oxygen, sleeps with one of those machines, now takes meds for well she calls them happy pills, her husband was out of work for 17 weeks from December.

Though I have had a few speed bumps in my road, I am so thankful to have had a great life, good health, to still have my parents and them basically healthy for their ages. I've been blessed with a great job, great friends and support system when I needed it. And I'm thankful I've had my struggles from time to time as well. My life hasn't been perfect, but I'm thankful I haven't had to struggle with many of the things my peeps have

cinnamongrrl 05-27-2016 09:03 PM

A fun night out on the town....and future plans :)


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