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A beautiful, sunny Saturday here in Paradise.....

hey all you lovely singular peeps.....stopping by to say "hey y'all" and hoping everyone's day, and weekend is awesome. It is a wonderfully bright blue skied day here...mild temps. I have windows and doors open....anyway, I can see the tomatoes and bananas coming at me now...<smiles>
Anyone know what time and channel the games will be on today and tomorrow...thanks...Clay

*looks around*
Is this where the single people hang out? :spruceup:

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Originally Posted by buttercupmuffin (Post 504436)

*looks around*
Is this where the single people hang out? :spruceup:

yeppers...welcome

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Originally Posted by claybaby (Post 504438)

yeppers...welcome

Thanks! :P

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Originally Posted by buttercupmuffin (Post 504440)

Thanks! :P

YVW...usually folks just pass thru and post..and may be on other threads. There is a Chat Room...go to homepage, look in upper right hand corner..there is a portal to enter chat room..smiles...come on in and sit a spell...:)

Newly single *peeking in* Afternoon everyone.

hello chef...welcome..what ya making us all for dinner this evening....lol

Ageism/dateing ivisablity

Yeah that thing.Boy did it ever raise its ugly head tonigh,again,there is the really cute,sexy as all get outs college prof I have been hanging out with on and off for a while.When I met her she had no idea what my age was nor I hers,a fue monts ago I got carded at a night club and she was with me,the guy at the door made the comment that hell you dont look any where near your age..what ever you are doing keep it up...I said thanks and in we went.So in passing she ask,just how old are you???In a kidding way I told her old enough to vote a couple of times over anyway,then I told her my age(64)
She didn say much then but on the way home she said we could be friends but she just didnt date anyone seriously that was so much older than she was (50).I said no prob so we stayed friends,last night we went out for dinner and the blues club on the river frount,we had a good time till she had a drink to much then she desided we might be better than friends.Now If I wasnt the person I am I may have used this occasion to my advantage but I took her home got her in the house safely..then told her that we were friends and will stay that way cause unless she still though this way when she was sober a fue drinks wouldnt change things,then I said good night.When I got home there was a message on my phone that said she was sorry for haveing to much to drink,it wasnt something she normaly did(this I know already) end of message.I wish ageism didnt become an issue in the things we do in life,weather I see her again isnt he issue,I would like to atleast keep the friendship,its just theis thing about age sucks.

Single. Just peeking in to say hello. *waves* :)

:cold:
It's Way too cold for my liking today
:angry:
-sits by the Heater-

Good Morning, Singles! I hope everyone is having a fabulous weekend! It is a beautiful day here in NY, even thought it is 3* outside! So much for taking Jacob on a bike ride! Now he will be riding his bike through my kitchen and livingroom! I have to remind myself he is 4 years old!!! Lol

good morning everyone. FOOTBALL in a little over an hour. :) off to scrub my tub before the game. hope everyone has a good Sunday.

good morning everyone....wishing everyone an awesome Sunday...lots of exciting football games on today...
Have a warm, fun, and happy day all...it is 60 degrees here! Shorts, tank top...and lots of warm sun and blue skies!!!

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Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh (Post 504783)

Rock, do I every hear you on this one!

I'm 62, but also don't look my age, and a femme. That means the entire dating pool is about the size of a thimble.

I don't understand your lady's objection to your age. Out there in the het world, an older guy is always desirable. I mean she's not 25!

But femmes are graded by their ages as if we're eggs or something that will go bad if we are over a certain date. Sheesh! We're just swinging into our prime. 50 is the new 30 so we're just mellowing.

Hang in there, Rock. There's got to be someone out there who appreciates fine wine.

Still single by choice. Haven't met the right one yet. Then again I haven't really been looking.

Well, since we seem to be discussing being single today. Yes, I am still single... I date with purpose.. meaning, I become friends first... I don't date someone unless I think they have potential to be THE one.. and even then, I don't have sex while "dating"... have to be in an exclusive relationship before I will do that. Not a judgement call on anyone else...but I tend to get hurt if I let sex come into a relationship too soon. So, am I looking, a little... Am I in a panic about it.. no... when it's right, it will be right. Not willing to settle for anything less than someone who is crazy for me and I am crazy for them. Respect, love, compassion, kindness, humor... all very important to me. I am a strong femme who knows her mind, her own heart and her own soul.

OK... that said, I am going to a Ladies dance today with some friends. Love to dance and love to meet new people.

Have a great sunday everyone!
Ruthie

Good afternoon Singles!! Since we're on the topic of being single. I'm not single by choice but won't go out with just anyone. I'm pretty perceptive and know when there's good chemistry or when I think there's good chemistry. One day the right one will come along....at least thats what everyone tells me lol

Ditto!

Zimmeh

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme (Post 505018)

Have a great afternoon , singles

I am a 38 year old single mother of 4 great kids. I love life and am pretty easy going for the most part. Most of my time is spent with my kids and going for walks, and other family things. I would like to make some new friends to just chat with. :hangloose: