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A story about who calls me what.
Many years ago, during the 'courtship' phase (if you want to call it that....it was like bees to pollen), my now ex wife (16 years) spontaneously called me by my family nick name. I had never told her that and she had not at this point met my bio-family. How the hell did she do that....laughin....many folks have come close, but no one outside the bio-family ever nailed it before or after her. ----------- dang it potty............you just reminded me I should have done the 'popcorn' in a thread instead of replying with words........ |
What I prefer to be called is Cath or Cathie, but I've used Bit as a screen name for more than a dozen years now, so I understand when people call me Bit. At one point I actually answered to it--had a partner who preferred using it instead of Cathie--but these days I feel more comfortable with Cath.
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TD or Stevin here. Since Stevin is still a relatively new name for me, I still get TD a lot. Either one is fine with me. However I introduce myself as Stevin to new people I meet. |
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it's hard being me sometimes. |
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I am open to being called anything. Suddenly surprise me with a fun, sweet, or outrageous nickname. I have a fondness for friends having special nicknames for one another or just for me. I'm also cool with you calling me whatever you're in the mood to call me at the moment. I promise I'll respond :). And I also promise that I won't call you anything besides your name in return, unless you specifically request it, of course.
Otherwise I like to be called Jennifer only because I seem to know more "Jenny"s. I'm also fine with nycfembbw or some variation. I was told by one BF-er that she truly always assumed "bbw" stood for BB's wife. I'm cool with that* *though it really means: Big Beautiful Woman |
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YAY. I'm going to call you 8675309 You know... Jenny Jenny who can I turn to? |
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Maybe she's Bubbah's sister and memories of prison just excite her new client |
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oh, yes. i like it. |
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*wincing*
i always get a little hesitant to answer these things because, in another place (okay...site) at another time, i was hassled a great deal about identity and my identity specifically. but, you can't be a wuss forever. :bolt:
as for names, i am cool with oneye, one or nick, which is the name i've gone by for the last 22 years. i do not like to be called by my given name at all, and i LOATHE being called and have come close to committing homicide when addressed as 'nikki.' DO NOT DO IT!!! pronounically speaking, i prefer he/him. no, i don't feel that i'm male, and i'm not transitioning and won't likely do so. however, i've never in my life felt like a female really...from the time i can remember. honestly, i've often felt like i've been floating around out there in a sea of gender labels without a life preserver. i ask to be referred to with male pronouns because i feel most closely able to relate to them. now, if you have gathered up tomatoes to hurl, have at it. i'm ready!! :outfield: :seeingstars: |
oh crap, Gemme. i edited and that erased your 'thank you.' sorry about that. but thanks for the thumbs up! ;)
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hmmm...see it's back. i'm a moron! hahaha!!! :blink: |
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