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Dreamer 03-02-2011 01:59 PM
If she leans over whispers in your ear "you place or mine" she may be into you..... or she could just be horny one of the two.

proximitywithoutintimacy 03-02-2011 02:02 PM
If she says "hi" to you in the middle of a crowded place and smiles, her voice all cute and sweet... is she into you? :lol2:

Bella~Vita 03-02-2011 02:08 PM
When actions speak louder than words

AtLast 03-02-2011 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted by key (Post 293233)
I can be so clueless sometimes. And I miss opportunities. This frustrates me.

Today's example:

Coming home from work, tired, a bit disheveled. Just thinking about dinner and a hot bath. As I am getting my two dogs out of the truck, I see a veeeery cuuuute woman unloading a u-haul truck. I am so ...? I honestly don't know (shy, clueless, ?) I barely even look her way. She stops what she is doing and smiles at me. I smile and say hi, then realize I forgot something in the truck, go back and get it. As I head towards home again she is still standing there smiling. I say hi again (dork?) as we walk past her.

It does not dawn on me until I am in the bath that she had stopped what she was doing and was smiling at me. Who knows, maybe she was just tired and taking a break. Maybe she liked my dogs. Maybe her face is stuck in a smile naturally. But maybe, just maybe she was open to me saying something more than hi. Maybe something like welcome to the neighborhood? Maybe I will get another chance if I can even remember what she looked like. UGH!

This is just today's example. I feel like my cluelessness makes me completely oblivious to these types of situations/opportunities in the moment. It is only after the fact that I sometimes get it.

Can anyone relate?
Oh, yes..... I can relate! yes.... "after-the-fact" is my middle name!

proximitywithoutintimacy 03-04-2011 05:17 PM
I'm so naive... relationships are my forte; dating, however, is not :lol2:

proximitywithoutintimacy 03-11-2011 10:20 AM
If one of her closest friends says she'll hook you up with her... good sign? :lol2:

undone 03-12-2011 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted by atomiczombie (Post 293497)
I totally do this too!!!

Or, I tend to assume that the only reason a girl is interested in me, when she does make it obvious, is for carnal reasons (this has happened to me in the past and my heart was broke a little bit). I just don't know how to tell if a girl is interested in me for sex or for more, for who I am and not just what I can do for her in the bedroom (or the car, living room, kitchen, shower, etc. :P). It makes me honestly distrustful.
treat her the way you feel about it... If you want just sex then be honest about it, but your tone implies that you are looking for something a bit more, so treat her like it, she will either reciprocate or not. It also never hurts to talk or ask about it, keeps the air clear so you can see what's coming and maneuver accordingly.

I have always appreciated when some else can express what there interest is. It doesn't mean anything more than this is how i fell and what i am looking for at this moment

smouldering 03-15-2011 06:30 AM
Yup it can be hard..

I have the same issue as AtomicZombie lol.. I can't always tell if someone is just looking for something casual or something more long term... if they are being genuine or saying whatever they think will get them in my pants lol..

Ive also had the issue of Butches thinking I am into them because I am nice or they assume because I am being sweet I want in their pants... -- Dating can be confusing!

But I agree about paying attention to body language sometimes how we act or react speaks louder then what we say :)

Sweet_Amor_Taino 03-15-2011 07:31 AM
The morning phone call.. the sound of her voice.. giggles and laughter.

JustJo 03-15-2011 09:08 AM
Ummmm.....no clue.

I'm one of those dense people when it comes to flirting. Years ago, in a group of friend/acquaintances I jokingly said "how come you all flirt with each other and no one flirts with me?"

There was general laughter and then one was kind enough to inform me "uh, Jo...we do...you just don't get it."

True story.

proximitywithoutintimacy 03-19-2011 04:57 PM
One girl told me it made her feel "a little jealous" when I told her about this beautiful love letter I had from an ex-girlfriend who I adore. I think she might be into me... ;)

:lol2:

proximitywithoutintimacy 03-24-2011 01:25 PM
If she hugs you, kisses your cheek and says "text me tomorrow" but then texts you an hour later telling you how cute you are... she might be into you ;)

bigbutchmistie 03-24-2011 01:37 PM
I'm on my I phone typing this but for me I can feel it and someone's lack of actions will.tell me every time

If you tell me you are gonna so something and you don't etc

Lots of the things show when someone is just not into you

Personally I think I'm a Damn good catch and someone is crazy not.to.be into.me.lol

LeftWriteFemme 03-24-2011 02:19 PM
If you give her bottom a little spank and she starts following you around, she is into you; if she calls the cops she's not.......

Rockinonahigh 03-24-2011 03:01 PM
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Originally Posted by JustJo (Post 301699)
Ummmm.....no clue.

I'm one of those dense people when it comes to flirting. Years ago, in a group of friend/acquaintances I jokingly said "how come you all flirt with each other and no one flirts with me?"

There was general laughter and then one was kind enough to inform me "uh, Jo...we do...you just don't get it."

True story.
Join the club,for years I had and still have a dense qulity.Sometimes it just goes over my head..

Chancie 03-24-2011 03:47 PM
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Originally Posted by smouldering (Post 301637)
Yup it can be hard..

I have the same issue as AtomicZombie lol.. I can't always tell if someone is just looking for something casual or something more long term... if they are being genuine or saying whatever they think will get them in my pants lol..

Ive also had the issue of Butches thinking I am into them because I am nice or they assume because I am being sweet I want in their pants... -- Dating can be confusing!

But I agree about paying attention to body language sometimes how we act or react speaks louder then what we say :)
I hope it's okay if I ask you a question.

Your profile says, 'as long as you pull my hair you can call me anything ;).'

Doesn't that sound like you want something casual?

I think casual can be fun and fabulous and

I think that if you want your hair pulled,

You should get your hair pulled, so

I am not being judge-y.

AtLast 03-24-2011 04:40 PM
Ummm.... so......

Why not just say "I'm into you?"

I know, I'm no fun.....

:blink:

miss entycing 03-24-2011 04:59 PM
if they are still calling you after they've moved on....
they may be into you.
*shrugs*

:eyebat:

proximitywithoutintimacy 03-24-2011 06:32 PM
I'm still painfully naive about whether or not she likes me... ha... ha... :o


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