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hide the horse until the ceremony is over...
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when you are really angry with me....so angry with me...walk over and touch my face lovingly...so I know that even thru the anger you love me...that even tho we are angry, the moment is just a moment and not a rock that shatters the mirror upon which we look at each other....
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Validate one another as human beings. Speak of each other's worth. It is the cornerstone of any healthy, loving, intact relationship.
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It's simple...
As my Mom and Dad said (completely separately from each other I might add)....
KNOW that where you ARE is EXACTLY where you WANT to BE. If you BOTH have this mindset... the rest will follow... you will always find a way to figure it out during the hard times, the fun times, and the loving times... and the difficult things of life don't come between you when you are on that same page. |
Be gentle with the cloaca.
Always own your part. Forgive and discuss. |
OMG..... now I know why I've been single for 5 years.
Really all is to clean out the dishwasher? Jesus I knew I paid that therapist too much. ..... lol THANK YOU SCORP!!!! |
My Dear Brother Ebon read this for Pup and I at our wedding; seems to be a good fit for the thread:
When you love someone, you do not love them all the time, in exactly the same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is even a lie to pretend to. And yet this is exactly what most of us demand. We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of the tide and resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid it will never return. We insist on permanency, on duration, on continuity; when the only continuity possible, in life as in love, is in growth, in fluidity - in freedom, in the sense that the dancers are free, barely touching as they pass, but partners in the same pattern. The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what was in nostalgia, nor forward to what it might be in dread or anticipation, but living in the present relationship and accepting it as it is now. --Anne Morrow Lindberg Just thought I would share that. Glynn |
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Keep up hygiene and appearance even after you "have" me
Look at me when I'm speaking to you Go on dates, even after years Be very affectionate Be honest and open, above all Compliments, compliments and compliments Notice the "little things"-a new hairstyle, new clothes Remember what brought you together in the first place, and rekindle that heat Remember that both of you have to be dedicated to personal growth Laugh, often and hard |
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Remember that paying attention to the small things helps build a strong foundation for facing the big stuff together.
Taking a partner for granted is a fast track to splitting up. Laugh together.... A LOT!!! |
Please, don't ever let the honeymoon be over.
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Call her Beautiful, don't just tell her she is. :rose: Dig up rocks for her ~ because U want to. (just make sure that pretty rock doesn't just look like a stoopid potato when ya get it home) :| When U have passed the 7 year mark and are working on 8, and she knows that she now haz all yer Exes beat in the relationship duration thing...let her rejoice and dance around the kitchen like she's spiking a football in the End Zone. :ballerina: :football: :ballerina: Oh, and brush her hair for her ~ try not to pull it (too hard) :goodscore: :daywalker: |
Brushing her hair...... OHHHhhhh yes good one!
Don't make promises then don't keep them. |
It helps if she thinks you're adorable.
Tell her you love her and that she's beautiful, but really mean it. Choose someone who thinks you're really funny, even if you don't know why you amuse them so much. Express gratitude and appreciation as often as you feel it. Always ask if you can get her something while you're in the kitchen. |
Make sure she knows she's not replacing your ex.
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rub her feet--even tho you have a thing about feet-because it helps her!
thank her often for all she does for you do something for no reason at all! |
Cook dinner
Massages after a long hard day Clean and wash her car Bring home wild flowers you picked on the side of the road. Fuck her well, and often. Dont stop when she says she cant again, there is always one more in there. :) Bring her coffee Wash her hair Tell her how beautiful she is when she wakes up in the morning, and then show her. Smile and be proud of her when she is on your arm. Even when you are at home depot together, covered in dirt..picking up last minute supplies you ran out of while planting a garden. Put air in her tires, and check the oil. Take her out on surprise picnics. Never wait for the perfect moment to tell her how you feel. Say it when you feel it, dont hold it in. Give her white and red roses, the symbols for purity and love. Hold her hair back while she is throwing up from the flu. Bring her chocolates, and a heating pad when she has cramps and PMS, also, just say, yes baby..to anything she says during that time. Listen to every lyric, to every song she posts..she may be talking to you. Protect her, keep her safe. Spank her ass when she needs it. Let her spank yours if she needs it. |
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