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I'm not single. But when I was I didn't really have a list. But when I saw her I knew I had to make her mine. Too bad she didn't want me. She threw me back. Alright, there may have been some things I had to take care of....
Once I heard "all relationships fail until you find one that doesn't". It might sound like an odd way to put it but it's totally true. You have to put yourself out there, you know in whatever way works for you and as mentioned in a previous post, be true to who you are. That way when you meet someone you are really interested in you are showing all sides of yourself to them and hopefully they are doing the same. After several attempts to get Ms Pretty's attention-that she claims bordered on stalking--what's wrong with just "stopping by"???? (OK, it was a five and a half hour drive). I had almost given up. There was no list. I just knew I had to see her again. Sometimes you just know, you know? Eternally grateful she didn't call the cops. |
Let's just say *someone* sang my dog to sleep--This song:
And accepted all of me and is encouraging, loving and honest and had already had his therapy--plus, he's got a great pompadour! <3 Quote:
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Pretty! That sneaky Ezee singing to your dog! :) that made me smile!!
I have had lists in the past and found special someones with everything on the list. Am I still with them? No. However, I don't have any exes (of over a month lol) I am not friends with since college. None of my exes has ever done anything so horrible to me I can't be their friends, and I think that is important...and making a list made that possible...I knew what traits were important to me in someone close. Maybe some of us are list makers and some not? I make lists, spreadsheets or itineraries for everything and sometimes even notebooks with tabs, so it is a given that in search for a victim...oooopssss...I mean GF, I would make lists...and the same goes for listmakers everywhere. lol. |
Ok people who like lists, keep them coming. ;)
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Romantic Will always ask me to dance even though I"m not good at it Cuddler Secure in themselves employed has own transportation Comes up with something other than "i don't know, what do YOU want to do" music lover thinks my terrible jokes are funny Calm That should pretty much do it. Here's hoping it isn't too long/strict a list! |
Great lists!!!!
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makes lists...lol
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Bumping for all those looking for love and for those who love lists. :)
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Good point. I have been with more than one woman who matched my "list", but am no longer with them. The "list" may equal a good fit for you, but that doesn't mean that the chemistry follows. Also, sometimes when you find love, the damn "list" goes out the window! One can find that something they didn't know they needed they do need, or what they thought they didn't want, they do want (like kids, for example). I think it is important to not be too strict when it comes to a "list", or you may miss out on something great! |
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Bumping for the newbies. :)
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My list is carved onto his back:)
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Lists...have been thinking of making a new one...but I really don't know what would even be on there any more.
Now that I have learned Integrity is not enough, what the hell would I put on a list? |
I'm gonna add to mine :)
She must love to cook cause I lobe to eat I wanna cook with her though sometimes lol |
Hey Love listers. hope you all have a wonderful fourth. Keep the hope alive. :)
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A very simple list:
1. Must...absolutely MUST get my sense of humour 2. Must not sneak raisins into my cinnamon buns. 3. Must have a penchant for pushing me up against the wall. Really...not too much to ask for. ;) |
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I added likes to cook :) But oh loves to kiss. Loves things girlie Bubble baths mani/pedi. Perfume lotion Must be ok with the fact I have no family. |
List's are for grocery shopping...
We are always changing and growing... Why limit yourself? Happy List making... |
There are lots of things I could put on a list I suppose, but I sat and thought about this a lot and decided to condense it to the things I felt were really the most important to me.
1. Must be able to have intelligent conversation. 2. Must be willing to communicate 3. Must have a kind heart 4. Must love me for who I am, try to understand the flaws and embrace the positives, and I will do the same for you. 5. Must be more than just vanilla |
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