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Just_G 03-16-2012 03:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cajun_dee (Post 548088)
Amen to THIS.

And I didn't mean that in a bad way....I have simply found that when people say they are "X", then they are always going to be "X"....they might change their ways for a while, but they always end up going back to "X". Does that make sense?

(and this is just MY personal experience I am speaking of)


girl_dee 03-16-2012 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Just_G (Post 548102)
And I didn't mean that in a bad way....I have simply found that when people say they are "X", then they are always going to be "X"....they might change their ways for a while, but they always end up going back to "X". Does that make sense?

(and this is just MY personal experience I am speaking of)



i knew exactly what you meant, and i agree and that is my experience too :)

firegal 03-17-2012 12:33 AM

No time like the present!
 
Well it time for me to learn about me AGAIN.

rediscover thine self! I have been so self absorbed in things that just were putting me in a place of emptyness and pain.

So its not so much about what ive learned but looking forward to the process of me LEARNING!


Terry :fireman:

Corkey 03-17-2012 01:26 AM

I have learned when the time comes and I stop learning I will be ashes.

Okiebug61 03-17-2012 07:31 AM

I've learned that loving someone is not only something in the opened eyed present but in the blind future. Thankfully she loves the same way.

kittygrrl 03-17-2012 11:44 AM

I've learned, I don't miss coffee, a healthy smoothie gives me tons more energy..coffee is a drug:|

Ginger 03-17-2012 06:58 PM

Today I learned how satisfying it is to sleep, what a beautiful place sleep can be.

kittygrrl 03-18-2012 12:50 PM

I've learned
 
... there is no such thing as forever..or should i amend that with forever can have very different contexts depending on who is using it..people will lie to you, and lie to themselves..make sure you are clear & honest if you decide to use that term in your relationships to avoid disappointment altogether don't use it at all (imo)here & now is where your focus should be, evaluate & make sure it's what you need not want you wish it to be

girl_dee 03-18-2012 07:28 PM

i've learned that you can become colder more jaded each time something hits you right in the face. Sometimes i wish i could learn never to let anything hurt me, ever again, then i could say i learned to shut off my hurt.

Martina 03-18-2012 07:46 PM

i've learned that people don't mean half the shit they say.

scootebaby 03-18-2012 07:51 PM

I have learned...


there has to be ugly in the world to help us appreciate the beauty more

some ppl need to try to run you down to make themselves look/feel better.

that people who really wanna know you will take the time to do so

i want to be a better person.

girl_dee 04-07-2012 06:34 AM

i've learned that life is just not all puffy clouds and rainbows. Those things are part of it, but living the reality of daily life, not a fantasy, is what i need in my life. i've learned i don't do well with not having a future laid out, goals, budgets, and a plan to meet those goals. i won't go through life coasting and not knowing, i need concrete plans and the action behind the plan. i've learned i need someone in my life who leads by example, not just empty words, i've learned i lose faith in people when they say one thing and do another, i've learned i need people in my life who make life happen for themselves, not let life happen to them. i have learned that i thrive with someone who gets all of this, wants to live a real life with me, and not play in a virtual bubble of playing house.


~ocean 04-07-2012 06:35 AM

i have learned always to trust my own instincts :))))

bkisbutchenuff 04-07-2012 07:04 AM

I have learned ... people do not present themsleves honestly - but as they want you to believe they are...
Also - I have learned that so many people are selfish and self centered...
I refuse to be that way or to give up hope!

ruffryder 04-16-2012 07:39 PM

Never make someone your priority, if you're only their option.

Okiebug61 04-17-2012 03:48 PM

I have learned that my patience is actually getting better as I get older. :-)

girl_dee 04-17-2012 05:45 PM

i am learning that i self impose stress and then don't handle it well :(

Metro 04-17-2012 06:38 PM

"Be weird. Be random. Be who you are. Because you never know who would love the person you hide."

@thecoolhunter on Twitter

sara-bera 04-17-2012 06:40 PM

Take nothing for granted. Ever.

MrSunshine 04-17-2012 07:05 PM

Life really is short. It's over in the blink of an eye.


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