I have tried it... I hate it... and... I am TERRIBLE at it!!!!

Historically, strapping on has never been my thing. But I am an evolving creature and the idea is growing in me with more and more allure. Change is coming! ;)

Thanks for the thread, Nat!

I love a strap on either way it's pointing.... <sigh> LOL

Strapping
 

Fluid. Sexy. If I am
lucky to find a partner who wants to be loved up like this.

Y'all make me smile. :D

My ex asked me to so I'm down for whatever and of course I've thought about it over the years. So there we were...I'm familiar with the strap as it's the one she uses with me. Is this a favorite of hers?! I don't know. Did she use it well? Ye she did! I'm excited but at the same time thinking what have I agreed to I hope I can pull this off. First task, put it on... It doesn't look as sexy as I thought it would and certainly not the style I would like. She laughs, I laugh, but we're still excited. We go for it...I had no stride and the strap starts to ride. My hips grew tired, and I couldn't imagine doing this for a long period of time...mind you I'm no pillow princess but I commend those who strap I'm fully aware of it takes! I'm tired just thinking about it. It wasn't working for me or her so we quickly called it quits. I felt bad for her...she let me, it was horrible and I hope she'll let someone else do this with her in her future and I didn't completely scar her lol.

Will I do it again...I want to say no, but I can't. So, maybe, but let's hope I learn a thing or two by then.

I love my cock. I no longer think of it as butch or femme. It is just my cock. I hope others enjoy it as much as I do

I find I am missing my cock lately. I feel a tad bit like something is missing from sexuality. My partner finds it very sexy when I strap, and we have a cock that is specific to him/us. I'm not sure why I am having a difficult time getting over that hurdle lately, even though we've talked about both wanting it!

I think there are some things I need to explore within myself about how I feel in my body and headspace when I strap. I definitely still feel Femme, but there's also this genderqueer, boi-ish side in there that wants to come out. I feel both at the same time--fully powerful in my Femme identity but also feeling a little bit like a boi.

Does anyone else feel like this about their Femme cock?

My boy side and my strapping have converged on occasion though they haven't always. I've really relished when they have.

I admit I have tried it because I wanted to please the butch I was with but I was terrible at it. And all I could think was it's going in the wrong direction.

I went through a time when my packer was tucked away. For some reason, I am feeling the need to wear it as much as I can. Just saying that I am loving my cock and its strap.

I had a Butch ask me to strap it on for her and I got so giddy and excited.

I am still waiting to try it out. Someday, hopefully. I am pretty sure that I will suck at strapping someone down, but hey.. it takes practice and patience.

I have strapped as a femme and now the switch as butch, but however I id strapping and femme cock is wonderful

Bump bump bump ;)

I have quite a new found love for strapping, much to my pleasant surprise. It hasn't changed how I identify and I still feel femme to the core, albeit very powerful.

I second though how tired the hips can get! Clearly I need more practice to build up the stamina.

Grr! ;)

:) ran into this today

Here is the thing
 

I'm an old soul, don't I know it? The new things are a bit awkward for me at first. However, if I am paired with someone that has the patience and willingness to take on the challenge of my sexual naiveté, well I think we could have a ton of fun. It's about trust. I've never been strapped or given it... My first response to the initial question was "me? Strap? HELL NO" and not because it is in any way disgusting it is just, hmm, I think I would need to understand the body of my lover more to be comfortable enough to wield a device and offer pleasure.
There is a popular trend these days where women are looking for women who are experienced, and can 'throw down' so to speak. That is all good I am sure, but the reality is that not everyone is at that champion gold metal level yet. That doesn't mean that the sex can't be good or even fantastic. I think it's just seldom is anyone willing to take the time to 'become' the better lover...
Now I have ranted, my apologies!
All of that wording and I just wanted to say this. I am shy of trying the strap as a femme, but if she wanted it, and was willing to have some patience with me, I'd give it a try. :D