Obviously the mother has failed. A child that age should know what to say or not. Sadly, it's the modern form of up bringing these days..to look away..to ignore..kids don't know their boundaries anymore.

Lardass - is this even a word?
 

The last time I was in public, I was called this by 2 army soldiers. I was dropping off a few things that were to be delivered to Haiti. Now, I have 2 speeds - slow & slower. Just how it is. The soldiers did not see me walk up. And had no clue I walk slowly.

There were soldiers everywhere, and of all ranks/positions. Well, some upper ranked men heard this, and pulled the 2 soldiers off the box collection, and were dismissed immediately. I was given an apology, and asked if I had time to tour the base, and have lunch with them. I declined. I was just wayy to embarassed.

I think being called any derrogatory name is the same as being called a fag, queer, or whatever. It is not meant in a favorable light. It is meant negatively. That is what needs to change in this country. And to think that most folks are overweight, and to have to deal with folks like Dr. Oz on TV who just goes on tangents about being overweight. It makes my blood boil. Personally, I am sick and tired of it all. I want to be told I am handsome. I want to hear that I smell so good. I want to hear that I am a snappy dresser. I want to hear the nice things. Not the ugly stuff all the time. It wears me down.

I just had to vent. Thanks for listening.

Andrew

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hey
 

To me I dont care if u slim jim or a beautiful gorgous butch femme mtf ftm . To me people should see what inside you . The personality , the humor , the whole self. To me i think people with love handles are gorgous.

andrew
 

people just see what on tv and if u notice all is slim jim. You dont see the gorgous full body people. Like i tell my friends if they dont like you or what they see then that their problem not yours.:snowysmiley:


andrew here a statement i heard from a doctor, Just because people maybe larger in body does not mean they are unhealthy. They was comparing two people one that was slender and one that was full bodied. they ask the audience who they thought was the most healthy. most pick the thin one. they was wrong it was the one that was full bodied, so people need to take note.

Casey35, (f)

Thank you for telling me that. It sure did brighten my day! :happyjump:

Andrew
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Brother Andrew,so sorry u had some ahole jerk make stupid comments like that.Buddy u bet in a fue years they will be pot bellied and bald as an egg,then I hope they remember the comments cause someone will shure say something to them at some point.Please keep doing the good things u do for folks as well as being the al around good person u are.

Casey35...I had a simular thing happen a fue years ago when I was going to college,the school had a nurseing program and they were doing a segment on healthy vs heavy.I was ask to be a part of the study 6 average fit ppl and 4 ppl that were in various sises of the heavy end of the scale.Out of it all the 4 heavyest out did 5 of the others in stamania,blood pressure,respitorey recovery on and off the tredmill as well as strength in lifting,pulling ,pushing ect.Recently I went to the doc for a chekup and my bp is 110/70,my lab work is as good as a healthy 35yro,repitory on the money(at least till everything blooms in the spriong ..then i'm toast)...even tho I still weigh 245 I have lots more muscel mass than is aparent...not to bad for 62yro.

Rockin

Wow. I didnt see this thread here. Until now. :) Bump. I hope everyone is enjoying their Phat Tuesday

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Good Morning Peeps :) Hope everyone has a good Thursday

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Where do the heavy guys go to buy their rash guard shirts for the beach? I end up wearing dark t-shirts. It works best for me.

When I was slimmer I could buy them off the rack at surf shops. Not any longer.


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I dont know Andrew... I dont even attempt to go swimming. I loved it when I was thinner. Havent done it in years.

Underworks has a compression swimsuit, tank and shorts. I don't know if you can get the pieces separately or not. Would one of the compression tanks in black work for swimming?

rashguards
 

i saw andrew's post earlier today about looking for a rashguard. so i started looking around (i have a lot of time on my hands these days so i make a good researcher!!!) and i have found a few. so no excuses to not enjoy the beach or a pool!
-nicole

this first site has quite a few options but here is one-
http://www.solartex.com/servlet/the-...us-Size/Detail

land's end has some options
http://www.landsend.com/ix/swimwear-...eSize=12&tab=6

http://www.landsend.com/pp/ShortSlee...5&origin=index

Fiercegrrl,

I found it! It is a bit expensive, but I am going to have to save up for it. Thank you! :bowdown:


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