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tazz 12-30-2011 12:45 PM

yes i would. i'm a fantastic catch!

Honey 01-01-2012 04:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by apretty (Post 495113)
me too! thankfully E's are green but I usually prefer brown--brown soulful terrier eyes.

YES !! Not only would I date me I'd fuck me too !!

starryeyes 01-01-2012 05:21 PM

Haha.... Yes!! Of course! I am fabulous! Lol :-D

*Anya* 01-01-2012 05:22 PM

No, I would not, not because I am not terrific (lol) but because:

1. I am not butch

2. I am attracted to traits in a butch that I may not have and that complement my own traits

3. I believe opposites do attract as long as the same core values match

StrongButch 02-24-2012 06:10 PM

Would you date yourself
 
Yes Yes Yes

chai~ 02-24-2012 06:23 PM

I would date me for some of my characteristics.
I'm not sexually attracted to femmes, but I do make a great femme bff!
I prefer masculine energy sexually.

As others have said about themselves, I can also be a handful, sometimes moody, forgetful, distracted, aloof, disinterested, crabby, emotional, and messy.

I would make a better best friend to myself!


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Metro 02-24-2012 10:44 PM

yes and no. most often i find myself gravitating toward those with a similar low-key personality. i am the strong silent type but by no means shy. creativity and shared values also set a good foundation for the types of relationships in which i thrive, see myself and feel most comfortable. and, while i salute other butches, i am physically attracted only to those of the femme persuasion.

Bad_boi 03-17-2012 04:55 PM

It might be fun for a while but we would be too similar. We would make good friends but not good lovers since constant contact with someone so similar would probably get annoying.

deedarino 03-17-2012 05:25 PM

I would definitely date myself. I would love that I was a good, honest, passionate person, intelligent and hilarious at the most appropriate moments. In laws wouldn't be soo bad and I would love my taste in music. Not to mention I am damn good kisser...AND a liberal! Oh yeah.

Eventually though, I would get on my nerves cause I can't cook worth a damn, I leave dishes in the sink, can never make up my mind, often want to stay home, and I would talk my own head off...then when I was in a quiet mood, I would be constantly be asking myself what I was thinking and we all know how irritating that is...

On second thought...

aishah 03-17-2012 05:27 PM

i prefer to date people who complement me rather than people who are exactly like me, but i look for similar qualities that i like about myself in other people...for example, joy, gratitude, satisfaction with life, someone who cares about social justice, has a good sense of humor, likes to cuddle, etc. :) so i guess i'd date myself (or someone who had similar quirks, values, outlook on life, and direction in life). i think i'm pretty fucking spectacular.

aishah 03-17-2012 06:03 PM

also, one of my favorite poems ever :)


WomenMoveMe 03-17-2012 06:05 PM

Oh, Good Lord, no!

Silverseastar 03-17-2012 07:07 PM

Hell yeah.

I'm well (self) employed, I'm creative, I'm hot, I'm smart, I'm funny (once I get to know you), I have a high sex drive, I'm always learning and growing as a person, I value family and community and friends, and I like doing all sorts of fun adventures (like going to IMsL soon, woohoo!).

But really it's all about the sex. It's the only reason I'm in this relationship with myself...hehe.

Just_G 03-17-2012 07:26 PM

Absolutely!!

-sense of humor....check
-loves KU basketball...check
-not a cheater.....check
-likes to go out when I do...check
-doesn't mind sequin tube top nights :winky:...check
-loves to dance....check
-loves to spend time with friends...check
-employed....check
-loves my dogs....check
-loves the beach....check
-loves to travel.....check
........the possibilities are ENDless! :clap:

If I had a femme clone, yeah, I'd be all over her! :cigar2:

girl_dee 03-17-2012 07:31 PM

i HAVE dated myself! i broke up with me but maintained a relationship

Random 03-17-2012 07:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WomenMoveMe (Post 548689)
Oh, Good Lord, no!

This was my EXACT thought when I saw the title of this thread...


well, I also added that I would probably strangle myself in my sleep...

While I do thing I am fine company and enjoy myself I may be a TAD high strung and moody at times...


just a tad...

justkim 03-17-2012 08:17 PM

Yes I would... well, except when I am grumpy... :blink:

Dude 03-17-2012 08:40 PM

but you would know why you were grumpy so you could fix it promptly
you would always know exactly what you were in the mood for
it doesnt sound like a bad gig to me

princessbelle 03-17-2012 08:42 PM

I have dated myself but never got past first base.

Oh wait....i take that back

Random 03-17-2012 08:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dude (Post 548862)
but you would know why you were grumpy so you could fix it promptly
you would always know exactly what you were in the mood for
it doesnt sound like a bad gig to me


But what if you are grumpy cause you haven't done something to someone in a while, but what you enjoy doing to someone else you DO NOT enjoy being done to you???

huh.. huh?

What then?

justkim 03-17-2012 08:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dude (Post 548862)
but you would know why you were grumpy so you could fix it promptly
you would always know exactly what you were in the mood for
it doesnt sound like a bad gig to me


Grumpy usually means I am tired and I need to take a NAP! So there is always a remedy...

Dude 03-17-2012 09:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Random (Post 548869)
But what if you are grumpy cause you haven't done something to someone in a while, but what you enjoy doing to someone else you DO NOT enjoy being done to you???

huh.. huh?

What then?

go poly
with someone who's also With themself(f)

Random 03-17-2012 10:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dude (Post 548880)
go poly
with someone who's also With themself(f)


hahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahah

mustangjeano 03-17-2012 10:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Random (Post 548910)
hahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahah

Hell No. I don't have the patience to deal with me.

~ocean 03-17-2012 11:05 PM

at least it would be real !!!! lol

genghisfawn 03-17-2012 11:51 PM

No, but there's a good reason...

I always say that if I dated someone who used my curling iron, lipstick, etc. it would end badly. So if I dated myself, all it would take would be me or me seeing my or my lipstick on myself or myself and the resulting breakup would be such a material and temporal conundrum that the consequences could be dastardly.

So maybe that's not a good idea.

The Oopster 03-18-2012 01:22 AM

i'm single so I sort of do date myself! :|

I give myself treats! I take myself to my favorite places! When I'm down I do something special for me! I spend time with me! I try to treat myself nicely! I cook for me! I do the chores for me! I'm taking me on vacation! I try to tell myself nice self about myself! I try to be honest with myself!

i think I do date me! :|

laruss 03-20-2012 10:58 PM

I would date myself in a minute and I do. I am fantastic, loyal, honest and fun.
And I know exactly what I like in bed so that is a bonus.

The only down fall would be the arguments. I don't like anyone touching my stuff, my art supplies especially.

But, at least I know I wouldn't wreak my books, I'm careful like that.

pinkgeek 03-21-2012 01:25 AM

the combined shoe collection would be worth it..........how do I love thee....let me count thy pairs........ :seeingstars:

Prudence 03-21-2012 04:09 AM

YES.....:dance2:

cane 03-21-2012 06:18 AM

Absolutely not! I mean don't get me wrong, I'm a nice person, but I don't think I could stand myself in the long run, I have no idea how my wife does it. I know I'm a handful, just to keep me and my ADD on the right track is almost a full time job.

Amazing woman...

Ginger 03-21-2012 07:46 AM

I would marry me.

LaneyDoll 03-21-2012 09:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kobi (Post 259513)

This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight.

This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches.

It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc.

And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?

Hell yes I would!!!

Not only do I know how to woo me, make me weak in the knees etc, I know everything I like in bed ;)

Honestly though, I may not. My life is pretty fast-paced and I really need someone to rein me in when I commit to too much. Since I move at the speed of sound, I do better with someone who reminds me why the quiet days/nights at home are so much fun and therapeutic.

:sparklyheart:

Jett 03-21-2012 09:48 AM

LOL... yes and actually I'd marry myself immediately before I got away... xD

I'm not perfect but I'm trustworthy, kind, loyal as hell and I already crack myself up all the time why not? I may be the only one who can truely handle and understand me... I deserve that...

lmao

clay 03-21-2012 09:57 AM

No I wouldn't because I am Butch and I only want to date femme...grins...
Not that I am not date worthy...I am a cool human being...I just am BUTCH...too butch for me...lol

Dude 03-21-2012 02:28 PM

I thought the thread was about who we are as people
not how we present or id.
A deeper delve but much more interesting.

I took myself to the movies ,then dinner last night.
swoon
Later I'm gonna buy me some expensive, new socks!

Sachita 03-21-2012 02:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by IslandScout (Post 550720)
I would marry me.


this is exactly how I feel about me

Queerasfck 03-21-2012 02:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dude (Post 551008)
I thought the thread was about who we are as people
not how we present or id.
A deeper delve but much more interesting.

I took myself to the movies ,then dinner last night.
swoon
Later I'm gonna buy me some expensive, new socks!


Sounds like you'll be able to at least get to 3rd base with yourself, and soon!


Medusa 03-21-2012 02:50 PM

Expensive new socks = The Butch Aphrodisiac.

BoDy*ShOt 03-21-2012 03:20 PM

yes, I would date myself today..

1..2 years ago - not so much.. I'd most likely love me and leave me.


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