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Blood Money
Chic Fil A's profits are going to support Uganda's "Kill The Gays" bill. Each one of those "ignorant" Christians/Zealots provided more income for that cause and a few other anti gay groups.
Murder, the legalization of allowing the hunting down of a human being. It's not just a civil right we are fighting for it's human rights. I'm pretty convinced that if "some" people could have it their way, we'd be hunted down with party music playing in the background. I hope every queer wakes the fuck up and votes, as a woman I feel I have double the target on my back since these people think they own my rights to my vagina as well. Not one queer dollar should be spent at this particular business. |
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But I certainly do think there are bigger fish to fry. Corporate scandals = least of lgbt/queer community's worries, imo. Edit: Do I think it sucks that these buffoons are funding the murder of the lgbt community in Uganda...yes. But I don't think that boycotting a restaurant is going to help the lgbt community Uganda, either. There are better ways, and the international community has managed to put pressure on the Ugandan government. Like its been mentioned earlier in the thread, movements take time and change takes time. |
Ender I don't understand why you say "Corporate scandals = least of lgbt/queer community's worries." Big corporations make lots of money and that money can be used to fund lots of hateful things. It can do a lot of damage.
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Well Ender I think capitalism as an economic system sucks but it's what we have. There's lots and lots of problems in this world.
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the issue that i see is that capitalism, at least in the u.s., is built on exploitation and inequality. the capitalist system that we have cannot exist without exploitation and inequality. so personally i have a hard time separating the two. i mean - in an immediate sense - don't spend money at chik-fil-a, spend your queer dollars elsewhere. in a long-term sense - if one is serious about ending poverty, which disproportionately affects women and queer people, and upending the systems of oppression that exist, we are going to have to dismantle the corporate system.
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Many valid and thought provoking points have been made here. Some reactionary, emotion fueled ones have surfaced as well. All are understandable. This is tricky and very annoying stuff. And everytime it rears its ugly head, I find myself grappling with the same issues: 1. I liked it better when I thought there were simple right and wrong answers to every dilemma. Today, I am pretty sure, there is no absolute right/wrong that fits every person and every situation. There are many points of view and beliefs and it behooves humans to find common ground on which to compromise so that a peaceful coexistence can emerge. It's possible but it removes the drama factor people seem to thrive on. 2. Diversity does not mean only that stuff that is acceptable. Diversity means differences, unlikeness, variety. As such the republicans and religious nutcases have as much right to their beliefs (as idiotic and contradictory as we might find them to be) as we do. If we cannot allow them their diversity, we are hard pressed to demand them to respect ours. I hate this cuz it causes me much grief but I believe it cuz of what I said in #1. 3. Groups that feel threatened act/react much like petulant 2 year olds. If we want to work toward a positive result, someone has to have the balls to put down the shovel, get out of the sandbox, and act like a freakin adult. Be nice if we could trade off on this now and then so all parties can practice being both kids and adults. 4. Ghandi, Martin Luther King......great leaders and thinkers knew hatred wasnt cured with hatred. This is fucking annoying yet true. We cannot fix republican religious hatred by making a mockery of their beliefs. Making a mockery of their beliefs adds to them feeling threatened AND it makes them look like they are being persecuted for their beliefs. This, in turn, makes them more ripe for a sympathetic following by people who ordinarily could care less. 5. Einstein said, insanity is doing the same things over and over and expecting a different result. Yet, we humans, try to solve things by employing the same strategies over and over again. Then we are perplexed when it doesnt work. I dont know what the answer is. But, I am pretty sure it is not going to be found in rehashing the same no-win shit/arguments/stances/strategies over and over and over again. |
Being an informed citizen and consumer is something I can control and do something about. It may not change the world but it is something tangible. And I do think that less money going to hate groups is a very good thing. Anti equality causes and hate groups do cause lots and lots of damage. If I can play a small part in slowing that machine down and not supporting it with my dollars I will.
I will keep an eye on corporations and other entities that help to fund anti equality and hate groups and I will not spend my money with them. That is something tangible that I can do. |
By a quick calculation, I've spent almost 2 years of my adult life in the United States and, until this controversy, I'd never heard of Chick-fil-a. Not sure why that is but a quick scan at their website indicates that their food is absolute rubbish. Therefore, I don't need to boycott Chick-fil-a as, whether homophobic or not, I wouldn't have been a patron. Similarly, I won't be kissing on Chick-fil-a premises as I'm not really one for public displays of affection, especially in cheap plastic booths (last time I did that, I was 15 or so).
However, just a few observations. The issue of religious views and the purposefulness of engaging with those who have dogmatic "old light" Christian faith. It's already been pointed out by some on this thread that there's little point in trying to use reason to convince someone who believes the bible's Old Testament (or, rather, selected extracts from it) in a literal sense. That's undoubtedly the case but, furthermore, it's not the religious fanatics that need to be convinced as regards LGBT rights. Rather, it's the middle ground, some of whom hold less repressive religious views and some who are atheist. It's the battle to win the hearts and minds of the middle ground that's key - that's an evolutionary process that is happening through positive representation of LGBT peoples in mainstream society. Secondly, as much as I admire the attachment that many Americans have to the US Constitution, don't forget that irrespective of whatever freedoms it offers and protection from Government interference, LGBT rights for US citizens are less than those in most other western countries. Added to that, the US Constitution effectively provides considerable power to the judiciary and, as most of us know, the judiciary can be as personally and politically motivated as any legislature or, for that matter, any human body. The US Constitution was framed at a time when protection from Government was important. Today, however, it is generally recognised (outside the US) that one of Government's roles is to protect its people (for example, from discriminatory labour practices) i.e. that the framework for a successful society is the Government to protect its people, not for people to need to be protected from Government. This continued US rhetoric about personal freedoms, in my view, hinders the progression of a society that offers basic protective rights - I was amazed at the chart, assuming it is accurate, that was posted in this thread showing the US states in which it is legal to dismiss employees for being LGBT. Great that the US has a constitution but, me, I prefer substantive rights. |
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So, your opinion is that it's okay to support a hate-based corporation and put money into the founder's pockets as long as you're only indirectly doing so by owning or supporting one of his franchises? I can guarantee you if I wanted to open a Dunkin Donuts, and it was owned by Focus on the Family, I would find another franchise to spend my money on. |
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I feel pretty much the same way about a "kiss in". What good does that really do? Does anyone really believe a "kiss in" is going to suddenly open people's eyes or change their opinion? |
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Anyone can spend their money however they see fit, including the people associated with ChikFilA, but I'll be damned if one penny of MY money is going to support their bullshit agenda. |
I think we should go have sex in front of every one of their businesses. Dirty kinky scary sex. Let's show up in drag. Let's show up naked. Let's show up mad as hell. Let's practice martial arts moves. Let's sing and dance and be our most outrageous selves. And look them in the eye and let them know that nothing they can ever do will make us change or go away.
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life can be very poignant at times.....
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Some very good points for me in your post, well said. Their children are the same ones who statistically will become homosexuals one day. Then what? the damage will have started at such a young age complicating matters beyond what already exists. |
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And there is no "either or" between the US constitution and substantive rights. In fact, that constitution has helped us guarantee substantive rights, any number of times. VOTING rights, for example. Freedom of the press. You can argue that the market means that we do not get much of a choice when we vote or that the Press has been reduced to cheap entertainment. How little coverage the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan have gotten is a national shame. But these freedoms still mean something. Republicans as we speak are working hard to restrict the franchise (requiring voters to show ID). They have a healthy fear of voters, especially minority voters. That is an encouraging sign. |
my feelings.......
i would have never had a problem if CFA or anyone else gave every penny of their profit to their own church, or belief organization. What i have an issue with is them giving their money to "ANTI" groups. Anti this and anti that is IMO trying to stop others from doing what they believe in. i feel funneling money and energy into anti groups defeats the whole purpose, what i fear is the gays ending up looking as ridiculous as the people lining up to buy a hate sandwich. Do what you want, promote your own beliefs all you want but leave everyone else the hell alone. It's kinda like what Mother Teresa said when they asked her to go to an Anti-War rally, she declined and said "if you have a Pro-Peace rally, i'll be there. " |
My feelings in a nutshell.....
To each their own on their personal beliefs but we do need to respect one another. Yes Dan Kathy has a right to free speech but what he does not have a right to do is use money to breed hate. Great article with some great eye opening facts on just where your money is going when you choose to support Chik Fil A....Is this really something we as a society should be agreeing with. These are the organizations Dan Kathy is choosing to support with the public dollar. I wonder if Dan Kathy was donating to organizations such as the Ku Klux Klan would folks still feel Dan Kathy has a right to do so...not likely! Excerpt "In 2010 The Family Research Center spent $25,000 lobbying congress to NOT condemn Uganda’s “Kill the Gays” bill. They compare homosexuals to pedophiles and the mentally ill, and claim that they abuse drugs and that they are not discriminated against." http://www.dailykos.com/story/2012/0...ve-Free-or-Die Now what really ticks me off is what is now happening to add insult to injury. If the 2 million wasn't enough to anti gay groups now it is being announced that profits from the "appreciation day" up to 30 million are going to be donated to these groups...smh good job at supporting his so called free speech. This is beyond free speech if it was then why does society not feel it is appropriate to support anti black businesses...same concept in my opinion. http://thenewcivilrightsmovement.com...12/08/03/45543 Let me add also I do not feel this is a "Christian" issue but an issue of religion and religious zealots. The two are entirely different in my eyes. By definition Christianity is to emulate the thoughts,ideas,and actions of Jesus which if you read the bible Jesus chose to associate and befriend those who others consider lower than others such as the thieves and prostitutes. His actions were those of love,compassion and acceptance unconditionally. Here is the part I do not get with these religious folk...they claim Jesus died on the cross for our sins and that he knew our sins before we ever committed them since he knows the end from the begining. Funny part is about this whole religion thing is that even in the bible it warns about religion and according to the bible the ones who persecuted Jesus were the religious folks. Christian=Christ like...not seeing much of that in all this. |
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OutQ on SirusXM was talking about the Kiss in and Chick-Fil-A, so I called, and got on the radio. I talked about the community service and KFC ideas and stuff and they were *not* very receptive... lol. I think they even cut me off. As is! :-(
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Ok call me a stick in the mud..... but i would subject myself or my partner 4 a demostration, for a public display like that. What would it prove?? Is that what we all want them 2 think?? That we are all about sex !? |
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Ok call me a stick in the mud..... but i would not subject myself or my partner 4 a demostration, for a public display like that. What would it prove?? Is that what we all want them 2 think?? That we are all about sex !? |
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Seriously! Right:|....they might just stop and stare way too much and then film cause they would enjoy it and learn something too...gross. Not on my watch. Gross. Not gonna see me or my girl doin the hippiddy dippitty... |
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hipptiy what??? ... lol |
Now this kiss in front of Chick-fil-a I think is cool. :)
http://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphoto...21393551_n.jpg |
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Since we are, rightly in my opinion, claiming the moral mantle of the civil rights movement and since we like to wrap ourselves up in the noble words of Martin Luther King, Jr., we should take lessons from them. One of the most powerful images from that era is a picture of a march where there are a number of marchers carrying a sign that simply reads, "I AM a Man". Simple. Dignified. What could the other side say about it? "No, negro, you aren't a man?" Certainly that was what the segregationists thought but saying that in front of Walter Cronkite, God and Everybody would only make them look worse than they already did. One of the brilliant tactics that my parent's generation adopted was to *not* hand the other side the rhetorical weapon with which to be beaten up with. The counter sit-in protestors didn't have kiss ins, they went to Woolworth's, they sat with dignity and let themselves be dragged away from the counter when their only offense was wanting a sandwich and a Coke which they were willing to pay for if they could get service. I understand that this statement isn't going to be popular because it appears to concede to much to the other side but I don't think that it does concede that much. I'm not even going so far as to suggest we shouldn't be as queer-as-we-wanna-be as a matter of going about our daily lives. I am saying that since we *know* the other side wants to paint us as sex obsessed and out of control, what we shouldn't do is hand them the opportunity to say "see! Look what the queer people did, they came into the lobby of this company that *clearly* doesn't want their business and started making out in the lobby!" We would do much better boycotting Chik-fil-a than trying to go for shock value which the kiss-in is designed to do; frighten the horses and shock the mundanes. Cheers Aj |
We buy from shops and products who support our rights, we do not buy from or support those who don't. Money sends a better message, no matter how one feels about marriage rights.
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Change of <3
Chick-Fil-A vows to stop donating to groups that oppose gay marriage including Focus on the Family and National Organization for Marriage. They said of their employees, "Discrimination will not be tolerated."
http://www.latimes.com/business/la-f...,4334485.story |
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