I believe I have a bit of adhd..
I can talk too much
I lose things
I can be too affectionate
I used to have a short temper but I have learned to tame it.
I smoke with something major( bad) happens in my life.
I used to be a slob. but I took control of that.
My daugher says I don't always have a filter. (workin on that)
I better stop here..lol

I don't ask for help.

Not loving myself. I finally "like" myself and I'm working on loving myself.

Going into my head and not staying in the now.

I am my toughest critic

Not assertive enough

I act first and afterwards think it through. Like grabbing 2 leashes on big dogs and not thinking that they might just pull me off my feet, which they did.

I forget my limitations and still think I'm in my 20's, then I'm hard on myself when I fail

I have traveled a long way these past few years making positive physical and mental changes. I am always striving to be a better me.

If anyone ever says life gets better or easier with age, run, they're lying through they're fucking teeth.

If anyone ever says that you are never too old to find love, listen to them, they really know what they are talking about. :cigar2:

Life-destroying, all-consuming sloth.

Too affectionate:blink: I don't think that's a fault....

:canoworms:Im fat

I sometimes feel the need to put others before myself.
I can be a bit of a workaholic.
I am not very spontaneous but I would really like to work on this.
I might over analyze a situation.
I am very independent and sometimes shut others out as a result.
I am very private about certain parts of my life even with my family, friends and coworkers however I am an open book with someone if I am in a relationship with them.

I misplace things, I can overanalyze when I am trying to understand something and if I am uncomfortable/nervous/confused , I can't always communicate as well as I can when my head is clear or when I know exactly how I feel/what I am thinking.

I speak before I think sometimes
I can be jealous(have got a whole lot better) but she still rears her ugly head from time to time
I can be demanding and bossy(think that's the Taurus in me which is why I need a "strong hand")
I can give to much of myself to others

Ewww
 

A friend of mine showed me this the other day and said it reminded him of me: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hybristophilia

I didn't argue too hard. I'm pretty sure that in this case, that qualifies as a fault.

I crush on everyone and get lost in this mental love affairs.

I attach very easily.

I've been there. It's pretty shitty. Do you especially attach to people who were there for you at a bad time in your life or who brought positive change to your life?

I think I attach harder to them than anyone. I get like glue, clingy. My brain runs through relationships and loves. Sometimes it's like sick.

Today...crabbiness.

The Adult Children of Alcoholics Laundry List covers many of my less than favorable traits nicely.

14 Characteristics of an Adult Child

These are characteristics we seem to have in common due to being brought up in an alcoholic household.

1. We became isolated and afraid of people and authority figures.

2. We became approval seekers and lost our identity in the process.

3. We are frightened by angry people and any personal criticism.

4. We either become alcoholics, marry them, or both, or find another compulsive personality such as a workaholic to fulfill our sick abandonment needs.

5. We live life from the viewpoint of victims and are attracted by that weakness in our love and friendship relationships.

6. We have an overdeveloped sense of responsibility and it is easier for us to be concerned with others rather than ourselves; this enables us not to look too closely at our own faults, etc.

7. We get guilt feelings when we stand up for ourselves instead of giving in to others.

8. We become addicted to excitement.

9. We confuse love and pity and tend to “love” people we can “pity” and “rescue”.

10. We have “stuffed” our feelings from our traumatic childhoods and have lost the ability to feel or express our feelings because it hurts so much (denial).

11. We judge ourselves harshly and have a very low sense of self-esteem.

12. We are dependent personalities who are terrified of abandonment and will do anything to hold on to a relationship in order not to experience painful abandonment feelings which we received from living with sick people who were never there emotionally for us.

13. Alcoholism is a family disease and we became para-alcoholics and took on the characteristics of that disease even though we did not pick up the drink.

14. Para-alcoholics are reactors rather than actors.– Tony A., 1978

I've had the exact same thing happen to me more than once. One of them I pushed away because of it.

Very honest and candid response.

I am a big jerk. I am not even ashamed about it.

1) Stubborn
2) Bitchy
3) Bossy
4) OCD
5) Over anyalyze everything!
6) Jaded
7) I take in strays
8) I am very hard on myself, others

I want to be there 24/7 for my family,my lady,my two baby chihuahuas,my two baby kittens and I CAN'T! :sigh:

My fault i have to work

I take too many naps.

My jokes aren't as funny as I think. (the horror)

I tend to be a slob when single.

I don't always communicate well.

Also, I procrastinate.

and and and...

Umm I beg to differ you are perfect the way you are AND the right woman will see what a great catch you are. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones bacon bits :)

thank you
 

Thank you! :)

You are sweet to me. :)

Shhh dont ruin my reputation of being a hard ass lol. Not sweet it's true.

old baggage
 

nothing like a rude awakening I've redeveloped a death grip lock on old baggage ....even the stuff I thought I let go of. And then it turns around and bites me on the ass when I 'm not looking. Luckily, I know that the old stuff doesn't serve me anymore.

Learning letting go is not a one time deal. It requires regular practice and patience with myself (and others). Accepting all of my not so-charming faults and making amends are also part of my process as I muddle through. Recognizing everything will eventually passes, even this.

1.That I believe all people are decent.
2. I trust too easy.
3. I play my music WAY to loud. lol
4.I sing terrible. lol
5. I eat way to fast

What are your faults?
 

My faults:

Terribly sensitive, sweet, focused, indispensably... charming, when the occasion calls for charming decorum.

I am direct in my style of communication, until I go 'commando' (meaning, a subtle indirectness).

I put myself first, not because I am selfish, but because I care about treating and giving myself the respect I deserve to have on a consistent basis.

I am quiet by nature, but interact with others reasonably well.

I have been told that my resting face is not exactly a beautiful face, but on the other hand, I've also been told that my smile makes up for my flawed faults.

I am not perfect at all but I a content with my own brand of human perfection.

I am too OCD or as it should be CDO lol

I am overly trusting and nice to a fault

I am loyal to the wrong people

I am very blunt where most folks take it as being mean

I'm anal when it comes to neatness and order! I like a place for everything and everything in its place!

Sigh, I tend to view the world through rose colored glasses. :rrose:

You are OCD!!!! Welcome to the club!

Thank you then..lol

You are welcome hahahahaha

My only fault, and it's really tiny and barely noticeable, is that someone as fabulous and wonderful as I am, shouldn't be as humble as I am.