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Rook, you know what they say about Ohio....if you don't like the weather, wait a little bit and it will change! lol.
I miss having someone too, but sometimes it's ok too. It's the days when I am "so" worked up "internally", that I really miss having someone....have to take "matters in my own hands" so to speak. |
Yeh, being single does have its major perks....
Don't have to be careful not to 'appreciate' a beautiful lady walkin by... Don't hafta worry that you're flirting too much for someone's taste.... Don't have to place a bet you're sleeping on the couch for a week or more simply cuz u asked someone out for a beer...... Don't have to worry the Game u wanna watch is gonna be cancelled due to the inevitable Season Finale of 'Desperate Housewives' or 'Law & Order'.... No squabbles over what to eat...or where to eat it.... No worrying about pissing a person off simply cuz well....they're moody....{that time of month, where's the chocolate ?!?!?!} Bad side of it? A pillow doesn't quite cuddle back... It's actually more fun to eat With someone. Healthy debates on idiotic stuff like 'which Owl is cuter', or 'Why a particular Ferret is overtly aggressive towards one and a total baby with another' (same for cats or dogs).... Going out alone can be an unpleasant adventure...{this must be a personal thing...I visit some places cuz it's fun to observe, NOT cruising, kthnxbai} A shower can be far more Interesting with company(hehe)..... A decent excuse to spend 2 fuggin hours shoppin for food. No need to 'appreciate' whatever/whomever walks by.... Another excuse to spend hours within a Florist shop..heh Yep, the joys of being QuirkyAlone in Ohio {it's sunny at the moment, btw} http://www.picamatic.com/show/2009/0...80_476x480.jpg :mohawk: |
Still working on trying to find the perks of being single. I guess not being under someone's thumb all the time. And I do enjoy flirting with all the lovely butchies!
I miss having someone to come home to, cuddle up to, ask advice to, make love to, make meals for, etc etc etc.... But I am looking forward to dating again! |
A great weekend to All !!
sometimes it is good to just spend time with one's self.... make sense ?
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There are lots of little "misses" but for me the big one seems to be feeling like someone especially cares to love me up if I've had a no-good very bad day. I carry a lot of responsibility in my day to day life and knowing I can just let go and let down the in charge place and be nurtured and safe is a huge one for me.
Even though I'm starting to date a little that type of trust and intimacy takes a while to really grow and usually comes about from feeling that a relationship is deepening. |
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Talking to myself is starting to get to me! And I'm tired of making all the decisions. I have to boss people around at work all day. I'd prefer to answer to someone when I got home! lololol |
For me....lonely femme....says it all.
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For me, being single the last 2 years has given me the opportunity to get a clear head, again. Now that I have done that, I can open my heart to others. I don't mind being single, but I miss the company of a partner. As much as I love my rescues, I miss not having someone to talk to at home. I can eat alone, but miss cooking and sharing meals with another. For as much as it's great waking up alone some days, it would be great waking with someone, too. Knowing I can be independent and not co-dependent is something I am relearning that I lost somewhere along the way in my last relationship. Have a great weekend singles :) |
Have a great week end , singles:glasses:
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I feel the same as Wolfy.
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Singles !
You all sound like very awesome and amazing people. My question is did anyone on the single thread ever date each other? If not why ? I can look at the posts and see a few really Great Couples forming here !!! Just an outside observation ! xoxo
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I have not dated anyone in this thread, but I do have an ex registered here that never comes to the site anymore. I'm probably the oldest amongst these singles, so reading their posts is enjoyable for me, also. |
In this particular thread? I'm not sure, diva....
I have a bad habit of not reading back-postings past 2 pages... Short attention span will eventually make Me forget my intention to Post.:blink: |
I did date someone from this thread. Hy lives in Ireland, which is hard to really make time for each other. We are still very good friends!
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Someone who cares about my day, good or bad. Who wants to know how the errands went. Who likes to find out what new song I enjoy. Who shares my small successes and little failures. Yes, I miss that. You are so right. |
Hey Singles, yes it would be nice if we could all find love with this thread. I wish it was that easy. If it was I would be hanging out here more often. I'm like Rook, I'm lucky if I read the whole page. Of course most of the time I can't find my cheaters( glasses). Lol
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I love this thread and will come back shortly to post. Have a great weekend, everyone!
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I'm a year out of a 14 year relationship (well technically two as the last year we cohabitated we had gone into room-mate mode) so just now putting my toes back into the dating pool. Most of the singles here live quite aways from me and I'm not sure if a LDR would work for me. I know reading other threads that people have made it work for them, and Zimmeh I see you gave it a try. How do the rest of you feel about LDR's? Oh by the way hope everyone has a great weekend! The weather here is just beautiful today! |
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