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morningstar55 03-28-2010 11:50 AM

its raining here... i took some zinc, asprins, ate some soup..... and i gotta drive...... well just for a lil bit......heading to Carrolton Ohiyaa..... bbl

Rockinonahigh 03-28-2010 01:21 PM

morning miss.softness...I made a dozen and there are just so many my son and I can eat...please help your self.

Soft*Silver 03-28-2010 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh (Post 74690)
morning miss.softness...I made a dozen and there are just so many my son and I can eat...please help your self.

I just need one! I LOVE biscuits!

ruthie14 03-28-2010 02:00 PM

Hello Lofters, Dunno how I feel today. Was feeling great after seeing Suzanne Westenhoffer last night with friends. But today, I guess all the stress *shrugs* I was in church and they baptized a baby today. I could never have any and now too poor and or old to adopt. So I started to cry. Got myself together, but put a real damper on my day.

morningstar55 03-28-2010 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 74715)
Hello Lofters, Dunno how I feel today. Was feeling great after seeing Suzanne Westenhoffer last night with friends. But today, I guess all the stress *shrugs* I was in church and they baptized a baby today. I could never have any and now too poor and or old to adopt. So I started to cry. Got myself together, but put a real damper on my day.

aww sorry to read you had a sad day......... hmmm what about fostering?? i dont know....... just a thought

ruthie14 03-28-2010 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55 (Post 74744)
aww sorry to read you had a sad day......... hmmm what about fostering?? i dont know....... just a thought

Thought about it, but they get taken away from you. Then you never see them again. Raised stepchildren for good part of thier growing up. Then the mother that never wanted them decides she does. They were teenagers by then and she left them alone alot. So she screwed them up. Between that and my exhusband, they don't talk to me anymore. Painful story, no one wanted them but me. Not even thier father. Fostering would be too much like that. I know there are not guarentees that your children will still want to be around you when they are grown, but it is far more likely if they are your children from birth or shortly after. Adopted or born of you. Fostering is almost a guarentee that they will leave you. Thanks anyway... It's a bad day... it will pass. It always does. You're a peach to give it some thought for me. I truely appriciate that.

morningstar55 03-28-2010 05:08 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14 (Post 74751)
Thought about it, but they get taken away from you. Then you never see them again. Raised stepchildren for good part of thier growing up. Then the mother that never wanted them decides she does. They were teenagers by then and she left them alone alot. So she screwed them up. Between that and my exhusband, they don't talk to me anymore. Painful story, no one wanted them but me. Not even thier father. Fostering would be too much like that. I know there are not guarentees that your children will still want to be around you when they are grown, but it is far more likely if they are your children from birth or shortly after. Adopted or born of you. Fostering is almost a guarentee that they will leave you. Thanks anyway... It's a bad day... it will pass. It always does. You're a peach to give it some thought for me. I truely appriciate that.

awwww......... sorry to hear about all that.. hey
just made some hot Green/white pear tea , and putting out some .. pepperridge farm..sausalito cookies they are chocolate chip with macadamia nuts am willing to share.. i promise i didnt cough on them.. LOL..

Soft*Silver 03-28-2010 06:16 PM

I have a friend who could never have children and every mother's day is so hard on her. She envies me for my child...even when she was at her worst behavior, she was still a blessing. I am sorry you could not have children.... there are no words to even suggest somehow it could be made better. My prayers will be for you to find comfort somehow ....

miss entycing 03-28-2010 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by raising2alone (Post 74473)
Well, a friend let me to this site and was glad to see this thread ;). I am 55 and raising 17 month old twins, so we are never too old I say. I think I am not only blessed to be 55 years young and feel great, but to experience being a "dad" which I always wanted. Wasn't planning on doing it alone but life is what it is right ;). Happy to be here!!!

:waterski:

I am SOOOO very happy to see you here- really, it made my week.
new babies? I am SO happy for you... I bet they are exquisite.
;)

good evening lovely people....
I brought bushels of NC goldens for all... got some yummy boysenberry jam, and a big ol jar of huckleberry jam as well!
Life is good-
:cheer:

Jet 03-28-2010 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by EntycingFemme (Post 74873)
I am SOOOO very happy to see you here- really, it made my week.
new babies? I am SO happy for you... I bet they are exquisite.
;)

good evening lovely people....
I brought bushels of NC goldens for all... got some yummy boysenberry jam, and a big ol jar of huckleberry jam as well!
Life is good-
:cheer:

I've never tasted those jams. Is that a southern thing?

Soft*Silver 03-28-2010 07:01 PM

speaking of jams,does anyone have recipes for hot pepper jam?

Rockinonahigh 03-28-2010 07:16 PM

Softness..hot pepper jam....not of the top of my head but give me a fue and I will see if I can find resipe for it.

raising2alone 03-28-2010 11:54 PM

Love my age!
 
Don't get me wrong, I love being my age, I think I am much smarter about raising kids now then I would have been. As to "how that happened" ;), well, guy meets girl, :), marriage, couple finds donor. It gets sad after that ;). :harp:

Now, about my twins, a boy and a girl, absolutely adorable and smart of course. A handful to be sure and spoiled rotten to the core but despite all of that they are great loving kids. They are very helpful with laundry, picking up their toys, speading them all over the house as well.

Happy to be here and thanks for the welcome...peace and blessings.

ruthie14 03-29-2010 05:07 AM

morning lofters.. Hope everyone has a great day!

miss entycing 03-29-2010 06:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Jet (Post 74879)
I've never tasted those jams. Is that a southern thing?

southern thing? um... don't really know- maybe just a berry thing.

morning Lofter's, have a lovely day.

morningstar55 03-29-2010 07:09 PM

evening Lofters
worked a bit today. feeling kinda crappy .... landed in North western Pa.. took a nap, .. laying around watching tv....
*sigh*

morningstar55 03-30-2010 07:00 AM

morning Lofters...... :gimmehug:

looks like its gona be a nice sunny day here so far in North west Pa ...
:)

miss entycing 03-30-2010 06:46 PM

evening Lofter's...
having a quiet night with the hubby and kitties, and all is well-
hope everyone is smiling and blissfully contented this evening!
:)

ruthie14 03-30-2010 07:32 PM

Evening lofters. Hope everyone is having a wonderful day! Bought my mom a beautiful hydrangea today for Easter. It is such a light pink it looks white. Georgous. Also bought more seeds including moonflowers. I have to wait for a cloudless night though, to see which way the moon travels. Love the way they smell at night. I love spring! Ruthie

Cowboi 03-30-2010 07:43 PM

Good Evening to all. Hope that everyone is enjoying some beautiful spring weather!
I am looking forward to a long weekend! All work and no play makes the Cowboi grouchy!! LoL
Have a pleasant night.


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