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Welcome to the Planet to everyone that's new here. Enjoy your stay.

Thanks TruTexan! I'm sure the link will prove to be very helpful :)

Welcome new members.

I haven't popped in to welcome anyone in a very long time and after reading through posts, there are plenty newbies...so, welcome to all the newbies. I hope you enjoy it here as much as those of us that have been here many years. I'm always up for making new friends. I don't post much, but I read here often and am usually here a couple times a day.

Hi Everyone! I am so happy to be here and hope to meet some like minded humans. I recently moved to Arizona and don't low many people here yet. Want to get out eventually and check out the scene. I'm a social butterfly mainly because I love to communicate/learn about others. Hope to find a safe haven here where I can be myself, tender, loving femme that I am!

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Originally Posted by FieryRedhead (Post 1021321)

Welcome to the planet!

Welcome Fiery... Have a great weekend

Welcome fiery redhead!

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Originally Posted by FieryRedhead (Post 1021321)

Hello FieryRedhead and welcome to the planet!!! I hope that you find this place a safe haven. We have a lot of great people here and some even in your neck of the woods. Enjoy!

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Originally Posted by laura1973 (Post 1019641)

Hello to everyone, my name is Laura and it's the first time that I post in this forum. I' m completely new to the butch-femme world. My story : I'm a married to a man) woman, mother of four ( two twins) and I've recently been cheating my husband with a butch. I'm not really proud of this.Actually I feel like shit. But God....this butch is faboulous.Not kidding.She make me feel like a ..natural woman like Aretha once said. She can make me curl my toes in bed. But ... I'm not totally happy you know, I feel guilty for my family and my husband. He's often away for work. I'm often left alone with the kids and she came into my life like a hurricane. I never had desire for a woman. But her is different. Ok sorry ..I just needed to vent a bit . Forgive me. !! No one know about the two of us of course.
Big Hugs

Hello Laura. Welcome to the planet. Sounds like you have a lot going on over there. I wish you much luck in your journey and hope you find a lot of useful information here as well as friends.

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Originally Posted by crazyCat (Post 1019672)

Hi. I'm crazyCat and very much a newbie. I'm new to the bf dynamic and hope to make some new friends and educate myself on this new discovery. :)

Hope everyone is having a super day. I'm off to enjoy this beautiful weather we're having!

Hi crazyCat!!! Welcome to the wonderful world of the butch/femme dance. I remember when I first found it many many many years ago and how exciting it was to realize that hey, there are women out there who like Butches. It was like I had finally found home. Anyway, hope you enjoy yourself here, make plenty of friends, and learn all about the butch/femme dynamic.

Welcome to Fiery! I hope you enjoy the site.

HI Fiery ! Welcome to the Planet, hope you enjoy your stay.

Welcome to Everyone that's new to the Planet. hope you enjoy your stay.

Hi all.
Just to say g'day. I've been out and proud since I was 15 and now I'm closer to 50 than 45. Pretty much all of that time I've tended to the butch side of the equation except for a couple of young years where tried and failed miserably at the femme thing.
I could be the only member from Adelaide in South Australia but who knows. Hoping that this forum is a bit busier than the b/f forums on Fetlife. (Too full of weirdo bio straight boys)
I've always had a huge weakness for butch on butch but these days high femme will get my dominant side to sit up and take notice. Have been reading some of the fiction on this site and whew.......

Welcome to the planet.

I am not a newbie anymore so I can do this!!!! Welcome!!!

:jester::jester::jester::jester:

Hello all!

I'm new here. Just wanted to find a place to have fun, laugh and enjoy new friends! Used to chat years ago, got away from it, now I'm back and this looks like a great place to be!

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Originally Posted by armani14 (Post 1023050)

Welcome armani14! See you in chat (and maybe in the threads).

Welcome all newbies to the Planet!

Newbie here, going by Aisha. I'm kind of non-gendered but I consider myself stone butch. Have been living as male for a while, but I'm having my doubts as to whether that completely fits. I prefer not to think about my birth assignment, but for what it's worth I am soon to undergo phalloplasty and I am very much looking forward to it.

The biggest question/point of confusion-and-much angst I have is the parts of calling myself stone that don't fit. I am bisexual (which people have said disqualifies me from being stone butch. I don't think it does.) Also, and this is the part I get judged harshly on--I don't get anything out of another person's pleasure. I refuse to be touched or penetrated because *I* don't like it, and I have to be the person who does all the touching/penetrating *because that is what pleases me.* I've been like that for...a while. I think it's intrinsic. Doesn't mean I can't love other people or that I'm inconsiderate to others' feelings, I just am how I am.

I've been through a lot of abusive psychiatry where my my gender and sexual preferences were used against me, and dated a lot of rotten eggs in the following attempt to normalize myself, and it's still a thing I tend to lose sleep over, so participating in a community of people who are similar in this regard seems like a good idea for not getting down on myself so much, even if it's listening/reading other people's posts.

I'm in this weird "twilight zone" where I look masculine for a woman and slightly feminine for a man, and I like that. Ideally I would look younger and grow my hair out longer so I can rock the greased-back ponytail, ah well, I'm working on it.

Welcome to the Planet, Aisha.