Single in Cali & don't want to be! Single that is... Anyone in the SF Bay Area, more specifically, the east bay? I seem to be most attracted to masculine quality butch/stud/boi, types but anything is possible & besides, who can't always use more friends right? So PM me if you would like to chat!! Btw... I'm 46 if that matters....
Have a great day all!!

recently single in Texas
 

Recently single... in San Antonio... not single by choice. Not looking for anything... just friends.
Have only lived in San Antonio for a year now, moved from My hometown, followed My girl out here, we fell apart after we moved here.
Bummer. I still love her deeply, but she's not happy anymore, so I guess I'll cool My jets for a while.

My single self has not been around much...so hello to all the singles. :D

Us singles really should be mingling a little more!!! How are you all?

Fantastic here in the Evergreen State, and ready to start my summer adventures.

Ur right Jenn we do need to mingle more around here..

Just hanging out in Indiana

Waving from B.C. Canada
 

Hello everyone! I am tired of being everyone's "friend". Maybe we should discuss approach and how to meet single folks on this site.

Should femmes approach the butches?

If a femme writes to a butch, is she seen as desperate?

If a femme talks to a butch first in chat, and asks where he lives, etc., is she seen as aggressive?

So far, trying to be polite and let the butch make the first move isn't working for a lot of us, so, we need a new approach obviously.

sick of sleeping alone,
Candice

Fever,

Good questions! Thanks for starting some conversation.

For me, I feel that if I like someone, I should be able to make it known. Even if that means me approaching them. I am a confident and independent woman, in all parts of my life. So, if me talking to them first makes them uncomfortable, maybe its not a good fit.

BUT, that being said. I still get shy when I meet new people most of the time. I am not sure what to say, or how to start.

Right now, I am trying to concentrate on getting to know a lot of new people. Having real conversations, making friends, and hoping that one of those amazing friendships will highlight deeper possibilities.

Wondering if anyone was around tonight.. Im bored

Its friday night..
 

Its friday night.. Whats everybody doing.. Im sitting around a bonfire drinking cold bud light & hanging out with friends ... Hope everyone has a great evenung

I am hanging out at my desk as usual.

Cleaning out my storage room, getting things together... going to have a yard sale tomorrow.

I love for femmes to make the first move! Words like aggressive and desperate would never enter my mind from anyone showing an interest in me. I would have to add that I'm a 2x4 butch tho and I don't get 'hints'.

Fresh fish
 

Yep, single and no baggage. I've been on "restriction" from women for a while, lol. Now I'm ready to mingle again.

Anybody here from the Deep South?

-cb

I'm not very good at this kinda thing since I'm a shy nerd and introvert but uh.... hi there...play any xbox lately? lol