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WolfyOne 11-29-2010 04:37 PM

Talked to R, she's still in a lot of pain. It's definite her gallbladder must come out but because she still has this infection in her intestines, they are not wanting to do the surgery. I think if they don't do something soon, the biopsy in her mediastinum will not take place on Dec 7th as scheduled. She has way too much going on all at one time and I know she just wants to be well. I just hope the doc decides what's most important and does that first. I feel so bad for her and now with this distance I can't even go visit her or at least be at the house for the kitties. I'm thankful for her friend that's been going over there every day to take care of them.

Please keep the prayers coming, the battle inside her is still at war

Thank you all so very much :)

1PlayfulFemme 11-29-2010 05:46 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne (Post 236076)
Tonight I'd like to say a prayer for Mindy's sister and her family
Yesterday a fire broke out in the attic of the house she and her family shared. Everyone got out and the firefighters got the cats and dogs
As happy as an ending as that is, they lost all their belongings. They are now all cramped together in a very small house with Mindy and her mom.
They're hoping the Salvation Army will help with clothing so the kids can go to school in different outfit every day.

So, I'm leaving a candle along with hope and faith


http://i214.photobucket.com/albums/c...ningcandle.gif

Quick lil side note, if she can find a chapter of the American Red Cross, they will give hotel vouchers, clothing vouchers, food vouchers, etc. It varies from place to place, but someone from their Disaster Response Team should be able to take care of them. It won't get them completely on their feet, but it's usually a good start...you can PM me if you would like/need any more info!

I will send a prayer up for them as well!

1PlayfulFemme 11-29-2010 06:02 PM

I light a candle
 
For my Darling Friend...who called today..for all you are going through..for all the emotions that come with it...I'm glad you called. :candle:

And for my BFF...I know how very hard this is for you. My thoughts are with both of you. I'm here 'round the clock for you. :candle:

Miss Scarlett 11-29-2010 07:55 PM

Lighting a candle for a very special person who is struggling financially right now. May she find wisdom, guidance and peace. :vigil:

sylvie 11-30-2010 08:52 AM

sending positive thoughts, light & warmth to all needing it today.. ((((huggggz))))

waxnrope 11-30-2010 11:40 AM

:candle: I light a candle today for Dolo and all who love and care about her. She was told by doc today that the goal is comfort care. Pain and other symptom management. No more chemotherapy, because it would interfere with her current quality of life. She knew what he was saying without his just coming out to say it. I could not ask the important things. To inquire how she felt about this. I was cowardly. Didn't want her to hear my voice if I asked. All I want now is for her to hang on til I get there. Please, a prayer for her comfort. For her kids. Her husband. And, for me, that I can bear it.:candle:

Spirit Dancer 11-30-2010 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by waxnrope (Post 238359)
:candle: I light a candle today for Dolo and all who love and care about her. She was told by doc today that the goal is comfort care. Pain and other symptom management. No more chemotherapy, because it would interfere with her current quality of life. She knew what he was saying without his just coming out to say it. I could not ask the important things. To inquire how she felt about this. I was cowardly. Didn't want her to hear my voice if I asked. All I want now is for her to hang on til I get there. Please, a prayer for her comfort. For her kids. Her husband. And, for me, that I can bear it.:candle:

Wax~
When you think there is no strength left,
dig deep to your inner strength it will be there.
Sending Dolo and her loved ones light and strength.
http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t...trength_hd.jpg
http://i246.photobucket.com/albums/g...y/strength.jpg

WolfyOne 11-30-2010 05:25 PM

Quick update on R

The surgeons finally decided to take her gallbladder without her having to be outpatient.
That's just the beginning of what needs to be taken care of so she can start on the path leading back to healthy again.

Keep the prayers coming
Tomorrow morning she has her gallbladder surgery

JustLovelyJenn 11-30-2010 05:57 PM

I light a candle for

My parents and safe journey back home tonight

Matthew that his cold will go away

My dear friend Stephanie who may be pregnant... FINALLY...

and Myself... to have to courage to take needed steps

Leigh 11-30-2010 06:55 PM

I light a candle for all who needs it, especially but not limited to:

~ Wolfy & R

~ Spirit Dancer & partner

~ Wax, Dolo & her family

~ Day & hys neice

~ Jenn, to guide her path with light and love

~ Myself, for this damn cold to go away & to have the courage to move on in life


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Miss Scarlett 11-30-2010 10:09 PM

:vigil: Lighting candles of protection, peace and reassurance for everyone in upstate SC, western NC and the Piedmont of NC and in north GA - we've got some bad weather coming through tonight.

katsarecool 11-30-2010 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett (Post 238975)
:vigil: Lighting candles of protection, peace and reassurance for everyone in upstate SC, western NC and the Piedmont of NC and in north GA - we've got some bad weather coming through tonight.

We sure did!!! It was pure hell for about 45 min tonight!!!! Some damage nearby but no injuries!!!!

Spirit Dancer 11-30-2010 10:58 PM

For those in need.
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Sam 11-30-2010 11:13 PM

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My heart goes out to each and everyone of you. Stay safe NC, SC and my GA peeps

miss entycing 12-01-2010 07:04 AM


Andrew, Jr. 12-01-2010 03:11 PM


My candles are burning for those who are sick, poor, needy, homeless, and grieving. I also have one burning for myself. :candle:

Andrew, Jr. 12-01-2010 03:56 PM

In honor of this being World AIDS Day, I have a white candle burning for those who have died from this horrible disease. Not just the famous like Ryan White, Arthur Ashe, Rock Hudson, & Isaac Asimov, but my friends, my brothers friends, yours and list just grows and grows.

JakeTulane 12-01-2010 04:37 PM

For those in need.. let this be your guide. When you feel your internal flame has been extinguished.. you will find your light here. We are still here... Never let go.. walk over the threshold and take the flame from someone who will guide you..to a safer place.. there is always hope.. just never let go..



miss entycing 12-01-2010 04:39 PM

I flare high and dissapear....
or smoulder eternally.
All I leave behind is all I am.

http://i306.photobucket.com/albums/n...ndle_Flame.jpg

Blade 12-01-2010 04:40 PM

Eagle Spirit
Spirit Dancer
EntycingFemme
Myself
Sweet
who are are felling a little under the weather today.

http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...eDy35RahhrznxH


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