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mustangjeano 02-05-2013 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Novelafemme (Post 743635)
I had my second colonoscopy yesterday and my doctor said everything looks perfect! No polyps and everything looks pink and healthy! YAY! So now I can move on to the five year screening plan. :)

I woke up from the anesthesia at the very end of the procedure and got to watch a bit of it. I find it so interesting to get a glimpse at the inner-workings of my body.

Such great news! It just makes my day. Thanks for sharing. Jeano

deb_U_taunt 02-06-2013 07:08 PM

Novelafemme HUGS!!!! And another congrats on the wonderful news. :)

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Originally Posted by Novelafemme (Post 743635)
I had my second colonoscopy yesterday and my doctor said everything looks perfect! No polyps and everything looks pink and healthy! YAY! So now I can move on to the five year screening plan. :)

I woke up from the anesthesia at the very end of the procedure and got to watch a bit of it. I find it so interesting to get a glimpse at the inner-workings of my body.


Novelafemme 02-07-2013 03:59 PM

Thanks Folks!!! I wasn't super worried, but it sure is nice to get a break from all the craziness of testing this and that!

Much love and health to you all <3

Tommi 02-07-2013 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Novelafemme (Post 744739)
Thanks Folks!!! I wasn't super worried, but it sure is nice to get a break from all the craziness of testing this and that!

Much love and health to you all <3


Ditto..backattcha. Sure is !
:hangloose:
:pile: :heartbeat:

deb_U_taunt 02-26-2013 04:33 PM

BRCA came back positive, not sure how I feel.

Well, besides shock.

DapperButch 02-26-2013 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by deb_U_taunt (Post 757389)
BRCA came back positive, not sure how I feel.

Well, besides shock.

Not sure what to say besides, "We're here for you".

{{{{{{Deb}}}}}} <--- all of us on the thread.

Boots13 02-26-2013 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by deb_U_taunt (Post 757389)
BRCA came back positive, not sure how I feel.

Well, besides shock.


It's shocking news, to say the least.
Time to go to battle? Let the arrows fly -

clay 02-26-2013 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by deb_U_taunt (Post 757389)
BRCA came back positive, not sure how I feel.

Well, besides shock.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{deb}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Let's brang out the weapons and slay this bitch...again!!!
Time to go to Battle.
I am on YOUR team..always was...always will be...
You know I love you, my bestie!!!...:wine: and :eatinghersheybar: and :sushi: and(f)

deb_U_taunt 02-26-2013 07:45 PM

Thank you, you all have been great support.

The plan of action:
First is to share with my daughter her 50/50 chance of having the gene this weekend. Then share with sisters, niece.
I am going to have my ovaries out in the next few months. (at least this surgery will be a band-aid surgery)
Continue to eat all this healthy vegan shit and supplements.
Find a clinical trial with my doctors.

Finally, have fun while working on the bucket list!!!

deb_U_taunt 02-26-2013 07:48 PM

I honestly can say I love you all. Its a very unconditional place to vent, pout and yeehaw.

mustangjeano 02-27-2013 01:47 AM

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Originally Posted by clay (Post 757429)
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{deb}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Let's brang out the weapons and slay this bitch...again!!!
Time to go to Battle.
I am on YOUR team..always was...always will be...
You know I love you, my bestie!!!...:wine: and :eatinghersheybar: and :sushi: and(f)

Where do I go to sign up for Deb's team. I'm in.!!!!!

mustangjeano 02-27-2013 01:54 AM

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Originally Posted by deb_U_taunt (Post 757389)
BRCA came back positive, not sure how I feel.

Well, besides shock.

Deb, I am just now seeing your post. It surely is a shock but you sound strong and ready to fight. I am sending love and healing energy to you.
There are lots of people here who love you and are in your corner. Come here to vent or whatever you feel like. Jeano

FireheartForever 02-27-2013 03:03 AM

~ my mother has cancer ~

while she is not meant to b with me much longer, i find myself @ a loss as to ask god what i can say for her in my prayers. i dont think anything can prepare me for the loss of another parent. am i supposed to b ready for this? if so...i cant say i feel it. chemo is suppose to extend her life...but i dont see it giving her any quality. all i know is that all the joy in my life has left..it is replaced with a knawing sorrow of what is eniveitable. i understand what its like to not b able to do anything for someone whom u love n cant......... the uneviable position of feelin helpless ....

deb_U_taunt 02-27-2013 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by mustangjeano (Post 757826)
Deb, I am just now seeing your post. It surely is a shock but you sound strong and ready to fight. I am sending love and healing energy to you.
There are lots of people here who love you and are in your corner. Come here to vent or whatever you feel like. Jeano


The shock is wearing off now. Its going to be a hard family conversation. I didn't share with them I was doing the test, since when I brought it up before it caused one sister to have a temper tantrum thinking I was telling her she was going to get cancer. She created some family drama, but its not just about her. Hell, its doesn't mean I will get cancer again.

deb_U_taunt 02-27-2013 09:06 AM

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Originally Posted by FireheartForever (Post 757832)
~ my mother has cancer ~

while she is not meant to b with me much longer, i find myself @ a loss as to ask god what i can say for her in my prayers. i dont think anything can prepare me for the loss of another parent. am i supposed to b ready for this? if so...i cant say i feel it. chemo is suppose to extend her life...but i dont see it giving her any quality. all i know is that all the joy in my life has left..it is replaced with a knawing sorrow of what is eniveitable. i understand what its like to not b able to do anything for someone whom u love n cant......... the uneviable position of feelin helpless ....

Fireheart, I am so sorry about your mom. I don't know what to say. It is hard to watch someone we love leave us. Hold on to good memories when you look in her eyes. Sending lots or love, prayers and hugs to you and your family.

clay 02-27-2013 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by mustangjeano (Post 757825)
Where do I go to sign up for Deb's team. I'm in.!!!!!

jean...you have always been on this amazing team here.....we are all chosen family here....I am honored to know you and call you a friend here on thsi Planet.
Your kind words, your warmth, and compassion as a loving human being here in this forum makes you part of each of us...thank YOU, jean. YOU are awesome...Go Team...Rah! Rah!

clay 02-27-2013 09:19 AM

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Originally Posted by FireheartForever (Post 757832)
~ my mother has cancer ~

while she is not meant to b with me much longer, i find myself @ a loss as to ask god what i can say for her in my prayers. i dont think anything can prepare me for the loss of another parent. am i supposed to b ready for this? if so...i cant say i feel it. chemo is suppose to extend her life...but i dont see it giving her any quality. all i know is that all the joy in my life has left..it is replaced with a knawing sorrow of what is eniveitable. i understand what its like to not b able to do anything for someone whom u love n cant......... the uneviable position of feelin helpless ....

{{{{{{{{{{{{{Fire}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}....as my beautiful BFF deb said..there are no words except the love, comfort, and support we each offer here. Make every moment you have with her a memory. Tell her of your love for here every chance you get. Sometimes a hug does wonders.
I know this is a tragic journey, heartbreaking...to feel so helpless, powerless to make things all better for your mom....but know we here send you love, support, and feel free to come and vent here anytime. May your mom and you find comfort and peace within for this journey. Perhaps a support group in your area...there are some incredible people there as well who could walk with you in this journey...ask the local SW at the hospital...I care....

JAGG 02-27-2013 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by deb_U_taunt (Post 757389)
BRCA came back positive, not sure how I feel.

Well, besides shock.

I guess they didn't learn their lesson last time. "They are on your left they are on your right they are in front of you and they are behind you. They can't get away this time !!"
LET ME SEE YOUR WARFACE !!!! I am only a phone call away friend .

Tommi 02-27-2013 10:38 PM

My best wishes to you and you and youuuuuuuuu
 
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Originally Posted by deb_U_taunt (Post 757576)
I honestly can say I love you all. Its a very unconditional place to vent, pout and yeehaw.


Yeah, it is, and it is open 24/7. :rrose:

Some rough stuff comes our way, and fight as we can, tough as we are, and gentle as a lamb at times, we understand.

My best advice came from my Mom's chemo oncologist.

Go have lunch, smile at each other and see if you have anything in your teeth. Other than that, share the good and the bad, and most of all just listen. The words and the tears will come and go.


Lung cancer, then a heart attack took my Mom too early, and she was gone when I was diagnosed with endometrial cancer, but I talked it over with her anyway. :tea:
Now, I need to look up some stuff....love the internet

mustangjeano 02-28-2013 01:55 AM

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Originally Posted by clay (Post 757936)
jean...you have always been on this amazing team here.....we are all chosen family here....I am honored to know you and call you a friend here on thsi Planet.
Your kind words, your warmth, and compassion as a loving human being here in this forum makes you part of each of us...thank YOU, jean. YOU are awesome...Go Team...Rah! Rah!

Thank you my brother. I am proud and blessed to be your friend. The folks who post on this thread are my adopted family . There are so many good people offering such love and support to each other here.


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