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I am going to just put it out there..
1. Clean Kitchen 2. Clean Bathroom 3. I always peekie in the fridge to check the cleanliness. :sorry: 4. Hand soaps 5. Dustless 6. A pet cat 7. Remote control fan haha 8. Art and photography are a big thing for me 9. big tubs 10. good company |
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and people want to know why the SHE is marginalized.
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ten more things i have for my Ms in the house
really soft blankets space in closet to hang clothes, floggers and store shoes a few empty drawers shelf space in bathroom closet all the makings for fresh veggie spring rolls specific items for coffee her way specific cereals bananas pnut butter honey |
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I want a pet pretentious twat. I shall name her Victor and make her do man jobs. It would be fun.
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Her chocolate chip cookies are off the chain (and I don't like many choc chip cookies)!!! |
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When I am not referring to a specific person, I do use he because that's the majority rule in my life. The majority of people I've partnered with, and tend to partner with, prefer he or hy over she. As you mentioned, using he as a pronoun for a butch woman is not appropriate. If I were partnered with a butch woman or was making specific reference to someone I know who identifies as a butch woman, I would make sure to address them accordingly, whether it be she, shy, zi, ze, or whatever feels right to them. Vixen, I certainly hope that your post wasn't made just to stir the pot. I chose not to quote it when answering you because, even though I've never had to fight within this community for my identity to be acknowledged, I found it offensive. I can be pretty dull about what's going on in others' heads, so if I'm up in arms about this, I can only imagine how hurtful your words are to other members of our community. |
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My answer to this thread. Common sense! Being clean is not something to have for a woman or anyone for that matter it is the right thing to do. Keep clean sheets, bathroom, kitchens, etc for yourself and to show respect for others who may share your space. Have the things that show your personality. If the woman loves you it is because of who you are, so must likely she is going to love your place. Have things that she has requested, in case of a visit. What you find in my home are pieces of me, my books, music, things that friends and family have given me, and the things that I enjoy like wine, coffee, and more books. |
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Since this thread is in The Trans Zone, and since I am primarily attracted to male~identified butches and/or transmen, I used "guy" (I believe) in my particular post. I did not include 'she' because I didn't feel the need to be inclusive.... as this is The Trans Zone. |
• a Grill {the kind u cook on}
• Pepperidge Farms orange Milanos.... • Pepperidge Farms Sausalito Crunchy cookies {getting the message?} ♦ Functional LG front washer/dryer.. ♦ Coffee.... ♦ Tea • Jelly Bellies {Mostly Popcorn and Pomegranite} • Wide variety of CD/DVD ♦ Comfortable Furniture...period. • Occasional bottle of Wine in a nicely Stocked Fridge. :candle::mohawk: |
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Diva, you pointed out something I had not even noticed. I rarely ever look at where a thread is located in the forums. I didn't realize this was the 'trans zone'. Point taken. ------- MsVixen just makes me mostly disgusted. I'm not at all surprised by her ignorance and lack of respect. However, that is not the first time a femme has said "all butches are he' to me...........the difference with this one is I read the words instead of them being said to my face. And it's not even the first time I have read those words. Been there done that more than once.......*yawn* |
10 things that I would love to encounter while at femme's house
1. a clean bathroom 2.a clean well stocked kitchen...i am a chef and they always want me to cook 3.clean bedroom...with the bed made 4.a good collection of books 5.good background music 6.a dog 7.flat screen tv in the bedroom 8.a good bottle of wine from chile or argentina 9.plants that are actually alive and full 10.a nice place to sit outside |
And now back to your regular programming....
Apologies for the minor derailment. The discussion about he/she has been moved to the red zone.
Cheers, Ms V |
40 Years of Marriage and Gone in an Instant
I almost fell over when I heard that Tipper and Al Gore were separating after 40 years of marriage. Wow. And to think that most of us would bend over backwards to make each other feel welcome just by talking online, meeting at bashes, parties, talking on the phone, and so on. |
I have been especially pleased to find a nice deep tub and lots of bath goodies readily at hand. I rather like cluttered when it feels comfy and well-stocked, but I am sort of a brambly hedge mouse like that.
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In no particular order, I would like:
Food that I will eat Beverages that I will drink A place to sit free of stuff and tacks and junk If I am staying overnight, a comfortable place to lay my head Boardgames and dice somewhere in the house Electronic connection (cell service, internet, etc) Good smelling things (whether it's flowers or cologne or whatever) Good feeling things (I like textures) Pets are nice, but certainly not required Photo albums or something along that line (I want to see where you come from) |
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